Mother of all conception months Graduates

[PeanutBean]

Well they said it's never happened before and he's fine. The whole thing is weird.

Having a nightmare bathtime. Indigo's in a right state this evening and Byron's acting up, I'm ready to walk out the bathroom and leave then to it.

 

[molly85]

keep strong hun. deep breaths maybe scream back i did that at abby didn't shut her up but made mefeel better

 

[tas1]

That's terrible pb I can't believe they got mixed up! It's stood job Bryon didn't react!

Ive just been for a run so need a shower but caleb has had a screaming fit and fell asleep on me so i'll leave him for abit. Xx

 

[gilz82]

God Tas where do you get the energy to go running from. I bought the new davina DVD and a post natal stretching/toning type DVD. I've yet to find the time to do either of them let alone have the energy and I've only got one baby.

 

[tas1]

Gilz it's just a break from them,I really enjoy it time to de-stress! Not sure where energy comes from I think coz I have to go otherwise my sister is on her own it makes me go! Just wish I could work out in between the runs!
What the make of that post natal DVD? X

 

[gilz82]

It's this one Tas

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B000PMFO0Y/ref=mp_s_a_1?qid=1307995270&sr=8-1

The woman is called Erin O'Brian I think. It's not really a workout DVD it's just more geared towards re-strengthening your core muscles so it's back to pre-pregnancy. One of my friends who had a baby put me on to it. She's really slim but had problems losing her tummy and this DVD in conjunction with a cardio workout did the trick for her. It's only 15 minutes long and there's three levels of intensity so I really should get on with doing it every day

I wish I could get back into running, but I've got runner hip in both hips and I go for steroid injections at the becoming of July. They wouldn't give me them while I was pregnant so of course pregnancy made it worse.

 

[tas1]

That DVD sounds good,I need something for my tummy as having two big babies have ruined it and I had such a nice tummy before! Not bothered about my jlo bum lol something to grab (apparently lol)
And ouch about your hips! When can you get the injections again? My mum has alot of problems with her hips and knees and I know how much pain she is in so must be ten times worse with pregnancy
Xx

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Well Lasagne was lovely Ladies but the chocolate cake was even better

for pram covers Peanut but for the antibiotics mix up it does seem sort of odd I have never known such mistakes to happen tbh Glad Byron is ok! How did bath time pan out in the end?

for a disorganised DH Ozzie .... how did the interview go?

As for trumpy bottoms Charlie is king of the trumps I was in the bathroom the other night and heard him trump and he was in the bedroom

Glad you got out to the park Tas and well done on the running

Loopy for mummy meeting and mothercare sale bargains am hoping to join a mummy meeting next week when all calms down on the appointment front am bogged down with appointments and stuff this week Hope your OH didnt rage too much over the bumped cars

Molly over Abbys lost birth certificate

Gilz I too want to exercise but have a dodgy pelvis and am currently going to physio its still clicking really badly cant wait to get back on my WII!

 

[molly85]

i'm with taz i ave been back on form for a while the pushchair up the hill after walking to town a step to far but have other wise bounced back fully lol i now have 2lbs left to loose before i start on proper weight loss ready for number 2. 10pm tried putting abby to bed and used the god forsaken baby monitor and she started crying straightaway.so is cuddling with daddy and her dummy while my boobs recover again

 

[tas1]

Caleb hasn't woken yet for his last feed so I'm waiting for that! I need a wee so I'm guessing he will wake up!
Abby is obviously a cuddly baby,you'll wish she still was when she gets too cool for cuddles!

Xx

 

[molly85]

will that be in the next hour? lol she sharted at the dog and matt got the short straw. one day i am going to pee myself laughing at him changing a nappy. I am guessing she may have lost a few ounces on thursday all the pooping she is doing

 

[PeanutBean]

Thanks madly. I feel pretty weird about it all. I have a thread in toddler section and some people think I should report it to ofsted. I dunno.

Bathtime ended so I guess went ok! Lol I pulled the plug on Byron as he kept lying down. Indigo got cuddles interspersed with being left to scream. Byron got short shrift with everything! Oh, she's just done a scone giant poo! Hope that she'll perk up. only lasted a mon after the last poo before screaming again! Will give DH this nappy I think! Wonder what I ate yesterday that has disagreed with her. God another giant pooey fart! And another! Glad she's in her bedtime disposable!

I can't run. Like, physically I can't! I also have duff knees which are particularly broken the past few days.

 

[sequeena]

Evening everyone hope everyone is ok, I'm on the iphone again

I've got a feeling I'm not going to get this baby to 37 weeks

 

[molly85]

PB we must have had the same thing she went from 1 poop a day to 4 today.

on the byron thing if its in the incident book ofstead will see it. Doctors and nurse make the same mistake far more frequently thanyour nursery so yes scary as a parent but from a outside point of view it's not the worst mistake ever. I am sure they have given milk to a dairy intolerant child before or meat to a vegitarian child. its a dodgy cockup but people are human

 

[molly85]

i saw your status your doing well and he's a speedy cooker

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

wow pb just saw your thread in the toddler forum! wow!

i would be in tears over it! just because when i dont know how to react sometimes i just explode but not anger like most people . . . water . . i explode with water lol wow! glad that bryon is ok though! bless him!

feeling really rough today! cant do anything when it is semi sunny or over 16 degress at the moment it really sucks! going to make up for the last couple of days of being cooped up in doors by taking him to a country park in the early morning and maybe getting him a couple of new cars and food colouring for some new play dough! we'll crack them out on the next dizzy day . . .

 

[PeanutBean]

Have a nice day tomorrow nomore. I cry easily too. It was the worst when I was a teenand when I was really angry I'd well up! But he's fine and what's done is done. I just felt kind of bewildered.

Is that how it works Molly? I really don't know. I should probably look it up. But I agree with you. Thinking of it the context of medical negligence it is a minor error. I would imagine that were a potent/unusual medication being administered it would be more carefully considered anyway. Maybe I'm odd but I keep thinking of how the cater must feel. That awful guilt in the pit of your stomach and going over and over the incident with repeated if onlys. She must feel absolutely awful with guilt and then worrying if she'll keep her job on top of that. I think I am odd and don't feel that my children are the only ones that matter iyswim. I've never been a 'sue the nhs' type.

Indigo seems more settled now. Think we might be in for a more normal night.

sequeena. What will be will be. Whenever he makes his appearance he'll be ok even if he has some catching up to do.

 

[molly85]

i am guessing she won't loose her job but prob won't give medication for a while. I'm doing a course that means i can give drugs more potent than antibiotics so try not to think of making a cock up as baring any damage done to a client the paper work is hideous.

yup ofstead check all incident forms register etc when they inspect. you could ask to have a look at the forms but as they called you and are openly investigating it i would imagine it really is a one off event and it just happened to to byron rather than another child. plus why was a child on antibiotics at nursery

 

[PeanutBean]

Kids often have antibiotics at nursery. Byron has had them when he was younger. I forget why. I can't remember the policy and it depends what the ailment is but after X days they take them and will complete the course there. I've seen and signed the incident form. I imagine she will at least be taken off giving meds. It's all a bit sad and odd. DH doesn't feel the need to complain to ofsted. To much formal complaining and not enough consideration of human nature in this world. Where a thing is not maliciously done it doesn't hurt to have a little compassion.

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

thats the thing isnt it these days we are always so quick to jump on the black and white bandwagon but life is distinctly grey!

i think as long as they come up with a strategy to put in place to well and truely prevent this from happening again it is a lesson learnt. it sounds like a genuine mistake, and not because she was rushing to get to a fag break or chatting on a mobile . . .