Hey Hun, thank you, the funeral went as well as it could do, it was a nice service and he would have liked it. Still very sad, I will miss him and my nan (who died 3 years ago) so much.
I was feeling pretty positive, my app ovuline told me yesterday that as my oestrogen soars ready for ov I should feel more positive and have more energy which is odd as I do (I never realised before just how much the hormones rule our emotions but they def do!). But today I stressed myself out as I did an opk, and it had a clear line?! I never ov until cd 19-21 and I never have a line early. I usually get my faint line a few days before, it gets darker and darker and then disappears. I was shocked to see such a dark line so early. Soooo I guess my cycle and hormones are still totally messed up from the mc and now I feel a bit down again!! I did drag hubby to bed to dtd just incase!!
Sorry you and hubby have had a disagreement. Ttc and a loss are so stressful, me and my hubby have had our share of disagreements too. Luckily we are both in agreement that we want another baby asap but its tough and I understand how you must feel. Maybe you could put together a sort of budget list of expenditure to show you can afford it? I've dropped from 5 days to 3 days after having my dd and so we don't have as much money but we make it work.
Things like we don't have sky tv, we dropped our mobile phone packages and got cheaper line rental rather than upgrade our phones, we don't have a landline and we a rarely go out at night, we stay in and cook and have a bottle of wine instead. You have to compromise but its worth it.
Hope he agrees soon Hun. Sending hugs and always here to chat whenever you want. I hope af shows soon so you know your cycle has regulated.
Conina how are you doing? Xx
I was feeling pretty positive, my app ovuline told me yesterday that as my oestrogen soars ready for ov I should feel more positive and have more energy which is odd as I do (I never realised before just how much the hormones rule our emotions but they def do!). But today I stressed myself out as I did an opk, and it had a clear line?! I never ov until cd 19-21 and I never have a line early. I usually get my faint line a few days before, it gets darker and darker and then disappears. I was shocked to see such a dark line so early. Soooo I guess my cycle and hormones are still totally messed up from the mc and now I feel a bit down again!! I did drag hubby to bed to dtd just incase!!
Sorry you and hubby have had a disagreement. Ttc and a loss are so stressful, me and my hubby have had our share of disagreements too. Luckily we are both in agreement that we want another baby asap but its tough and I understand how you must feel. Maybe you could put together a sort of budget list of expenditure to show you can afford it? I've dropped from 5 days to 3 days after having my dd and so we don't have as much money but we make it work.
Things like we don't have sky tv, we dropped our mobile phone packages and got cheaper line rental rather than upgrade our phones, we don't have a landline and we a rarely go out at night, we stay in and cook and have a bottle of wine instead. You have to compromise but its worth it.
Hope he agrees soon Hun. Sending hugs and always here to chat whenever you want. I hope af shows soon so you know your cycle has regulated.
Conina how are you doing? Xx
) but didn't get a positive. So either I O'd really really early, or really late.
