Mother of all conception months Graduates

[Ozzieshunni]

:wave: That was me! But she missed the vein Still hurt like a b***h

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

yeah i am! the consultant said he would understand if i decided on a c section, my midwife has now said that she will support me - all i have to do is go to an appointment with - i think midwife - a lady who will discuss everything in full with me basically going through all facts and trying to get me to say i understand that a c section is more risky than vbac and that will be it! will defo take hubby with me as honestly i am so easily trodden over i am too polite, all it would take would be for her to say to me just think about it a little more and me go erm . . ok and it will drag on for a few more weeks .. hubby will be like no! she is decided!

i know he sounds like he is pushy but i have told him to be, if at any point i said to him actually no i have changed my mind he would back right off but as i know we both want the section and he has a lot more balls than me lol he is being my thats enough talk from you missus voice lol

i am really happy now, tonight is the first night where i have not had a semi panic about the birth - i am scared of surgery of course! but i am no longer scared that i will be with another stupid midwife who messes up! my shoulders have gone from high above my ears to nice and relaxed! xkx

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I'm glad they agreed to allow you to have another c-section especially after your experiences last time. I can't say anything yet, but depending on how this one goes if the next LO doesn't have heart block, I may opt for VBAC because there is a place where I can have a water birth where we will be going in California. I know that I'll probably get pushed for another c-section, but it's my body

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

lol me too! i posted about that yesterday when talking about what happened to me after the c section lol!

yeah they put the stupid thing literally in the back of my wrist! it was so so bruised and it was totally impossible to get out of bed for ages because you cant tense your stomach so you have to push off with your hands! 3 days i had those stupid things in! gosh they were so bruised! i have a scar from it too!

Ozzie when they put a canula in you wrist make a joke and say oh lots of my friends had theirs put way too low down so made it impossible for them to get out of bed! you will put it higher up wont you lol just to make sure they dont - me (well prob my hubby) will be mentioning that this time round lol

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Yeah, I'll be having the doctor do it in my hand. Hell if they try and put it in my wrist! I'll be raising hell!

 

[molly85]

excellent you can relax nomore.

Cat i had one there to, so giving birthi wanted it out

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

thanks ozzie! both me and hubby agreed that if it had literally just been a case of non progression then no way would we want a c section but like you said being let down so badly has majorly affected our decision. i wanted vbac at first but that little nagging feeling of i dont trust these people just grew. i am well on the if there is no reason then vbac is best unfortunately i have a really good reason

its funny isnt it, at this point in my first pregnancy i was looking into massage and positions and really psyching myself up for just gas and air this time i have battled for a c section . . . funny how things change lol

ozzie i cant wait to hear you birth story! i am sooo unbelievably excited for you! its like waiting for christmas!

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

mmmmmmmmmmm i found the canuala in my hand to be no better Ladies my hand swelled up so bad and I too couldnt use my right hand properly hard when your right handed and trying to tend to your baby

 

[molly85]

i'd go for crook of the elbow personally. it's where i wanted it but was to confussed to ask it was all going so quick

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I'll ask for them to put it in my left hand. It did swell up, but it was much easier having it there than in my right hand.

lol, nomore, I shall not disappoint!

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

good good Ozzie!

I had one in each hand (wrist) . . . . . . . . grrrrrrrrrrr

there is a freezing food thread in 3rd tri for being prepared when baby gets here . . man it has made me feel so hungry! and made me not want the pie and mash!

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

how blinking stupid are some people!

watching that body clinic thing on channel 4 that is on at the mo . . . this girl bought tanning injections off the internet from europe and has been injecting them herself! and now is covered in moles! doi! you coudl hear from their tones that they were trying not to say errrr are you bloody thick! but really who would inject themselves with something off the internet!

 

[madcatwoman]

Ohhh jese, you girls would die crying of laughter if you could have seen me 5mins ago. Bailey is doing a poo in his open nappy, mid change, anyway its coming and coming, and all of a sudden, one almightly push and it shoots out all over my top, all down my PJs and all over my hand LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ive just changed, looks like ive had a fight with the mustard!

 

[molly85]

ewwwww and lol

injecting stuff eeek

can everyone cross their fingers abby sleeps tonight shes hadmaybe 3 hours nap during the day and has been so grouchy

 

[gilz82]

I had two cannulas Ozzie one in the back of each hand, both swelled so I was basically useless at getting out of bed myself after the section.

Madcat, you made me laugh and I'm allowed to laugh cos Noah has already pood on my leg so hopefully I'm not due to get pooped on again for a while.

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

oh my goodness that happened to me too! it was hilarious!

i was being distracted by the fact that leo decided to do a massive wee as i looked away to get some wipes . . it was amazing because the changing unit was about a meter away from the wall but it was making so much noise lol, absolutely stunned by the noise and the projection i didnt notice the face he always used to pull when doing a poo . . it went all over my hand and again have to note the travelling distance lol lol lol

i must be crazy i cant wait to be at the point of laughing at myself for being covered in poo again lol lol lol its a looking back that was funny moment lol

 

[Sofiekirsten]

Poop!!

I have one very unsettled baby

 

[molly85]

hugs sofie, whats he doing?

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I can't wait to join the discussion about projectile poo and vomit and other bodily fluids!

 

[Sofiekirsten]

just whining....I have no idea whatis up with him

This could be a long night!