I've got one of those too. Unfortunately, he doesn't have a job to use as an excuse for his laziness. I must admit though, he is good with the kids. I just wish he'd spend a little more time with the whole family or out looking for a job, and a little less time on his computer. Maybe if he turned off his computer and DID something with the kids other than let them run rampant and watch TV all day (yeah, my kids know the Treehouse schedule off by heart), they might not have so much energy come bedtime.