Mother of all conception months Graduates

[vbaby3]

Same at our hospital,the labour ward is completely different,they wouldn't send partners away if you're in labour!
They just have to leave the ward by 10pm but can stay with you all day.

You're right peanut,I forgot madly said it was a girl!!!!
Madcat,i'm on ebay looking at butterfly and flower stickers he he he!!
We'll be all girly until she's old enough to tell me she doesn't want to be,she could be a real tom boy with 2 older brothers.But until then its fairies and flowers all the way lol!!!

 

[madcatwoman]

I dont blame you Vbaby, id be girlie all the way if we were having a girl too. like you say, when shes old enough she will tell you you if she wants to change her room. Its nice to have little girls brought up as...well...little girls.(i think anyway!)

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I'm weak....ebay is an enemy....look what I just bid on for little guy https://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=110642155283 Just like his daddy

 

[madcatwoman]

very cute ozzie!!.

I spent most of friday being told by MIL that i dont need shoes for LO, its a waste, like a record player on repeat.

I know full well a LO age 0-3mnths doesnt bloody walk lol!, still nice to see something on their feet if we go out though!!

 

[vbaby3]

Aww cute ozzie,my sister bought shay a pair of them when he was wee.

 

[vbaby3]

I always had lil shoes on my boys,they're just cute!!
It was great though,my brother who never knows what to buy for gifts buys trainers for the kids!!
When shay was born he got him a teeny pair of fila runners,and a pair of adidas,soooo cute with jeans!
Hopefully he'll buy this lo some converse!!
I'm sure dressing a girl won't be as straight forward,I think she'll need more than 1 pair lol!!1 pair to match each outfit i think!!lol

 

[Ozzieshunni]

very cute ozzie!!.

I spent most of friday being told by MIL that i dont need shoes for LO, its a waste, like a record player on repeat.

I know full well a LO age 0-3mnths doesnt bloody walk lol!, still nice to see something on their feet if we go out though!!

I know It's kinda silly because they won't be wearing them long, but for some reason it's special to me

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Thinking about you Gilz hon

Ladies I have a drs appointment at 4pm to discuss things and have had a reply from the union about the letters I drafted to work. I emailed them last week for the union rep to check over before submitting them to work, anyways he gave me the go ahead and I emailed them to my boss this morning. So far no reply (I asked for him to confirm he has recieved my email and give me a timescale in which he will reply to my questions!) but no contact from him as yet.....no surprise there at all I am having to take Oliver to my appt because MIL is been her usually old self and cant collect him from school as was pre-arranged So because of the weather I have decided to taxi it to the school and back in order to even make my appointment on time. I feel like I need to get how I feel out today so I really need to try and make this appointment otherwise I feel i may chicken out by tomorrow. DH is no help right now and keeps saying I will not get sick or PD this time but am not so sure right now....I just want to crawl into an hole somewhere and die quietly

 

[madcatwoman]

Oh madly
you dont sound good, im really glad to hear your getting yourself off to the docs, im really hoping if he/she has any sense they'll sign you off now on sick, because all this worry and stress will not be doing you any favours.
shame your MIL is being so useless at a time you could do with her, but glad your getting yourself seen to all the same.

Come back and let us know how you get on!

 

[vbaby3]

Madly,
Definately sounds like you should be signed off from work.Hope all goes well at docs.xxx

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

aw its so crap that you feel so poo madly!

personally i freaking love those baby trainers! i dont go mad though i just buy really cute baggies for their feet when they are small but when they need them i always buy a couple of pairs! especially if they are light up ones! my ds loves light up shoes lol lol lol he has more shoes than me, a pair of trainers, a pair of sandals for summer a pair of wellies for rainy days a pair oof smartish shoes lol!

off topic but met my dad today (he offered money but told him would call him the second we decided we well and truely needed it which we dont at the mo) anywho we started talking about all the other people my dad has helped in the family and we moved on to a cousin of mine who is getting married in the summer, i still cant get over it £100 a head!!!! £100 per head!!!!!! one HUNDRED pounds PER HEAD!!!! obviously we arent paying but . . .my goodness! safe to say they arent inviting kids as they would still be £100 ph but it poses a problem for me, even if i do end up booking a c section i would give birth the week before and if i go for vbac - which i am siding on i could give birth the same day! most likely i will have a week old baby at home plus ds so prob wont be able to go but . . . . £100 per head! woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooah! ours was £25 inc start, main, dessert, cheese and a glass of champagne! with a micelin star chef cooking! who is cooking for £100 ph! the queen? woah!!!!!

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

NOMORE you made me giggle.......100.00 per head perhaps your cousin could sling some of her money this way I am just about to sign off and trot over to the drs with Oliver in tow (praying he behaves!) I think I may just get the dr to sign me off until my Mat Leave starts and then I can really begin to relax I am worried about how all this will impact on me getting PD again and also my labour if I continue to worry myself like I am which I canT help because I am a freak and cannot seem to stop worrying about the situation So well here goes I will update you Ladies when I return which may have to be via the shop for goodies if Oliver is good

Thank you all so much for your support AGAIN!

 

[vbaby3]

Good luck madly.xx

 

[vbaby3]

100pound a head!!!!
Sounds a bit mad alright!
If I were you I'd definately go for the meal at least!U don't wanna miss out on the 100 pound dinner!!

 

[PeanutBean]

Any news from Gilz? Hope Madly's doing ok too. What a lot we are.

DH came home for the two-ish hours before having to go back. Walked the dog and sent me to bed. Big mistake. I got no sleep really at all and am left feeling like death and wanting nothing but sleep. Don't know how I'm going to manage tonight and them tomorrow too with poorly demanding Byron and poorly demanding me.

 

[gilz82]

I'm back

The jellybean is completely fine although it took the mw and obstetrician ages to find his heartbeat. That was just down to my stupid placenta though.

They poked around my bump and there is swelling underneath the skin but again won't affect the baby just be painful for me. I've had loads of BH today and apparently that's just down to me rumbling everything around when I fell.

All in all it was a ok visit to the hospital and at least I don't need to worry anymore just now!!

Madly hope things go ok at the docs

Aw peanut sorry you aren't feeling good again hon

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

thing is i find that these types of things you get a really rich, really small poncy food, it is prob that much because it is silver service and they are including a fair bit of wine in it too but goodness me! they dont have money, my dad helped them get their house only two years ago! its crazy to me! i really really really want to breast feed properly this time which means i would HAVE to take baby which we arent allowed, not moaning just means it will be practically impossible for me to go, i am thinking i can get a lift there with dad, literally go to the ceremony and then get dh to drive up to pick me up so at least i get to see the important bit of them getting married - oh wells i have had my fair share of £100meals, give me £35 quid i can get some really top notch ingredients and have my own little haute cusine event in the comfort of my own toy, puke, poo, cheesy bra ridden home lol lol lol

 

[gilz82]

Quite right Nomore I can't imagine paying £100 a head at a wedding it's mental.

 

[vbaby3]

Glad lo is ok gilz.xx
Sorry you're feeling so crappy again peanut,don't know how you cope at all.xx
Nomore I would skip the service and just go for the dinner lol!!!!

 

[gilz82]

Oh and I meant to stick a picture up of my ever increasing bump. It's starting to get really big!!

https://i1100.photobucket.com/albums/g413/gdonald20/9a5c2115.jpg

I really should stop eating chocolate cos that bump is probably 50% baby and 50% curly wurly Please excuse the bruised legs and various kidney related scars all over my belly.