precious-gift
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hi
split up nearly 10 weeks ago, haven't seen him in about 7 weeks, all contact was through texts, which i stopped about 3 weeks ago. anyway i wanted to know if the house had been surveyed, as it is taking so long and he replied that the man that surveys is on holiday and that was it, but i got angry that he hadn't asked about baby or dog, he said that he did want to know how we all were but i probably wouldn't tell him. told him that he needs to grow up and speak to me face to face as texting is pathetic. he invited me round to house, i refused, but i asked him if he wanted to go to the beach with the dog, which he agreed.
anyway we had an amicable conversation about baby, how he wants to be involved and he will help me in any way he can, and that he is going to find it really hard being a part time dad!! (told him that was the decision that he made).
he told me that his life was crap he has been accused of crashing into someones car, which he say he didnt do, but is being charged by the police for failing to report an accident, a bus crashed into his lorry 2 weeks ago! he isn't coping with paying all the bills and doesn't have enough money to eat properly (has lost a lot of weight!) he asked his boss if he could have weekends off, which he claims is to see baby, but isn't it would fit in with his lifestyle with her, boss said no chance and he can't sleep, only sleeps for couple hours a day, told him that it was guilt, he agreed!
we spoke about access, said that he didn't want to go to court and would agree with what ever i wanted, told him my only request was that the other woman never has anything to do with my child, and he agreed to that, he said that he would chose baby over her!!!!
and he actually apologised to me!
anyway it all made my day, knowing that my life is a lot better than his
xx
does anyone believe in psychics?
split up nearly 10 weeks ago, haven't seen him in about 7 weeks, all contact was through texts, which i stopped about 3 weeks ago. anyway i wanted to know if the house had been surveyed, as it is taking so long and he replied that the man that surveys is on holiday and that was it, but i got angry that he hadn't asked about baby or dog, he said that he did want to know how we all were but i probably wouldn't tell him. told him that he needs to grow up and speak to me face to face as texting is pathetic. he invited me round to house, i refused, but i asked him if he wanted to go to the beach with the dog, which he agreed.
anyway we had an amicable conversation about baby, how he wants to be involved and he will help me in any way he can, and that he is going to find it really hard being a part time dad!! (told him that was the decision that he made).
he told me that his life was crap he has been accused of crashing into someones car, which he say he didnt do, but is being charged by the police for failing to report an accident, a bus crashed into his lorry 2 weeks ago! he isn't coping with paying all the bills and doesn't have enough money to eat properly (has lost a lot of weight!) he asked his boss if he could have weekends off, which he claims is to see baby, but isn't it would fit in with his lifestyle with her, boss said no chance and he can't sleep, only sleeps for couple hours a day, told him that it was guilt, he agreed!
we spoke about access, said that he didn't want to go to court and would agree with what ever i wanted, told him my only request was that the other woman never has anything to do with my child, and he agreed to that, he said that he would chose baby over her!!!!
and he actually apologised to me!
anyway it all made my day, knowing that my life is a lot better than his
xx
does anyone believe in psychics?