Hey Becky
I hope you're feeling better today, and that today is a good day I'm sorry to hear about the anxiety, be sure to keep an eye on yourself and talk to your doc if you need to!
I know what you mean about having a mc being "normal" which sucks because it's soo hard it's kind of a catch 22, it's nice to have people who understand what you're going through, but it sucks that sooo many people understand.. if that makes any sense at all.
On the up side the chance of second mc is very low, especially where we've already had at least 1 baby. I'm a statistics person hahaha so that gives me a lot of comfort, knowing that we shouldn't have to go through this again. My heart aches for those who have had mc's without having a baby, it must be so scary to think you'll never be a mom.. at least we know that our body knows how to do this and it was just plain bad luck. When I was in the hospital, I asked my doc about it especially because I was 37, and he said that it was just bad luck, not to worry. I trust him a lot so that helps too!!
I feel very lucky to have come out of what I went through with my uterus in tact and me healthy that I think I'm destined to have another baby.. because otherwise I wouldn't need this uterus!!
I know what you mean about just wanting to be pregnant.. me too I hope it's a fast conception once I get the ok... are you doing opks? hopefully you'll catch that first egg!! then I'll hopefully only be a month or so behind you!! My OH has never wanted to "try" so to speak, but we were talking last night and I told him I'd like to "try" for the first 2 cycles, if I get the ok on Feb 26, and if I'm not pregnant then we can relax and let it happen... the first 2 cycles would give us a 2014 baby...
My goal the next time I'm pregnant is to not tell my OH until I've had an u/s showing that there is a heartbeat and all is good... not sure if I can pull it off, since I get pretty sick fast!! but he is such a worrier.. he worries about everything so I'd like for him not to have that stress at the very beginning if possible. This has always been what he wanted, after what we just went through though he wasn't sure if he still wanted me to try and hide it, since if something goes wrong, he says it would be hard to find out i was pregnant and then lose it all in one day... tough choice!!! Especially since I have to have an u/s as soon as I know I'm pregnant to check where the baby implants, and if it's low in my uterus, then we may need to terminate.... sigh... But I know it's going to be perfect next time!!! I'm just worried about twins and whether my uterus could handle 2...
Anyways I've babbled on long enough glad Freya is keeping you occupied, they are soo cute right now I looove this age!
BTW have you tried a hpt yet?
Kim
I hope you're feeling better today, and that today is a good day I'm sorry to hear about the anxiety, be sure to keep an eye on yourself and talk to your doc if you need to!
I know what you mean about having a mc being "normal" which sucks because it's soo hard it's kind of a catch 22, it's nice to have people who understand what you're going through, but it sucks that sooo many people understand.. if that makes any sense at all.
On the up side the chance of second mc is very low, especially where we've already had at least 1 baby. I'm a statistics person hahaha so that gives me a lot of comfort, knowing that we shouldn't have to go through this again. My heart aches for those who have had mc's without having a baby, it must be so scary to think you'll never be a mom.. at least we know that our body knows how to do this and it was just plain bad luck. When I was in the hospital, I asked my doc about it especially because I was 37, and he said that it was just bad luck, not to worry. I trust him a lot so that helps too!!
I feel very lucky to have come out of what I went through with my uterus in tact and me healthy that I think I'm destined to have another baby.. because otherwise I wouldn't need this uterus!!
I know what you mean about just wanting to be pregnant.. me too I hope it's a fast conception once I get the ok... are you doing opks? hopefully you'll catch that first egg!! then I'll hopefully only be a month or so behind you!! My OH has never wanted to "try" so to speak, but we were talking last night and I told him I'd like to "try" for the first 2 cycles, if I get the ok on Feb 26, and if I'm not pregnant then we can relax and let it happen... the first 2 cycles would give us a 2014 baby...
My goal the next time I'm pregnant is to not tell my OH until I've had an u/s showing that there is a heartbeat and all is good... not sure if I can pull it off, since I get pretty sick fast!! but he is such a worrier.. he worries about everything so I'd like for him not to have that stress at the very beginning if possible. This has always been what he wanted, after what we just went through though he wasn't sure if he still wanted me to try and hide it, since if something goes wrong, he says it would be hard to find out i was pregnant and then lose it all in one day... tough choice!!! Especially since I have to have an u/s as soon as I know I'm pregnant to check where the baby implants, and if it's low in my uterus, then we may need to terminate.... sigh... But I know it's going to be perfect next time!!! I'm just worried about twins and whether my uterus could handle 2...
Anyways I've babbled on long enough glad Freya is keeping you occupied, they are soo cute right now I looove this age!
BTW have you tried a hpt yet?
Kim