March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Storked]

some of our ladies that have gone quiet..

Shyiah: was one of the firsts an haven't heard from her aside from her announcement of her BFP. She used to be pretty active.

Mummy2one: Haven't heard from her in a long time. She was also active.

LuxLisbon: also silent. Also active.

Redmonkeysock: silent now. Active.

Hopestruck: silent. Active.

AngelSerenity: hasn't posted in a while. Was active.

Shefali: has fallen silent too.


Anyone in touch with any of them? I hope that they are well.

 

[Sweetz33]

Since I will still be in my current house...I shall be decorating like crazy, dressing up, and handing out tons of candy hehe

 

[nevergivingup]

So I'm not sure if I'm being reprimanded here or not? Maybe we should specify? I don't always comment back to every post. I miss so much as I work full time outside of the house and don't always have time to get on the computer at home. When I do post its usually sneaking on my phone at work. I feel like I've commented to a lot of girls' posts on here but yep, I do talk about myself and my pregnancy. Was it too much? Idk but I know one thing, I'm scared to now! I wish everyone the best. I love all u girls and all the different personalities. I love hearing about your lives. I LOVE hearing about pregnancies as that was the whole goal of everybody when they joined. I felt like when a lady talked about ttc issues, we supported her. Encouraged her. Tried to give advice or find solutions. I guess I was wrong? Idk. I guess I'm with Janelle on taking a break. Or maybe I just don't belong at all? So confused... I imagine this sounds bitter but all these posts have upset me and hurt my feelings. Is it okay for me to say that??

Ok...MnJ: How did i know you were going to respond and wonder if it's about you. Ma'am in my case you n I already went through this. What are you feeling upset ab now?!! Ma'am you explained your situation, as so did I, and I apologized and said I will do better. But why are the women here taken it so hard and being on the defense. MnJ you're ok with me, and as I told Janelley i love when you post, everytime you post. Don't take it so personal. Just learn from it like I did and do and be happy. Talk ab your pregnancy WE WANT TO HEAR, but just post to everyone so it won't seem all ab you.

But if you feel as if you need to take a break for what reason?? Please reconsider and continue this journey with us, but if you rather leave you'll be missed and hope you do come bk. Bc we def live each and everyone of you here!! I have your bk just as well as I have everyone elses, don't let feelings get in the way Bc we're a tight knot group here and you're part of it!

 

[Sweetz33]

On I had them..just couldn't do it...I love the hell outta collards though!

 

[Krissy485]

Oh halloween- well my still trying to figure out for sure what everyone is going to be....probably trick or treat at least one night if not more sometimes the towns around us will do it on different nights and probably go to boo at the zoo sometime soon!

 

[Sweetz33]

Alright.........here comes the school teacher in me.......I am noticing a lot of feelings have been hurt. We are an ubber sensitive group of ladies that is the truth...but we are here so that we can find someone who understands. Someone who hasn't lost, won't understand the fears, joys, anger, everything that we will. I was a lurker during my ttc. I was a frustrated, angry person. Coming here, even if it was just reading, kept my spirits up. When I got my bfp, I know I offended bc I was a lurker, so I shared my story.....in the process you ladies have all become dear close friends....some might say a crazy dysfunctional family full of a buttload of love!! We all need to understand that those in ttc have a hard time hearing about people talk only about their bfp and pregnancy......but ttc people need to understand that people who get their bfp are 1. Excited that they finally got it, and 2. Trying to show it does happen just not in OUR time, but God's time. We will all have our overly emotional days and hurt feelings. It is all part of being the complex creation called a woman. Lol! What we need to all understand is that we are all in this together. Just because Never, Lisa and myself are in 2nd tri...until that baby is in our arms, we are all still in the danger zone. We all need to be there for each other no matter what. Lets not let hurt feelings dismantle the family we have all become....that would make me sadder then any argument I have had with my DH.....we have all lost a child (some more then 1)...lets not loose this lovely group of supportive ladies over a few hurt feelings. Lets all say we at one point in time have been me focused (most likely not intentionally), but that we also need to see that others are still fighting, having hard times, and need the compassion that was shown in our direction. This is not directed at anyone in particular.....I'm guilty of this myself....I say we just all take a deep breath, smile, forgive, eat ice cream and watch Maury hehe

I love all of the ladies!

 

[nevergivingup]

PERFECTLY PUT STORK! Hahaha...those nasty old men...ewww, great way to try and make me feel better about them buzzards!! Hot teenager...try fully produced teenager, big butt, big boobs, thighs. I envied the breastless butless girls!! I won't be dressing up, or giving out candy, I don't know my country neighbors yet! Too scared! What are you dressing as?

Sweetz: Ooooo I can't wait until I can decorate. Do you have an outfit just for Halloween? Will DH be giving out candy too!??

Krissy: haha, It's def love still here just misunderstandings. And over here in SC it's Monday. See you're a day ahead that's why! And green tomatoes, we had a restaurant called that but I never went Bc of the name," Fried Green Tomatoes"! I guess I'm not as southern as I thought! And I thought eating chitlins, hamhock, made me southern!!

 

[Storked]

Sweetz the great and powerful orator!
You are very, very right.

 

[nevergivingup]

WELL PUT SWEETZ!!!!! LOVE YA MORE!!!! I think a tear fell, and heck yea, COLLARD GREENS are my favorite food!!

The jeremy Kyle show is on....not my favorite but it will do!

 

[Sweetz33]

PERFECTLY PUT STORK! Hahaha...those nasty old men...ewww, great way to try and make me feel better about them buzzards!! Hot teenager...try fully produced teenager, big butt, big boobs, thighs. I envied the breastless butless girls!! I won't be dressing up, or giving out candy, I don't know my country neighbors yet! Too scared! What are you dressing as?

Sweetz: Ooooo I can't wait until I can decorate. Do you have an outfit just for Halloween? Will DH be giving out candy too!??

Krissy: haha, It's def love still here just misunderstandings. And over here in SC it's Monday. See you're a day ahead that's why! And green tomatoes, we had a restaurant called that but I never went Bc of the name," Fried Green Tomatoes"! I guess I'm not as southern as I thought! And I thought eating chitlins, hamhock, made me southern!!

Dh will probably be working. Not sure what I'm going to dress as yet...ideas?

Oh and you are not truly southern until you have had hush puppies, grits w/butter, collards and sweet tea haha

 

[Storked]

Never, you just thought that you had big breasts, butt and thighs but what do you think now that you are pregnant?
I am with you though on envying girls with no curves. I would be happy with just nipples. No need for bras and smaller clothes right?

 

[Storked]

Oh and I forgot I add that I probably won't dress up. Inherently lazy. Or passing out candy either. I hide when strangers come to the door. You too?

Sweetz, check out pinterest for maternity costume ideas

 

[Sweetz33]

Good idea Storked!

 

[Storked]

Who else is a pinterest fan? Must confess that I don't check it much because people tend to rein the nastiest pictures food. Makes one lose faith in humanity

 

[Sweetz33]

Ok yet another random that will probably crack a few of you up...

Y'all know I have no shame. Well...I just ripped the biggest fart ever! I swear it came from the bowels of hell and rumbled through my whole body. I swear little bean just said his/her first swear....."wtf was that mom?!" Who was it in here that we were dying laughing talking about this? Storked? Jane? I can't remember.....I feel a lot better now though haha

 

[Storked]

We talked about farts Sweetz. But are you sure that is your claim to fame and wasn't the babe's fart? I know well the surprising amount of stink and air that can come out of babies

 

[Sweetz33]

If this came out of babe....I'm sure he/she would of gotten hurt haha

 

[Storked]

Deflated? Is your tummy smaller?

 

[Sweetz33]

Nope lol I could only hope haha

 

[Leather3280]

Lets c being random.....hmm. Lets c well with hubby and I we just moved to austin,tx and are waiting for our house to be finished building. We are hoping it will be finished by the end of this month. But for now we are staying with a very nice couple with our own room and they have a tv in every room which is very cool.
Lpj: I think it was u who suggested instead cups. We used them one month but that was it. I think it was because it was messy and it just seemed everything was seeping out. Hehe probably not to much tmi since there is butt pimple popping on here. Hehe.
Well on the staying with someone when ttc I'm not going to let it bother me and it doesn't bother DH at all. So I start retaking the metformin today, than I will start the cough syrup on Monday cd8, I suppose I should start eating carrots today(which of course is a great and healthy choice anyway),and use preseed when and if I notice no ewcm. For those of you still waiting for bfp as well baby dust and my prayers are with you. I'm praying this new start moving from Maricopa,AZ to Austin, TX will be a positive change in every way possible. My dad also is dealing with an intestine infection and also three quarter sized tumors on his liver that are malignant. So I'm trying to stay positive and he's hoping to come to austin and stay with us and do his therapy here. It's really hard for me because my dad has been in and out of prison since I was five yrs old and I haven't gotten to be around dad much for the past 20 some yrs and I want him to meet my children but we don't have any yet. Sorry about how long this is, it says right above this "quick reply" and isn't a quick reply hehe. Thanks everyone. I appreciate y'all.