miscarriage?!?!

[kayley_baby]

thanks hun me to stil cant stop crying though!

 

[Leanne&Bump..x]

Im sorry to hear hope everything turns out ok! Try not to stress too much, it may just be old blood as you said was only a tiny clot..i hope everythin is alright for you and baby, fingers crossed

 

[sam's mum]

Hope everything turns out ok Did they scan you at the hospital? x

 

[kayley_baby]

no have to go back monday/tuesday for a scan

 

[sam's mum]

Can't believe they didn't scan you while you were at the hospital anyway ...that's awful. Really hope everything goes well next week x

 

[kayley_baby]

well thats what the hospital here is like! Wouldnt even give me straight answers!

 

[nightkd]

That sounds a bit funny to me...especially as they would outright say that he thinks you are miscarrying...without a scan... Hopefully the guy at the hospital was wrong...

Good luck anyway, and don't stress too much.

xx

 

[sam's mum]

That sounds a bit funny to me...especially as they would outright say that he thinks you are miscarrying...without a scan... Hopefully the guy at the hospital was wrong...

Good luck anyway, and don't stress too much.

xx

That's what I thought...what is he basing that on?! Surely he shouldn't be saying that to someone who's pregnant without a good reason. You should have demanded a sccan while you were there. I'd complain x

 

[NickyT75]

Sorry to hear this hun

Did he say you were probably gonna miscarry? or just that it was a threatened miscarriage? coz any bleeding at this stage is classed as a threatened miscarriage so maybe thats what he meant & he didnt take the time to explain properly?

lots of ladies can have a threatened miscarriage but then the pregnancy continues without any problems

Grrr! I am mad that he didnt give you any real answers or scan you

are you still bleeding now? xx

 

[andi01]

Hope all works out Love; Until you know for sure; its going to be a rough few days by try real hard to stay as calm as possible.
& try to think Positive!

 

[LongRoadAhead]

Im so sorry to hear that hun. Try and keep your chin up, easier said than done but you go prove him wrong and have a perfect LO. So many woman have bleeing early on in pregnancy and go on to have a healthy happy baby.Good Luck with everything xxx

 

[Leanne&Bump..x]

Im so sorry to hear that hun. Try and keep your chin up, easier said than done but you go prove him wrong and have a perfect LO. So many woman have bleeing early on in pregnancy and go on to have a healthy happy baby.Good Luck with everything xxx

This is exactly right. if you are still bleeding anr you obv will be worrying like mad why dont you go back to the hospital, you will prpbably see somebody different, and i would demand a scan? they cant say you are probably misscarrying from a bleed alone. I would write everything down you have to ask if you do go again, and dont leave the room until you get straight answers! Good luck

 

[kayley_baby]

That sounds a bit funny to me...especially as they would outright say that he thinks you are miscarrying...without a scan... Hopefully the guy at the hospital was wrong...

Good luck anyway, and don't stress too much.

xx

That's what I thought...what is he basing that on?! Surely he shouldn't be saying that to someone who's pregnant without a good reason. You should have demanded a sccan while you were there. I'd complain x

He did a smear (didnt even explain that properly as at one he was talking about swabbing for STDS and then he only did one swab!) and then he was gone for ages and said it looks like a miscarriage judging on where the bloods coming from or something!
Then i had to talk to a nurse to arrange an app for more blood to be taken to test hormone levels (the same nurse who held my hand through the smear) and she seemed convinced i was miscarrying! Kept saying sorry and that she knew it wasnt easy blah blah blah!
And to be honest i was to distraught to demand anything!

 

[Rumpskin]

I am so very sorry to hear things have not worked out darling. Do you have someone to support you at the moment?

Thinking of you x

 

[sam's mum]

He did a smear (didnt even explain that properly as at one he was talking about swabbing for STDS and then he only did one swab!) and then he was gone for ages and said it looks like a miscarriage judging on where the bloods coming from or something!
Then i had to talk to a nurse to arrange an app for more blood to be taken to test hormone levels (the same nurse who held my hand through the smear) and she seemed convinced i was miscarrying! Kept saying sorry and that she knew it wasnt easy blah blah blah!
And to be honest i was to distraught to demand anything!

Sorry - I wasn't telling you to demand one, just amazed that they didn't do one anyway. As other people have said, bleeding in early pregnancy is quite common and you can still go on to have a healthy pregnancy, so it just sounds like he's worrying you far more than he needs to without finding out as much as possible about what's going on. Hope you get some answers next week - and get lots of rest this weekend! Thinking of you x

 

[kayley_baby]

Sorry to hear this hun

Did he say you were probably gonna miscarry? or just that it was a threatened miscarriage? coz any bleeding at this stage is classed as a threatened miscarriage so maybe thats what he meant & he didnt take the time to explain properly?

lots of ladies can have a threatened miscarriage but then the pregnancy continues without any problems

Grrr! I am mad that he didnt give you any real answers or scan you

are you still bleeding now? xx

No he actualy said it looks like i am miscarrying!
And about the time thing it took about two hours to get in the treatment room
Then once in it hed spend a total of bout 15 mins explaining w/e he was meant to be explainin at the time and then hed fuck off again for ages!
And no offence to anyone but he was foreign and talked real fast so i didnt understand him at times
So maybe i missheard and he didnt say i was miscarrying but instead said there was a chance i was going to??
And yes im still bleeding less then yesterday though! That has to be a good sign right?!

 

[lesleyann]

i feel for you hun but thats damn right stupid when i went to my doctor with bleeding they got straight on the phone and get me an emergancy appointment for 7am the next morning to be scanned and have bloods done i have a foreign guy take my bloods i could hardly understand a word he said

 

[kayley_baby]

I am so very sorry to hear things have not worked out darling. Do you have someone to support you at the moment?

Thinking of you x

I have my OH but hes taken it bad and started cryin yesterday (never seen him crying before) ro it shocked me but at the same time it made me feel worse so...
I dont know really

 

[NickyT75]

So sorry hun, but if he examined you with a speculum (same thing as when doing a smear) he might have noticed your cervix was starting to dilate? which would explain why he thinks you will miscarry??
(this may not be the case but its the only thing i can think of to explain why he didnt scan you)

I still think you should go back & request a scan - it will more than likely be a different doctor on duty now so hopefully this doctor might be more helpful?

I know this is scary coz I've gone through it twice myself but dont be afraid to ask them questions at the hospital if you are unsure what they are saying coz its the only way they will tell you anything.

Big

Hope they can give you some better news, good luck xx

 

[nikky0907]

I agree with Nicky,just assuming that you're miscarrying is quite unprofessional.
Did he tell you to come back if you start bleeding more or something?

Don't jump to the worst case scenario yet!
Good luck,thinking of you!