March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

Hi Ladies!!!
I have to make a point of checking the board more often, I miss a lot in a couple of days, :lol:

Bamagurl: My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I'm praying for a strong heartbeat at your appointment tomorrow. Your fears are completely understandable and reasonable, and all of here are supporting you. I'm hopeful that this is your rainbow baby, and you're going to get to hold him/her soon! :hugs:

Leather: I feel the same as you, I'm willing to endure any symptoms of being preggo as long as it means I get to hold my rainbow baby at the end of it!! So as weird as it sounds, I'm looking forward to symptoms when I finally get my BFP... bring it on!! I can't wait until you test!! my fingers are crossed!!
Also, I'm sooooo sorry to hear about your cousin losing her baby at 8 months preg. I can't begin to imagine how devastated she is. Even though I don't know her, I'll send a prayer her way


Never: hahaha, very funny. I didn't want to sound to presumptuous by saying I was a regular poster- I still feel a bit "newbie-ish", but you ladies have been awesome in welcoming me, so I guess now I'm a regular :cool: I glad you went to the doc, and found out it's only a heat rash, I hope the cream gives you some relief!! Also, both you and Sweetz have very sweet DH's! I love that they are concerned about the dangers of haunted houses may pose to you guys and your rainbow babies - that's so awesome :happydance: DH's do have their moments when they surprise us don't they??

Sweetz: Speaking of DH's surprising us,:rofl: Very funny "booger in shower" story. OMG, I feel your pain, my DH blows his nose in the shower too, totally grosses me out. I'm like why??? Wait till you're out of the shower, and use a tissue!!! But I've never found a booger in the shower, thank goodness

Lpj: Loved the baby scan pic!! I'm voting for Boy!!!

Mandi: Well, if AF does show her ugly face, then yes take a drink to let off frustration, but remember Happy thoughts!!! We have next month to get your :bfp:, which means lots and lots of BD!! :dust:

Garfie: Hope your son is feeling better.

:hi: to all the other ladies, hope all is going well with everyone.

AFM: same, CM is pretty non-existent, too early for me to O yet. Which is good because :growlmad: at DH. I'm probably only woman with this prob, but it's been almost a year of marriage, and he still treats the household chores as if we are roommates - he washes only the dishes he uses, doesn't wash dishes if I cook (although he did put up the leftovers the other day, so babysteps), and he has yet to clean a toilet, clean the shower, or empty the dishwasher. but he does vacuum, sooooo I'm frustrated, advice would be welcome (p.s. I need to get him on track in time for my O so we can :sex:, lol)
 
I feel llike I am cheating on my other threads when I come in here.. I LOVE this thread!!
 
Okay, disclaimer about me.....
as you can see from my previous post, I'm a bit long-winded when I write, I start and then can't stop :rofl: I keep thinking of things I want to say.
So I'll apologize now for my book length posts :blush:
 
geeze I go to the park for a few hours and I have pages to read! Ahh! Lets see;

Leather- I agree with Never-go get checked so you can stop worrying about your swollen gland. I'm sure it is nothing... :thumbup: and HOW did you NOT test??? you have way more will power than I do!I think you should :test:


Never- I am doing OPK partly to see if my body will even O before I get AF, and partly because, if the timing is right and it has been past the 2 weeks, we will go ahead and go for it.. IF my husband is in town. I just want to know if my body is back to working properly. Does that make sense? of course I am hoping to O rather than get AF, but I am leaving it in God's hands. i really feel like if I do get my smiley face, and my husband is here and is willing, it is God's way of telling me we are ready and to GO FOR IT! If I get AF, its not time yet, and thats ok:)


Mandi- I hope its not AF for you, but if it is, we will be pretty close to TTC buddies.. I'm waiting for mine to start, hopefully towards the middle of next week, so we will be very close.. a week off maybe? I would rather it be IB though, and you report your BFP instead! As for the :wine:, if AF comes, girl, go for it! there is no harm in drinking a glass of wine...and you have waaaay more will power than I do. I drink a glass just about every night! I always tell myself "red wine is good for you." Hehe:haha:


:hi: to everyone else and hope you are having good days!
Awww thanx runner girl, gutted she is here it is the :witch: was only my usual 26 day cycle this time, thnk i need to work out my luteal phase or something cos i think i Otd 3 days before my app says i did, only know that due to the cm i had , but not that that made any difference cos me n OH DTD every 2 days sooooo , well heres to next month, hopefully for your sake we wont be ttc buddies and you get BFP , i only drink when ive got my AV as i try to do everything right , its not working though lol maybe i should go out get plastered then DTD lol you always here of people getting pregnant on nights out lol , oh well heres to next monh , thanx for your reply hun, and good luck x
 
AFM: same, CM is pretty non-existent, too early for me to O yet. Which is good because :growlmad: at DH. I'm probably only woman with this prob, but it's been almost a year of marriage, and he still treats the household chores as if we are roommates - he washes only the dishes he uses, doesn't wash dishes if I cook (although he did put up the leftovers the other day, so babysteps), and he has yet to clean a toilet, clean the shower, or empty the dishwasher. but he does vacuum, sooooo I'm frustrated, advice would be welcome (p.s. I need to get him on track in time for my O so we can :sex:, lol)

This is so funny! Mine is THE SAME way.... maybe even worse! he may rinse off his dishes, but he cant be bothered to lift up his plate and place it into the dishwasher, which happens to be RIGHT NEXT TO the sink :haha: I say that jokingly, but its actually not funny! He doesnt wash dishes either when I cook, and I have been bringing up that unspoken 'rule' for years..(we've been married 3, dated 2 years before that) He will not vacuum unless asked and does such a terrible job that I have to re-do it, so I never ask.. the only things he does well without being reminded is taking out the trash, washing his own laundry, and using the squeegie thing on the shower.. I try to use those things to build on when asking him to do other chores like emptying the dishwasher, and folding clothes, but its a never ending battle. I say things like, "thank you so much for taking the trash out, babe," or "that was so sweet of you to do the laundry, now can you help me fold?" It sometimes works, but Im never met without groans or complaints...I wish I had advice for you, but I am anxious to hear what others say.. Im still holding my breath that my husband will get better at helping around the house!
 
I like the idea of positive reinforcement runnergrl. Kind of like the pavlov's dog training, lol. But I'm kind of scared he won't learn :shrug:, since your DH is still in his habits after 3 years of marriage. There must be a better way to train our DH's, :rofl:
 
Runnergrl: I think the will power comes from not wanting to be disappointed. So in your thoughts I "O" on the 14th? And when mean test do you mean right this Second or tmr Morning. Hehe. I feel like investigating or something:haha: or giving you the fifth degree/;). Lol. I will as soon as can about the doctors app.have to wait a bit DH doesn't remember where he put our insurance cards at the moment. Thanks I appreciate your help on my chart.
 
Trybabydream: thank you so much for praying for cousin, we grew up around each other when we were little but we weren't ever really that close. It's pretty sad actually when people move away and lose contact with each other.
About the chore thing I am a stay at home wife, which some DH's wouldn't believe it's a really job but it is. I like being able to be at home at night when he comes and having dinner ready on the table(I'm so looking forward to cooking again in my new home!). I don't mind the dish and I usually end up washing by hand cause I hated my dishwasher cause it always made my dishes spotty so I would have to rewash them. Than when it comes to asking my DH to wash dishes the one to two times I did, the first he used cold water and the dishes were still oily(come to find in Malaysia(where he's from originally)they use cool water to clean their dishes(I'm thinking that is unsanitary). Then after that I told him to get dishes clean you have to use soap and hot water. Lets just say that I don't ask him to wash dishes very much at all, since I usually get upset with when I do. Lol. So mostly I just once and a while ask him to take out the garbage(if he remembers). I think most men are like that about washing dishes except my little bro' Samuel(he's almost 30)he will wash dishes without being asked. Actually I just heard something about my bro' yesterday from mom, he had gotten these big bumps on his bum or bum crack(hehe):blush: and he actually sliced one open,blood, and pus came out. So he went to work and the next thing you know his shorts are full of blood:saywhat: yup it's true! So I guess long story short he ended up going into the emergency room cause he was bleeding that much and the doctor told him that would be lancing the other just like he lanced the first but the difference was they gave him a shot :muaha:and he said a long painful one( i feel for my :baby: bro' don't get me wrong he is just plan weird and I thought I was the weird one :haha:) the doctors told him that they could bleed for a couple of weeks. I think they were something to do with hemroids.


Hey Garfie: How's your son feeling after his fever hopefully he's not feeling any other symptoms like a cold or flu and he's bounced back quickly as kids tend to do. They are amazing balls of energy that I wish I could bottle up for myself.
 
Never - Hello BnB bff! Funny you mentioned me working from home. I am just now starting to do that again. I'd been going into the office in light of all of the house guests we've had over time. I am doing well. Hubby and I just told our parents. My dad is like "wow you make me look old", mom is thrilled. My inlaws are like "we been waiting!". All in all, everyone is thrilled.

Sweetz - I am so sorry to hear about the wall ornament your husband left for you. Yuck! Tell him the next time he leaves you gift such as that, he will have to clean up the resulting gift that you leave.

Storked - happy moving! We one more step to me visiting and eating all of your baked and cooked goods. Don't work to hard and hurry back!

Bama - praying for you, Dear. I am so glad that logged in today, just in time to read your post. I will definitely make you and your baby a prayer point for me tonight. I trust that all will go well and you will get to see an awesome picture of the little one!

Garfie - Hello love! I always love reading your posts. I feel your positivity through your writings.

Leather - Sorry to hear about your swollen lymph node. I think you should get it checked out, not because I think you have cancer (GOD forbid!) but because you may a cold that is linger ... you need to clear that hun. Being sick and pregnant is no fun!

Tybabydreams - roommate wars is it. LOL. My husband only takes out the trash ... so beat that! I am working on him getting more involved with household stuff but the way we live is the way he and I grew up .. traditional. BOO!

runnergrl - this board is what it is because of people like you that join. As for cheating on your thread, look at it as a polygamist relationship. To wives/husbands that know about each other and agree to co-exist.

Mandi and all of the new gals that I am yet to meet. Welcome! I look forward to learning more about each of you!

AFM - I went for my ob teaching session today. Soooo much information. I was to do blood work but I knew I wasn't hydrated enough and thus asked to reschedule for Thursday *sips on 24 oz water bottle*. I sure hope they will be able to get what they need because my veins are quite stubborn at times. I also schedule my 12 weeks scan during the week of Thanksgiving. Oh! The doctor mentioned that our 3 D machine is so good that they may be able to determine the gender. I'm excited but I will take whatever they tell me on that day as a best guess until we confirm during a subsequent appointment.
 
Runnergrl: I think the will power comes from not wanting to be disappointed. So in your thoughts I "O" on the 14th? And when mean test do you mean right this Second or tmr Morning. Hehe. I feel like investigating or something:haha: or giving you the fifth degree/;). Lol. I will as soon as can about the doctors app.have to wait a bit DH doesn't remember where he put our insurance cards at the moment. Thanks I appreciate your help on my chart.

Yes, IMO-you ovulated on cd14. An I'm just giving you a hard time about testing:haha: you can test whenever you would like. I'm anxious to see your BFP tomorrow!
 
Hello ladies....

Ahhh i just posted this morning and come bk to a bunch of pages.....LOV-ING IT!!

Leather: Awe thanks ma'am, that made me feel so warn inside!! Im sooo happy you can relate to me and that i make you feel better. that so seriously makes me feel warm inside(and its def not Hormones!) And its ok to feel closer to feel a bond with other people then your family thats how i found this site, although my sister had a m/c i still felt like i couldnt talk to her ab my loss or how im feeling. I love being able to express myself here bc yall women dont hold bk with yal feelings either. thank you. And i so forgot to comment on your cousin loss at 8 months. Im soo sorry for her and i cant imagine the pain she is feeling but i will def be praying that she finds peace and as the days go by. No one can imagine that feeling:cry: And i so love how you think and express yourself, esp. ab how GOD is real. Just to think how we women can grow and living being in our womb and all we have to do is carry it and our body knows exactly what to do week to week is so amazing that scientist cannot possibily believe that its evolution that blessing is simply God. And i can understand ab wanting to wait to test. Its still early ma'am, i only got my BFP's at 12DPO, but i tested my heart out every other day prior to it...it was a whirlwind of emotions, of course, but your soon BFP will be worth it.

Tybabydreams: hahha.....my "regular" thread buddy!! And def write your books girl,....we love reading them!! Thats what we're here for to express ourselves in essays or term papers if we have to get our point across! And your DH story i think is cute, im a housewife/student so my DH dosent lift a finger to do anything and honestly i love it..almost.....but he wasnt like that when we were dating...after we got married....thats when i became his love servant but hey he works his butt off for me so i cant be to catty with him. But it takes time to instill chores into men, but it will get better as yall marriage go on.

Mandi: Sorry ab AF showing ma'am, i was really hoping it was IB until i continued reading ...grrrr :growlmad:But its def ok ma'am, its still November and Dec to come...dont give up!! It'll come, and def enjoy yourself but getting wasted only works for the ones who doesent want to be prego or had a 1 night stand with an ex or stranger it hardly ever works for "Our :haha:" kind. We are a peculiar people....TTC WOMEN!!

Runnergrl: you def dont sound crazy or make it sound confusing. I did the same thing as you after my m/c. I was ready too and you will get it too. I got my BFP after m/c and b4 AF came and with your awesome mind set ab whatever God allows you will get it too, thats the best way to think and go ab it so you wont be to dissappointed or let down bc you know this is in Gods timing..not ours. So opk away ma'am until that body gets back to normal and then let the :sex: BEGIN!! And o yea my DH was working over the road too so bc my opks didnt work and bc i wanted my DH after 3-4 wks of waiting i dived on him 2x's and i believe thats all it took. GO FOR IT Runnergrl>you got that name for a reason!! O and i love that you love this thread. Thanks to you for making it sooo awesome.

BayBeeEm: My BNB BFF :hugs: You def have the best job ever....i so would love that to be prego and work at home!! And im going to need for you to drink more h2o ma'am!!!!!!! You know you had those stubborn veins...as do i! But im glad you learned alot! Im soooo still over the moon for you ma'am! You started in the beginning with me wanting it soo bad with an awesome attitude and you got it and i just love hearing you talk ab it,bc it really does show that miracles does happen we just have to be patient. And yayyy on 3D scan..to see what your miracle baby is...OOOOOOOooo im soo excited...and its going to be around Thanksgiving!! Now i will have to be on BNB on Turkey Day!

Lpjkp: Forgive me ma'am, i wanted to reply on your scan post but it slipped my mind. BUt what an awesome scan pic of your beautiful boy or girl!! Im a bit confused still at reading u/s pics but is that the babes bent up bc if not then im yelling "Boy"!

Garfie: Im always in love with your positivity. And I def enjoyed GFJ at least the Grapefruits itself. It def did something. And my cycles were long but are you taking anything else with GFJ?

Bamagurl: Cant wait to hear ab your appt.

Hello to all the ladies!!!

AFM: The prescribe cream is awesome!! Im no longer itching at least not right now.
 
Ok ladies I think I know what's wrong with my throat. It's my right tonsil, I forgot the tonsils are located right behind the tongue.:dohh: hehe stupid me. So tomorrow I'm going to gargle with warm salty water and drink plenty of fluids. I asked DH to bring me back some tea packets from work and than I will drink some hot tea tmr evening as well. I feel more at ease now. I believe it's cause of The Lord. You see we went to our first bible study 5hrs ago and it was wonderful. Do you ladies know the passage in Mark(ch.3 vs1-3 I think) it's where Jesus goes into the synagogue on the sabbath and the Pharisees are laying a trap for Him there, using a man who has a crippled up hand. Of course Jesus knows what they are trying to do and in the book of Mark it says, Jesus got angry at the Pharisees for there hardened hearts. So he tells or ask them is better to heal or kill on the sabbath and than he tells the man stretch out your hand, he does and his hand becomes whole. The Pharisees used that as something to condemn Jesus with. But tonight was the first I realized this: I realized for the first time in my life that the Pharisees never noticed the crippled hand being out stretched and that as soon it was it became whole just like there own hands. I just couldn't fathom how the Pharisees could miss something so awesome and miraculous! All they could dwell on was hurting Jesus for all the problems he was causing for them and the "law". I don't know they can miss that and also not believe Jesus whom He said He was, the son of God. Who else could such wondrous and awe inspiring things! This made me think of all the miracles that are still happening to this day. I wanted to encourage you ladies with this little comment: remember that miracles are possible and don't ever give up. The Lord wants to give us the desires of our hearts and I believe that for all you ladies on here. Babies are miracles in themselves and who is the miracle worker? The Lord! So I say again I will believe this miracle for all of you ladies and please believe in it with me as well
 
Good day to all of you ladies. Going to go back and read through the post to catch up with folks. I was so busy yesterday afternoon picking my friend up from the hospital and then taking her grocery shopping. She has a condition that makes walking around the store exhausting and bad for her heart, so it was extra slow going around the store yesterday!! Anyway, looking forward to TTC into November if I end up out by the end of October, because I will have my copy of Magic Mike in my home to provide that extra motivation to TTC. Released 10/23 to my extreme delight :happydance:
 
Aw Leather, i so love reading the bible and once God blesses you with that understanding of whats going on in it its like you cant put it down. Thanks for that story of the Pharisees, im going to read up on it today. I sooo love your courage and honesty and the fact that youre not afraid to talk ab God and how good and real he is. Thank You sooo much for being a part of this thread!!! Now about that testing...is today the day???????

MamaTex: We thought you left us...so glad to see your post and to know everything is going well wiht you. Sorry ab your friends condition i cant imagine that.

Ok ladies....WHERE IS EVERYONE??????????????? IM SOOO GETTING WORRIED!!!! THE THREAD IS SOOO QUIET!!! WILL THE M.I.A LADIES CHECK IN PLEASE :shrug::shrug::shrug::shrug:
 
Oh and my ticker says 21wks, Thanking God!! And it says if its a girl she has a supply of eggs....What ab a boy....BC MY BLESSING is A BOY!!!
 
Just checking in but will be checking out again - got some bad news last night my uncle died (52) of course this is sad but this means I only have one living relative left in Scotland (my father's side) and as she said this shock will probably kill her.

Sad as well because my boys won't know what lovely relations they had (I had a lot of contact with them whilst I was a wee bairn) I guess it will be up to me to try and keep their memory alive great people such as my gran, my grandpa, my dad, my aunts and now my uncle.

In my direct family I have one aunt, my mum and my sister that's all:cry:

So feeling a bit sad today - hope you all understand will check in soon when I feel stronger.

:hugs:

X
 
CONGRATS TO OUR LOVELY :bfp: LADIES Lisalee, Nevergivingup, Sweetz , Lpjkp, BayBeeEm, and HisGrace :wohoo: :wohoo: :wohoo: :wohoo: :wohoo: :wohoo: :wohoo: we def have more to Come SO CATCH THOSE EGGIES LADIES


Our June BFP's LOVELY LADIES:

Lisalee1:June :bfp: :happydance: /Symptns 2Day:getting an appetite back. Less sore boobs, m/s going away. :baby: 1st HB: 169@ 8wks/ 2nd HB: 167@ 12wks

Nevergivingup: June :bfp: :happydance: / Symptns: always XTRA CM, gassy ,appetite, and pimples EDD: March 5, 2013/ :baby: 1st HB: 130 @6wks/ 2nd HB: 162@7wks / 3rd HB: 161@12wks / 4th HB: 154@18wks *GENDER: IT'S A BOY :cloud9: *


Our July BFP's LOVELY LADIES:

Sweetz33/ July1 Tested :bfp: :happydance: / gassy,lot of CM, appetite is insane! Peeing constantly. Twinges, kicks, baby aerobics in belly lol. Sore back. Insomnia. emotional roller coaster. And the newest lackoffittableclothes! :baby: 1st HB: 145@8 wks, 2nd HB 166@11 weeks 3rd HB: 167@ 4th HB 138 @ 19wks *GENDER: IT'S A BOY :cloud9: *


AUGUST BFP'S LOVELY LADIES:

Lpjkp: Tested Aug 24 :bfp: :happydance: / Symptns: Sore boobs / :baby: 1st HB:

BamaGurl: Tested :bfp: :happydance: :baby: 1st HB: /Symptns: m/s. Cold


SEPTEMBER BFP's LOVELY LADIES:

BayBeeEm: Tested :bfp: :happydance: :baby: 1st HB: 142 / Symptns: Tinge of M/S.

HisGrace: Tested :bfp: :happydance: 1st HB: 146 /Symptns: Sore boobs



SOON October BFP's LOVELY LADIES::


Leather: 6DPO/ In TWW :coffee: Symptns: Muscle aches, sweats on and off :winkwink:

Kanicky: CD1/ MIA :shrug:

Aspe: DPO/ TWW :shrug:



Soon November BFP's Lovely Ladies:


Hopestruck: CD/ Soon Nov. BFP :kiss:

Stork: AF showed :dohh: / Turkey Baby coming Soon :happydance:

Garfie: AF showed :dohh: / Turkey Baby coming soon :happydance:

Runnergrl: TTC, waiting for "O" or BFP / Turkey Baby coming soon :happydance:

Shefali83: AF came :dohh: / Ready to TTC :flower:

Sirbaby:AF came :dohh: / Coming soon a Turkey baby :happydance:

Tybabydreams: Waiting to "O" :coffee:

Mandi0225: AF showed :dohh: / Turkey baby coming soon :happydance:

BeautifulD: 3DPO/ In TWW :coffee:

Jessandaj: Waiting to "O" M.I.A :shrug:

Wantnum2: Waiting to "O" M.I.A :shrug:

MamaTex: Waiting to "O" :coffee:


Waiting To Try BFP's Ladies:

Angelserenity: waiting to try :flower:
 

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