tinystar
Trying to make our baby H
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So I am still officially WTT but DH's mum was talking about grand kids and it came up that if I had a boy it would be called John cause that's the family name. FIL is called John and DH middle name is John and its assumed that our child would be called John and his son would have the middle name John.
Its the assumption which got me also that our child will have the family last name so it would mean I would have no part in naming my child.
The DH is on my side and even though we are not even trying for a few months we have the names settled. We have agreed to have John as a middle name to keep the peace, but already I am worried about the fall out. This is one in a long line of issues really MIL is retired and wants to be a proper grandma when we have kids, sounds like she wants to be round every day! Eekkk
The names we have chosen already are
Phoebe Violet
Noah John
Now I just have to get knocked up
Its the assumption which got me also that our child will have the family last name so it would mean I would have no part in naming my child.
The DH is on my side and even though we are not even trying for a few months we have the names settled. We have agreed to have John as a middle name to keep the peace, but already I am worried about the fall out. This is one in a long line of issues really MIL is retired and wants to be a proper grandma when we have kids, sounds like she wants to be round every day! Eekkk
The names we have chosen already are
Phoebe Violet
Noah John
Now I just have to get knocked up