miscarriage?!?!

[kayley_baby]

I had the same type of bleeding around 10weeks.. and i just went straight to a&e and they did a scan. Everything was fine thank god and i think it is quite common but id go get it checked if i was you x

How long were you bleeding for? And did you have many pregnancy symptoms before you started bleeding? Because ive had hardly any symptoms throughout and im still bleeding after two days!

 

[kayley_baby]

I agree with Nicky,just assuming that you're miscarrying is quite unprofessional.
Did he tell you to come back if you start bleeding more or something?

Don't jump to the worst case scenario yet!
Good luck,thinking of you!

Well the nurse saie that i had to go back if the bleeding got worse and if i got pains
And in response to the reply before this one he only looked up for about 5 secs surely he wouldnt have been able to see dilation in that short space of time?

 

[mummymadness]

Ihoep you prove the hospital wrong hun , And i hope when they scan you Monday/Tuesday you see a nice healthy baby .
It is suprising what they can tell just by examining you , But without a scan they certainly carnt tell you that its a deffinate misscarriage , So hold hope out hun . Hugs , And good luck . xxx .

 

[sparkswillfly]

I think he was being a little hasty. Im sure youll be fine. Lots of women have a bit of bleeding and go on to have healthy babies. Also I never had any pregnancy symptoms at all.

 

[kayley_baby]

most people i know who have had miscarriages bled for one day (bright red) and had lots of cramping (were in complete agony could barely stand!) and all had humongous blood clots!this is nothing like that so im scared, upset, worried, heartbroken and on top of all that very very paranoid!
And surely due to how far gone i am approx and therefore how big baby must be i would have noticed if he/she had come out of me, wouldnt i?

 

[nikky0907]

Yes hun,you would definitely notice if you pass the sac,and not to mention that if you wouldn't mc naturally you would need a d&c...

 

[kayley_baby]

just in addition to the cervix dilation comment surely if hed noticed that he would have mentioned it? And OH said gynae never mentioned my cervix
:s

 

[NickyT75]

Im really sorry if I've upset you by saying that hun,
believe me... that was the absolute last thing I wanted to do.

Im wasnt saying your cervix was dilated I was just wondering how on earth a doctor could tell someone that they were gonna miscarry without even scanning her?? & thought this was just a possibility.

I really feel like you should be seen by a different doctor coz the one you saw sounds almost negligent in his treatment of you.

I hope you are resting & this awful time turns out to be 'just a scare' in which case the doctor who told you such a horrible thing should be reported for his conduct.

Once again I am sincerely sorry if I have added to your upset and hope you can forgive me?

I really hope you prove this 'Doctor' wrong and go on to have the healthiest baby that hospital has ever seen xx

 

[kayley_baby]

Im really sorry if I've upset you by saying that hun,
believe me... that was the absolute last thing I wanted to do.

Im wasnt saying your cervix was dilated I was just wondering how on earth a doctor could tell someone that they were gonna miscarry without even scanning her?? & thought this was just a possibility.

I really feel like you should be seen by a different doctor coz the one you saw sounds almost negligent in his treatment of you.

I hope you are resting & this awful time turns out to be 'just a scare' in which case the doctor who told you such a horrible thing should be reported for his conduct.

Once again I am sincerely sorry if I have added to your upset and hope you can forgive me?

I really hope you prove this 'Doctor' wrong and go on to have the healthiest baby that hospital has ever seen xx

Its ok hun it did upset me slightly but at the same time it has made me think of all the posibilities so i thankyou for mentioning it and of course i forgive you! I wasnt trying to have ago or anything! Im just really confused right now!
I am resting the best i can in the circumstances and hope to god i dunt jinx myself by saying this but have noticed a slight decrease in blood and still no severe pain or sign of bubs!
I to hope to hell gynae is wrong and do feel he did not take enough time to expalain things etc plus, before he had examined me he basically said there was a total of two explanations ectopic or m/c i have now discovered a whole range of things it could be so the negligance does come to mind!

 

[nightkd]

Hopefully he was just being a dick and had no clue what he was talking about. I do think it's very strange that they wouldn't scan you and would just say 'you are miscarrying' surely as a Dr, if you didn't know for sure you should NOT be suggesting things like that!

Good luck! Keep rested! And go and complain if it turns out he was wrong! If so, he's upset and worried you for no reason and needs to have someone tell him he was wrong to do so!

More and more and more Good luck and I hope everything sorts itself out!!

 

[sparkswillfly]

I think the doctor has caused unnecessary stress. As hard as it may sound you should try and relax.

 

[sam's mum]

I think the doctor has caused unnecessary stress. As hard as it may sound you should try and relax.

I agree. How are you feeling now? x

 

[NickyT75]

Just popping in to see if you are alright hun xx

 

[nikky0907]

How is it going hun?

 

[Alyandherbump]

I ontl just came accross this topic and wanted to share my experience. 2 days after i had a positive pregnancy test i went to my hospital walk in centre because i was bleeding. At this time i hadnt told anyone except my best friend that i was pregnant and didnt even know how i felt about it myself, until the doctor said that it was most likely a miscarriage....used the whole 'threatened miscarriage' thing too. Obviously i've not been pregnant before and having only just found out i didnt really know what was going on or how it all really works anyway. They sent me away thinking that i'd lost the baby i just realised i did want and i had to wait at home for 3 days before i went for a scan.....i bled this whole time...like you, not a lot and it was quite dark, or old. Anyway....went for my scan and they told me not to expect anything good, they were all sure the baby would be gone (plus no one knew yet how far along i was). A few seconds later they founf the baby on the scan and everything was fine...9 weeks gone, i dont know how i didnt know! So anyway they said that they couldnt see a reason for the bleeding and that some women bleed all the way through their pregnancies and if it isnt affecting the baby then its nothing to worry about. And i stopped bleeding about a week after that!

So i know what you're going through but things can turn out alright in the end. Just keep your thoughts as positive as possible and one your little miracle and things may just turn out ok for you too.

I'll be thinking of you xx

Let us all know how things turn out!

 

[kayley_baby]

well im still bleeding but still no pain! Which is a good sign, right? I have to go at 8 tonight for blood to be taken and then have my scan either tomorrow or tuesday (have to wait for a phone call!)
Thankyou so much every one for the concern and suggestions as to what may have caused all of this! It is much appreciated! Especially alyandherbump! Your story has brought some hope!Thankyou!
As i wont know much before tomorrow i cant realy respond to the comments asking how everything is but as soon as i have had the scan il be sure to let you all know!

 

[NickyT75]

I've got everything crossed for you hun xx

 

[sparkswillfly]

good luck. x

 

[sam's mum]

well im still bleeding but still no pain! Which is a good sign, right? I have to go at 8 tonight for blood to be taken and then have my scan either tomorrow or tuesday (have to wait for a phone call!)
Thankyou so much every one for the concern and suggestions as to what may have caused all of this! It is much appreciated! Especially alyandherbump! Your story has brought some hope!Thankyou!
As i wont know much before tomorrow i cant realy respond to the comments asking how everything is but as soon as i have had the scan il be sure to let you all know!

No pain is a good sign Really hope that you get some good news at your scan x

 

[kayley_baby]

i hope so to!