Char.due.jan
Mummy to Luke
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Well the relationship with my OH has been well, very rocky we've been trying to work it out and it was going well, he stopped calling me' names and doing stupid things when he was angry.. And I started to feel happy again. But now it's like he just doesn't care at all... He works a lot and we don't live together so the chances to see eachother are few and far between. I've been having pains today, they probably won't amount to anything as usual but I asked him to come round as he has the day off. We'd already arranged for him to come round to have tea anyway so thought he might want to come around a bit earlier to spend some time alone together.... But no, he had time to go to the bank, to get his dinner at mcdonalds and go to tesco.. He phoned me saying he was getting ready to come to mine but about an hour later he text me saying do I want to leave it and he will just come tomorrow instead. Basically I told him not to bother because he will just let me down tomorrow too, his only excuse is he's 'tired' and he 'cant be bothered' well thanks, obviously I'm not worth the effort and him going shopping and getting something to eat is. I'm starting to get really paranoid now, he hardly texts or calls anymore, I just have a feeling he has someone else :/ it might seem like I'm making a big deal out of nothing but surely he should want to spend some time with me' before LO is born obviously not.. It kills me to keep finding more things to believe he's only with me for the baby...