tamithomas
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Take it easy hon, stress won't do any good.
Not trying to be surly but I don't need advice on how to keep things spicy when we've been married for over half a decade and the doctor looked at me like I had 6 heads when I told her we have sex 9-10 times a week. My husband and I love each other so much, and he joined so we could have a better life, but he's gone 6 months out of the year every year for the next 20+ years and giving birth without him is not an option for me. Him and I are muuuuch older, maybe if I was still 21 I'd have the outlook you do but the fact is, 5 years of trying without a single positive is a very very long 5 years. Taking pills every day and seeing doctors all the time is just a reminder of what we'll never have, and it's depressing. Hope isn't even in my vocabulary anymore, I'm a realist.
I'd never want anyone here to get to my point, but everyone has to learn when to step down with grace and dignity.