Mother of all conception months Graduates

[molly85]

eugh, jeez is it not common sence open a ruddy window. if it was their own house would they not crack a window. and i dnt know anyone that can run 2baths at a time or have 2 showers. the water has to split some someones going to come out cold. Do what we do to save water share the sodding bath lol.

LOl my lovely little flat started going mouldy coz the council didn't put ventilation in when it was contructed and the neighbours upstairs warped the porch door next to closet that was mouldering. I complained then sent people out but never fixed the problem, if had been as simple as opening a window I'd have been happy, this closet had a fixed window. such a shame the place was brilliant and i still miss it. My first piece of true independance.

 

[madcatwoman]

well of a morning the windows did condense up and we did have to open them as you say, but theyre not doing this, and now its creaping into the walls(which we will have to fix one day when they leave), told us there must have been a damp problem when we lived there(well, we know our own house and know theres never been a problem- but theyre not having it).
as for the baths, i told them they can have a combi boiler fitted to cope with hot water on demand but which will cost thousands and the rent will have to reflect this.!!!!!!.

Anyway DH has offered to go round to see them after work, and they say say theire going to the docs(both of them) about their baby(shes 2 months gone), so i said "if one of you can stay home we'll get this looked at", but they wont. (& ive been to all my appointments on my own, apart from scans).

i just wish they would bugger off so we can get someone whos reliable in.

 

[molly85]

awww grr.
talking of appointments iv just booked in for my physio preparing for birth classes. Would have liked NCT classes but they are very exspensive.just waiting for the midwife to get baack to me with antinatal dates for my hospital so matt can book work

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Ugh, send some sunshine here!!!!!!!! I feel like a hermit I don't want to go outside because it's so cold!

There's mold in our main bedroom too and the council says it's condensation. Condensation my ass! That room was left open during the day! We're left sleeping on a mattress on the floor of the spare room because DH doesn't want me (or LO) breathing in mold spores! He's gonna go in there and scrub everything, but it won't make a bit of difference as the mold will be back this winter! f*cking council!

 

[molly85]

where in the room is the mould. going risking walking mols first time in 3 mnths

 

[Ozzieshunni]

In our room? On the outside wall and in the cupboard. They still SWEAR it's condensation. I say, it's inadequate insulation.

 

[molly85]

asctually sounds like bad ventilation and condensation

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Hey Ladies :wave:

Thank you vbaby and Molly for your kind words I guess am in panick mode over the thing that scares me the most I do however hope he pops out like a fish Molly LMAO!

Well I got some news from my Mum earlier which made me ...Its seem my sister has taken her 11mths old DD and moved back in with her DD`s dad whos violent, manipulative and a downright bully I am so scared for them both and am honestly shocked she has made this decision She says she wants to be with him and wants them to be a family This man will never give her what she wants and I feel like her and making her see sense. He has no intention of working to support them at all and once her cash savings are gone (she took her bank book with her!) he wont want to know her It will be the same old story as before and whats more this guy has dodgy child abuse charges against him and he also raped my sister before she fell pregnant to him.....I am so upset by the whole thing and my tiny little niece is such a doll and I dont want either of them to come to any harm We dont even know where she is living and my Mum has a broken heart

madcat hon I hope your tenants fook off Sounds like they are making excuses so they can justify not paying you guys

 

[molly85]

awww no madly, i just don't get these girls.our friend who stayed with us did this. but had no kids, iv reduced contact as she ddnt accept the help she offered and it was a lot severalppl offered her bed and bored and a good job

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Molly I am so scared that the next thing will be a knock at my parents door from the police It seems shes forgotten everything he did to her when she was pregnant She moved back to my parents when she was about 16wks pregnant and her DD is 1yrs old in Feb he hasnt give a damn all this time but somehow shes hooked on him I want to beat him senseless That man will never be a dad to my neice cause he damn well doesnt want to Hes lazy and has no intention of caring for them at all. My Mum is devastated

 

[molly85]

thers one thing you could do but won't be popular

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

I already thought about it Molly hon but I have absoultely no idea where she is living

 

[molly85]

her daughter will be registered with a GP or health visitor I'd like to hope. the call might put you at ease, as long as its safe they prefer to put kids with family.How olds your mum? making that call would put your mind at ease that you have done everything you can

 

[gilz82]

Aw Madly I'm so sorry you are going through this. Hopefully your sister will come to her senses before anything regrettable happens

Madcat I hate annoying tenants they make your life hellish. My current tenant is really good but the one before was beyond useless

 

[molly85]

how do you girls know how to rent your houses out? do you use an agent?

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Molly she was registered at the gps just down the road from my parents she just upped and left yesterday apparently to stay with my other sister but then just moved back him with him so no one has any idea how to locate where is is actually living now Shes not daft she kept it quiet for a reason and without knowing this I dont know where to even start. My mum is 46yrs old but even I would take my niece shes mine and DHs god-daughter I just feel helpless. My friend said to keep out of it and that she needs to learn for herself but I cant settle on that knowing her daughter is at serious risk from this bloke I would never forgive myself if anything was to happen and I didnt do anything to try and prevent it iykwim!

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Thank you Gilz hon How did your meet go?

 

[gilz82]

how do you girls know how to rent your houses out? do you use an agent?

I've always used and agent to find and vet the tenants Molly but after that point I've just managed things myself.

 

[molly85]

I know how you feel and I've seen what happens to those kids when tehy grow up it can be very sad.

What responcible adult would let a child be at risk, her mums obviously got issues of her own to want or need to be in that relationship. If he has other cases coming up against him todo with children, the police should know where he is. they a have a sort or warning system even if you just made a quick call they can send a warning to the appropriate peole to just keep an eye on them.

Hope it all sorts it self out

 

[molly85]

im wondering if we can rent this place out instead of selling it when we need some where bigger its great for communting and has just had the wires and electrics done. we only pay £520 on the mortgage and the house next door is on the rental market for £850 admittedly a bit high but even £650/700 would give a decent profit margin