MMC/blighted ovum, when will I miscarry? Updated there is a baby after all!

[golcarlilly]

Oh gosh, so many of you have been through the same terrible thing

I would like to let nature take its course in one way, but in another I'd like to be able to start over as soon as I can.

I still feel so pregnant, which is upsetting me a great deal.

I'm talking to the midwife a little later today, so will hopefully get a referral to the epu or something.

I am really worried about a D&C ruining my chances of ever conceiving again tho?

I am so sorry you are having to go through this hun I had a similar experience last April, I went for a scan due to slight bleeding and they couldn't find a baby, only the sac and they said I could choose what to do, either wait and let it happen naturally, have a d&c or go for medical management, I chose the medical management but if I had to choose again I would go for the d&c, I too was worried about the potential damage they can cause but it is only a very very slight risk and it is over quickly. My experience of MM was not a good one though and I know it is very effective for some people. I hope whatever you decide your ordeal is soon over and you can get back to TTC

 

[hopefulfor09]

OH Dan-O. I don't know what to say. I am praying for your little bean to grow grow grow. I can't even imagine.....the not knowing. Oh hunny. I am here if you need to rant or rave or whatever.

Big huge hugs. You and LO are in my prayers and thoughts. xoxoxox

 

[srm0421]

Dan-o I am sorry this worry is going on. Try to stay positive. I am glad that you go to see the HB even though it just added more worry it is a beautiful sight. I will pray for you and your little bean. Hang in there dear.

 

[wantababybump]

Hang in there. Thinking of you and bubs xx