Most Annoying Thing About FOB

[OnErth&InHvn]

Annoying-
DSs dad: When he wants to act like the world perfect father but lie out of this rotten teeth while doing it.

DH: Right now? All the stupid questions and remarks about me leaving. Id leave his butt tomorrow if i could.

 

[Surreal]

oooo.... Premature ejaculation He reckoned he didn't have it, but it was literally, 1, 2, 3, bang. Jeeeez thanks for my pleasure

Mine was the opposite -- he either took forever, or couldn't at all! And what was worse, is I typically had to take care of myself!

... Guess that's what happens when a man is into hardcore porn and jacking it like a drill. Man was sick *******.

Surreal and shiawase - he was vile! He would shower about once every 3 days. He was a chef so he would come home reeking of fat and god knows what else, chuck his uniform on the floor of the shower room and then climb into bed and want sex.

My ex didn't bath for weeks on end, either. The last year or so, I begged and pleaded for him to shower, because he was so greasy and smelt bad. Half the time he just mockingly laughed at me, or made some stupid threat in order to get me to leave him alone.

... is it sad that I have two men I'm referring to? One was my ex-husband, other is LO's dad(First post, body builder). I learned quickly that going from an abusive relationship, into another? Usually results in another abusive relationship. *Facepalms*

 

[Mummyplus3]

Hmmm,

Although there was loads of things in our relationship I think the most annoying thing now is that he lies!! I find he's blaming stuff on me even though we havent spoken in about 2 years - there's plenty of other people that hate him so why the need to make out like its just me I don't know lol!

Everytime I hear about a crash or accident in his area I have a little pray that its him

 

[young-mummy]

HIM
his family
his friends
his life
his ex's
his lies
his verbal abuse
how he thinks hes a man slag and really tries to be one.
how he has got 2 girls preg in 9 months and now another girl claiming she may be preg with his baby
how he thinks his willy is huge and hes sooooooo good at sex. (hes really not)
he thinks hes a hunk and hes not..

and how ill always love him no matter what

rant over x

 

[tinkerbellita]

That he was able to just walk away from his child.
(FOB has never met LO - not my choice)

Exactly the same. That;s the most annoying thing, that he just carries on like our LO doesn't exist.

 

[teal]

That he was able to just walk away from his child.
(FOB has never met LO - not my choice)

Exactly the same. That;s the most annoying thing, that he just carries on like our LO doesn't exist.

xx

 

[Mummyplus3]

That he was able to just walk away from his child.
(FOB has never met LO - not my choice)

Exactly the same. That;s the most annoying thing, that he just carries on like our LO doesn't exist.

Mine does this with E He has another daughter and pretends he's this amazing parent etc... Eurgh E is going to hate him when I have to tell her about him

 

[jocelynmarie]

Wow... Mine sound lame compared to this... I have a long list, but I'll keep it at the one that annoys me the most!!

His being more of a woman than I am... seriously, I don't want to hear about your feelings 20 hours a day. I'm the pregnant one with crazy hormones and lord he whines 20x more than I do!! The situation sucks big time, but I don't take it likely. Being a single parent is not what I wanted, but I'll be happier alone and a better mom with out having to keep up a charade of being in love with him when I'm completely not.

 

[lal]

How he turns every shi++y thing he does into my fault. How he still goes to college-age bars and picks up college-age girlfriends when he's 39. How he tells everyone how much he cares about me then treats me like something stuck to his shoe. How he is now permanently in my life, and gets exactly what he wants (to see his son as much as he wants to, to know that I'm not with anybody else, and to leave when our baby goes to bed and go out to the bars to pick up the next girlfriend). Oh, and his insane sense of entitlement. The lies, the lifestyle, the broken promises and the worry of my son being part of it all now.

 

[Maybe1stBaby]

His crass redneck sense of humor
How every joke must be sexual
How he loves Pee-Wee Herman
How he believes President Obama is not a US citizen
The fact that he's a Republican (I'm a hippie radical left-wing liberal Democrat)
I really do think he's a closet racist (or at the very least his family is, esp since he's kept us apart)
His stupid stories about his past (violence is condoned and celebrated, i.e. getting into bar fights, etc)
How his hair is so thin yet he treats it better than me
Those stupid Tommy Bahama Hawaiian shirts he wears every day
His man-boobs
How he doesn't brush his teeth
How he snores
How he's married to his Blackberry
How he ignores anything I say yet he talks nonstop
His sex addiction (which of course got me into this, haha)
The weird stuff he's into sexually
How he's addicted to making money yet he's the most frugal Scrooge ever
How everything is always about him
How he has sex w/ me even when i don't want to
How he has his minions cyber-stalk me
How according to him, he's never wrong
His threats and links to the mafia
How whenever I bring something about his behavior to his attention, he immediately denies what he has said or done, even if I have proof!
The fact that he's a sociopath, or at the very least a narcissist (alas, I'm not a therapist though)

Come to think of it, what DID I like about him?

 

[Becyboo__x]

I guess the main things that have totally just hurt me out of it all are..

Him walking away 16 weeks into the pregnancy next day getting with another girl
Finding out he cheated on me a year after he left me..
Not trusting me over other girls
Saying "Ill never do what my dad did to me to my child" ..
Putting his new girlfriend before anyone
Saying "I want f-all to do with him, he does'nt need me will be better off without me"
Saying hes ignoring any contact or letters from csa or contact from me!
Getting his friend to find out things for him if mason looks like him or not

So many more..
Basically hes a complete a-hole so immature and different to how he used to be weird how someone can be so excited/happy at a scan then leave you for someone else when your carrying there child! argh

 

[MissRhead]

Hes a fab farther but he really pisses me off how he tells me im doing things wrong. Im with LO 24-7 i know how to get him to sleep, feed him change him. He just thinks he knows how to do everything better lol!

 

[lily123]

Many many reasons why FOB annoys me!
1. that he won't pay for his daughter.
2. he stinks of B.O.

 

[BeautifulD]

Some of these are great!
My biggest bug bare with the father of my little ladies is the way he swans around like he's the best thing since sliced bread... on the plus side everyone just looks at him as if to say who the fook does he think he is?! lmao even my daughters have picked up on it and say he's embarrasing sometimes

 

[jess11991]

Ugh also the fact that whenever he comes to see Avalon (which is rare enough) he brings his bitchy girlfriend like she has a right to be there. And the one time I ask him to come without her, it's some big deal and she freaking spins out in my driveway. He see's her every weekend, if he doesn't drive to her, she drives to him, but he can't take time to see his daughter more than twice (if we're lucky) a month.

I feel the same way! SOB FOB thinks that his home wrecking whore has to be there and I say no... So he refuses to see his beautiful daughter because his old woman is a little hurt that she is not invited.

 

[JessdueJan]

The fact he thinks that I'm taking the piss because I asked him to have his son from 4pm on Saturday until 5pm on Sunday!!

 

[whoops]

Quite simply - his cowardice.

I didn't have a choice about telling my family I was having a baby so I did it immediately and dealt with the consequences and put up with the disappointment. It wasn't easy but I'm a fucking grown up and I dealt with it.

He, on the other hand, has spent the past year in terror that someone in his family will find out and every time he thinks of telling them, he chickens out.

Just grow a pair, FFS.

Oh, and the idiot set up standing order maintenance payments so that his name appears with each one. Like a knife in my heart every time I see my bank statement because his effing name is all over it.

 

[Rhio92]

The constant texts saying 'you're seeing someone arent you?' 'have you met someone yet?' 'ibet you're shagging about' 'how's the new guy?'
DO ONE!

 

[Rhio92]

Buuuuump as we have a few new people that may find this thread useful

 

[Crumbsx]

Ooh I like this thread, thanks for bumping it!

Oh gosh, where do I start:
- the fact he doesn't care about his daughter, nor do his family, yet they still come round to my house for a hour a week to.. Watch tv. Not even see her, then have the cheek to say he wants to take her to his.
- the way FOB tries to bully me, and tells me I'm going to die of cancer and leave my daughter then he'll get her, and he tells me I'm a crap mum and I'm horrible generally etc.

That is all, for now! Aha.