Mother of all conception months Graduates

[MADLYSBOYS]

Thanks Ladies

I agree...we dont want to alienate her because we know there will be a day AND it will come no doubt about it when she will need us and we want her to feel she has somewhere to go or turn too I am so scared for them both and of course her unborn baby, I realise its her life but she left before and we thought she had realised that this man is not right for a million reasons seems we were wrong Its incredibly hard to sit back and wait for her to realise and yes we also worry she will end up on the front of the papers for the wrong reasons too She was lucky when she escaped at 16wks pregant he attacked her with a knife and told her he was going to cut her DD out of her tummy she managed to break free and lock herself in the bathroom and thankfully her mobile phone was tucked into her jeans so she was able to call for help. I just pray this doesnt happen again and infront of my niece as well

 

[PeanutBean]

Oh madly I don't know what to say.

I agree with gilz though, try and think about yourself tonight and tomorrow at least.

 

[molly85]

HUgs

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Thank you Ladies

I am trying

DH shocked me with his opinions too I feel like crying.....I sent her a message of love (no lectures) and I hope she realises I am here for her if she ever needs me!

 

[PeanutBean]

You can't make people see sense, they have to see for themselves and sometimes they don't see in time. You must be so worried. My sister was in an abusive relationship many years ago now but we didn't find out until some time after it was over. He had two daughters she'd been a mum to and she was devastated to be forced to leave them. (She was able to rescue their two dogs though). All you can do is hope and pray and be there.

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

I agree Peanut and by voicing our true opinions we may drive her away even more and further into his grimmy little claws So we are biting our tongues so at least we can have a relationship with her and DD right now because at least from afar we can keep an eye out iykwim!

 

[molly85]

madly i pass you a bowl of my freshly made bronie anf vanilla ice cream. it will put in a warm fuzzy place

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Thank you Molly hon

It might help cheer me up

 

[molly85]

lol ot certainly reminded me what MS was like its that gooooood

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

its so true that you just can not make people see what is right in front of them sometimes i hope that she will be safe again soon without having to go through what she went through before

ha ha booking my scan next week for 3 weeks after that! feel like i am catching up with all the scan talk now lol - i am under consultant led care unsurprisingly but funnily enough she remembered us not by what happened to our boy but by the restaurant my dh works in lol lol lol - thankfully it jogged her memory about everything else and she said that they were going to be looking into all my potential problems in more depth than last time (er i should think so too!)

i wonder if i will be getting more scans . . . . i know a lot of people with big babies in the past have done at 28/36 weeks but dunno is that a cheeky question to ask like i dont give a stuff what you have to say about that just tell me if i get an extra scan ish hmmmm

so excited, actually no scared, the first scan is scary after that its exciting! madly you are going to have such a good day tomorrow! and madcat!!!!

 

[molly85]

Ask nomore can't do any harm. I do with excuse I have to plan round matts shifts lol

 

[molly85]

Ohh everyone either has a life tonight or is in bed.
I've spent ages looking at baby walkers, activity stations, play pens adn high chairs. Jeez the thinks that entertain me.
I think i have decided on the playpen/travel cot in the asda sale or similer and the this Highchair https://cgi.ebay.co.uk/NEW-MY-CHILD...ng_Highchairs_Boosters_LE&hash=item2c5a38653d

Am not keen on anything that makes a baby look like john wayne, think wee will get a brick trolly or some thing for her to push about

 

[madcatwoman]

Morning all
5.33am,managed to sleep till3,sat propped up for 2hrs and have given in and on here while DH snoozes.

madly i dont know what to say about your sis. ive been thru it with a friend and theres just no reasoning to it,and you cant make them see it either,they have to hit very rock bottom themselves so it seems,but that doesnt make it any easier to watch i know.

 

[gilz82]

Morning Madcat

I had a horrible night too, couldn't sleep and now I feel really sick, been up for ages which on a Saturday is sooo wrong. But on a good note I felt my first proper movements last night and my OH managed to feel too. Hopefully this is the start of me being able to feel things regularly.

Anyone got anything nice planned for today?

 

[PeanutBean]

Morning! Congrats Gilz! You must be well excited.

DH is at work and I just don't know what to do with me and Byron today. Weather's not charming. Have to walk the dog. I'm still in bed, Byron's jabbering about what he can see out the window.

 

[madcatwoman]

wow gilz, movements at last, and at least your man can feel them, they stop everytime my DH puts his hand there!,EVERYTIME, he can watch them though.
DH put the tv on in the bedroom for me at 6am in the end and i managed to drop off again.

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Hey Ladies :wave:

Well am surfing at work....naughty me

Thank for all your support I feel so much better today

Gilz I have the best thing planned for 4pm today OUR 4D SCAN

 

[madcatwoman]

Peanut, ask Byron what he wants to do today, and see if he comes up with anything reasonable!

madly, cant wait to see the photos, will check back on here later this afternoon/evening, have a good one

 

[PeanutBean]

As it happens I did ask him! But he just wittered on about pushchairs and dogwalks and I can't manage the pram on a walk anymore! Lol. He's dead tired. We're watching Kiki then having lunch then I'm hoping he'll sleep and I'll stitch nappies outers. Then we'll walk the dog then DH will be home!

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

yeah i can use that excuse with dh too re scan dates hmmmm plus if i remember right you arent supposed to take children in the scan room with you and have someone looking after your child if they are going to be outside hmmmmm i have a jobless brother might have to ask him to come with us - he'll appreciate a macdonalds as payment i am sure lol

oh scans scans scans! so excited to see all the pics over the next few days!

Gilz congrats hun thats fab that you are feeling the movements! it must have been so frustrating having to wait even just a couple of weeks longer lol so pleased for you!