It has taken my husband and I like years to get pregnant. This will be our first and possibly only child. We have orders to pcs and I will be 7 months at that time. At that time my husband will possibly deploy and not get to see his one and only child born. It is really stressing me out to have our baby alone. I think my family would come to help me but it just kills me to know that my husband won't possibly even get to see his child until 10 months and it kills me to know that my husband will not get to hold his baby during the first few hours of life. Has anyone been through this? How in the world did you get through it! It is killing me and is ruining my happiness for enjoying my pregnancy right now because all I can think about is that my husband won't be here. My heart feels so broken at this. I know military wives do it all of the time but we have tried for 8 years for this pregnancy and the most precious part of it is being taken away from us. I have so many worries about it all with the birth just being a big but just one part of it all. We are trying to get extended where we are currently at so he can at least see the birth but I don't have faith that it will go through because to the military we are just another number and they put you where they need you regardless of family situation most of the time and I know I am not a special case but in my eyes I am. Just how do you deal with it...how do you get over the fact that your husband won't get to see the birth or the first 10 months of life..it is breaking my heart.