Hi,
Sorry your feeling upset there was a bit of a mishap to start with the group so small we usually discuss and vote in new members of the FB page as it's very small and contains details of our personal lives. The vote usually has to be unanimous or very close. Many of the girls don't actually remember you so felt uncomfortable having to recover old ground with someone they do not know.
The move to FB was never made secret and it has been running for over a year so there has always been the option to follow us, though if memory serves you didn't keep up to date on this thread so would really struggle on the FB one as it is very fast moving.
If there has been dispute in the past I believe we would all like to leave it there as we are all now very different people. At the moment the 2 other ladies added will remain with us as it was not their choice not to graduate with us and they always had an open invitation but they were not yet ready to join us.
Please do not take to much offence to this we have previously declined other members, we would rather decline a member than have any discomfort in the group.
Most of us are still around BNB and you have a few FB contacts to.