Wtbam
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Please could I have some opinions?
I had a big row with my OH yesterday because he wanted to go to his parents house to tell them about the pregnancy, and I said I didn't want to because his mother chain smokes, and the room becomes very smoky, and I was worried about the risk to the baby in breathing in second hand smoke.
I made an alternative suggestion, perhaps we could take them out for a meal (ie in a restaurant where you cannot smoke). I would like to be there when he tells them, but I do not want to put the baby at risk, and I can't ask her to stop smoking in her own house.
He told me that she smoked all the way through her pregnancy with him in the 1970's and he is absolutely fine, and that I should just not worry about it, as it will be one or two occasions, it isn't going to do any harm.
I also worry about when the baby is born, what if she insists on smoking when we go to visit?
Am I over reacting? How bad is it to be subjected to second hand smoke for a short period of time (a few hours?) in an enclosed small living room?
I am 8 weeks pregnant on Thursday and don't want ANY extra risks in this pregnancy.
I had a big row with my OH yesterday because he wanted to go to his parents house to tell them about the pregnancy, and I said I didn't want to because his mother chain smokes, and the room becomes very smoky, and I was worried about the risk to the baby in breathing in second hand smoke.
I made an alternative suggestion, perhaps we could take them out for a meal (ie in a restaurant where you cannot smoke). I would like to be there when he tells them, but I do not want to put the baby at risk, and I can't ask her to stop smoking in her own house.
He told me that she smoked all the way through her pregnancy with him in the 1970's and he is absolutely fine, and that I should just not worry about it, as it will be one or two occasions, it isn't going to do any harm.
I also worry about when the baby is born, what if she insists on smoking when we go to visit?
Am I over reacting? How bad is it to be subjected to second hand smoke for a short period of time (a few hours?) in an enclosed small living room?
I am 8 weeks pregnant on Thursday and don't want ANY extra risks in this pregnancy.