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addie25
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Quickly let me tell you my story.
Got pregnant quickly found out after I was pregnant my husband and I were carriers of cystic fibrosis. Lost the baby at 14 weeks.
Every time my husband and I have a child on our own we have a 1 in 4 chance the baby will have cystic fibrosis this is why we will do IVF next time and every time after this to not risk those odds.
HERES THE TMI: I am scared to have sex with my husband now. I am scared we will get pregnant by accident and the baby will be sick. I am not going on birth control because we will try again with IVF in a couple months and so he said he would wear a condom. I am still very scared. Do you think this is normal? What should I do. I do not want to not have sex, he is my husband. Im scared if I let this consume me and we do not have sex it could damage our relationship. My husband says that is silly that our marriage does not revolve around sex. He just wants me to heal from the D&C and wait till I feel ok before we do again. I do not think that is silly, sex is part of a marriage. How do I get over this so I do not have fear?
Got pregnant quickly found out after I was pregnant my husband and I were carriers of cystic fibrosis. Lost the baby at 14 weeks.
Every time my husband and I have a child on our own we have a 1 in 4 chance the baby will have cystic fibrosis this is why we will do IVF next time and every time after this to not risk those odds.
HERES THE TMI: I am scared to have sex with my husband now. I am scared we will get pregnant by accident and the baby will be sick. I am not going on birth control because we will try again with IVF in a couple months and so he said he would wear a condom. I am still very scared. Do you think this is normal? What should I do. I do not want to not have sex, he is my husband. Im scared if I let this consume me and we do not have sex it could damage our relationship. My husband says that is silly that our marriage does not revolve around sex. He just wants me to heal from the D&C and wait till I feel ok before we do again. I do not think that is silly, sex is part of a marriage. How do I get over this so I do not have fear?