Hi everybody! Comgratulations on your pregnancies, and I wish you a healthy one
This is our second pregnancy. With our first I had HG, and opted to find out the gender of the baby especially for a closer bond.
With this baby regardless if I get HG or not, we want to change things up and stay team yellow.
We told MIL this, whom I do not have a good relationship with, but we try to keep things respectful. BIL also was team yellow with his and his girlfriends pregnancy, and MIL asked them if she could know. So the sonographer told her, and no one else knew.
So she outright asked me infront of everybody like this: BIL (her son) was also team yellow, and they allowed me to know and no one else, can I be the only one to know with you guys?
She did it in front of everyone, which I did not like, because it was the day we revealed our pregnancy to her in a cute way. And she knows we have a rocky bond, and if I say no infront of others I will look bad. And how she had to put 'like bil and gf let me be the only one to know' part Also rubbed me the wrong way. So I deviated from the question and said how often they mistake the sex.
How would you handle the situation? I dont want anyone else to know, besides how would that be fair towards my mum? And it is not what we want.
thank you beforehand!
This is our second pregnancy. With our first I had HG, and opted to find out the gender of the baby especially for a closer bond.
With this baby regardless if I get HG or not, we want to change things up and stay team yellow.
We told MIL this, whom I do not have a good relationship with, but we try to keep things respectful. BIL also was team yellow with his and his girlfriends pregnancy, and MIL asked them if she could know. So the sonographer told her, and no one else knew.
So she outright asked me infront of everybody like this: BIL (her son) was also team yellow, and they allowed me to know and no one else, can I be the only one to know with you guys?
She did it in front of everyone, which I did not like, because it was the day we revealed our pregnancy to her in a cute way. And she knows we have a rocky bond, and if I say no infront of others I will look bad. And how she had to put 'like bil and gf let me be the only one to know' part Also rubbed me the wrong way. So I deviated from the question and said how often they mistake the sex.
How would you handle the situation? I dont want anyone else to know, besides how would that be fair towards my mum? And it is not what we want.
thank you beforehand!