Mayhem Babies! May 2011 mummies and babies

[new_to_ttc]

Oh bless your hubby lol He is on the blue spray typically used for asthma, is that the same?? They opted out of the nebuliser though, said its not very effective and causes distress to the babies george likes his mask and baby inhaler lol just lies there opens his mouth and lets me hold it on his face lol yay tp no steroids!!! he isnt taking BFs or solids really, I just keep offering.

Christmas is us and my parents here. Its going to be madness but bring it on lol

hope aarons peggys come in quickly, bless him xxx

 

[BrandiCanucks]

lol mummy! Men can be so dense...like the time I told Mike the pregnancy test was positive, and he asked me what it meant.

 

[mummy3]

Oh dear Brandi

New, the nebuliser has worked really well with Eilidh seems its similar meds You're doing the right thing with the offering, how long has he been off his food for? I will say we got rid of the mask though, the doc gave us a dummy like thing she sucks on instead! Really hope George gets better soon, its hard watching them struggle

 

[new_to_ttc]

They'll both be fit and well in no time I hope

George is pushing the boob away but he having little bits.

 

[heyyady]

New so scarey glad to hear he is well enough to send home-

Brandi I love my football team, but can't see decorating in Charger blue and gold!

The girls are good- well, cranky atm since it's nap time- trying REALLY hard to crawl today- I took tons of pictures trying to capture it when it happens, no success, but have depleted the only batteries in the house

 

[mummy3]

Any chance you can do a bit of a nurse in to help him? Pretty much as much time as possible with him having easy access to feed, plenty of skin to skin so he can go on and off as much as he wants.

 

[mummy3]

Ruaridh has a chargers kit heyy

 

[heyyady]

Oh, and Christmas is a fuck. We will be making four, yes FOUR stops Christmas day to see ALL of hubby's family- and yet not seeing mine He's suck a selfish spoiled shit head about it that if I refuse to go to all of them and go see my family, he will go to his family's places anyway without us. Same bull shit head trip he pulled on Thanksgiving. Basically either he gets his way or we are spending the holiday separate. So I HAVE to give in, for the sake of the babas AND the older kids, and put on a smile while doing it

 

[mummy3]

Heyy thats awful! If you did thanksgiving with his its only fair to alternate and do christmas with your family! Would he definately go alone if you called his bluff? Yay on the girls nearly crawling too

 

[heyyady]

Yes, I think he would go elsewhere. And blame me for our family not being together.
We had Thanksgiving at his mom's but with my whole family over- some kind of compromise. But that doesn't work for Christmas

 

[mummy3]

Maybe try being very focal with him and anyone whos around that you are oh so happy to have christmas with his family this year but are very excited to catch up with your family next christmas too Not fair on anyone to be so onesided family wise.

 

[new_to_ttc]

wow 4 trips??!!! id say no family just you him and the kids, big and small!! Im really sorry he is being so selfish hun

mummy do you give Elidh her medicine in the night, or only if she is awake?

I have been nirsing him regular, he just pushes me away, but I'll keep offering and making them available for him xx

 

[mummy3]

Off to take the kids to play at mcdonalds

 

[new_to_ttc]

Oh enjoy

 

[BrandiCanucks]

That's awful heyy. He can't compromise AT ALL? Sounds like a selfish, spoiled little brat, if you don't mind me saying. My husband and I compromise. Christmas Eve with my family, Christmas Day with his, although I'm not sure how Christmas with his family will go this year, given the circumstances.

And we are actually planning on decorating our living room like a Canuck jersey. We're just waiting for the kids to be old enough that they DON'T colour on the walls with a Sharpie.

 

[mummy3]

Sorry new, didnt see your post till too late We had been giving it her through the night too but last night she didnt need it so will see how it goes again tonight best to keep it regular hun. I know its not the easiest thing to sit around bfing with older kids! Really hope hes on the mend tomorrow hun

Hope its not too awkward with his family Brandi, not what you want at christmas! Hows Zoe doing now hun? Must have pics when you do decorate!

So Anja pooped herself in the mcdonalds playarea She got stuck high up and couldnt get down in time poor thing, thankfully daddy arrived to see to it lol. Also I made a complete tit of myself while ordering, couldn't remember what we were having so came out with "do you have any of that mcdonalds food?"

 

[BrandiCanucks]

lol mummy. It might be a bit odd if they sold Burger King. Sorry about Anja. Hope she wasn't too upset!

Zoe's doing well, sleeping, thankfully. All three are sleeping. I love this time of night.

Apart from hubby's mom, seeing his family is ALWAYS awkward. They've always hated me because I was homeless when Mike and I met, but now they hate me even more because of Anberlin. They're upset with Mike for raising her and threaten to physically harm me and her because of the circumstances. I likely won't go. I'll only go if Mike wants me to, and Anberlin will come along. I just hope he grows enough balls to defend us both. Doesn't matter if she's biological or not. He's raised her for the last 7 months, loves her the same as he loves Zoe and Isaiah...that makes her HIS DAUGHTER, and he knows it. As I've mentioned before, I don't think it occurs to him that she's not biologically his. They have such an amazing bond, that I think he actually forgets. It definitely makes me smile when he says she's his favourite baby, and she's really easy and wants to spend time with her alone. Best is when he brags about her to others.

 

[mummy3]

Aww he sounds really sweet with anberlin You're right his family should accept his decisions regarding how he lives his life, I'm sorry you have to deal with their issues Did you find out for sure she isnt Mikes? Glad Zoes feeling better, when they're all happily sleeping for the night is definately a great time!

Eilidhs still shouting lol, she seems to not want to sleep

 

[heyyady]

Brandi I seriously wouldn't go and subject A or yourself to that

Elle went to sleep at 5:30, a usual time for a quick cat nap for them. But she wouldn't wake up. She even basically slept through her change into night time diaper and jammies- I fed her and put her to bed, what else can I do? I just have a feeling it is going to bite me in the ass in a big way somewhere around 2AM!!!

 

[BrandiCanucks]

We can tell by her eyes that she's not biologically his. We're both blue eyed, and genetics states that babies born to two blue-eyed parents will ALWAYS have blue eyes. Zoe and Isaiah both have blue eyes, but Anberlin has brown eyes.

That being said, no one who doesn't know the situation thinks she's not his, and with their bond, you'd never be able to tell.