Mother of all conception months Graduates

[madcatwoman]

how do i train harder molly?

Bailey had a feed 20mins ago, went all over himself, sleepsuit and vest wet. i finish his feed, go to get the baby bath, and he's fallen asleep, all damp in his basket, hes theres for the durration of his PM nap now!. ive just had to cover him with a blanket!! Do little boys not care if theyre wet, dirty etc(he doesnt cry about his nappy either...only for food and cuddles)

 

[tas1]

Lol train them harder.....I think even a hammer to the head won't work lol mine is only good when he wants something!

Caleb is so knackered from yesterday he bearly had his feeds then he woke at half 6 and only had 4oz when normally it's 6-7oz then he slept through he 9.30am feed so I woke him at 10.30 and he had 5oz and is now asleep! I think yesterday made him feel shit coz his noses is snotty again and has a little cough! I'm feeling really tired as well!

Caden goes to longleat tomorrow with my patents til Friday so I'm gonna be doing a spring clean til then as it's quite hard to sort cadens stuff out when he's here,he wants to keep everything lol

We have my in laws coming tonight to see if they can help out with our money issues or to tell my OH for spending the money on shit,I feel like they should of taught him while he was growing up but he was a spoilt only child hence why I wanted two children at least! Caden is learning that you can't have everything when you want it and you have to save I'm starting young lol

Hope everyone is ok!

So glad Alex is ok Ozzie and you have done an amazing job keeping him safe in your tummy and helping his heart! Gonna call Alex...Alex the awesome one lol


Oh I've spoken to soon about caleb not going bald coz it's starting poor kids x

 

[molly85]

lol abby is nearly as grim she will cry at wee but not at poo unless its a monster poo ands theres no room for her in her nappy.

I was all wide awake then an hour of screaming my head kills and am exhausted

god knows how these ladies do it? maybe sticks are involved?

 

[tas1]

I was thinking of ways to save money and come up with a good idea and dont know why it's taken me this long to figure out! Why not buy baby milk etc from boots as it's the same price then at Christmas you'll have all these points to spend on Christmas presents!

Also need advice calebs thrush hasn't cleared what do I do? Should I ring the docs again?

Xx

 

[madcatwoman]

"hammer to the head"

lol

i mean, my DH cant help it at present, poor sod is working away, so a bit like gilz, i am actually doing everything, and as we joke, a 2 min shower is 2 mins we cant afford!!. Even now Bailey is stiring so im typing frantically lol!.
But i can ask him to do something, and he might do it, or wander off, or just wonder off. And when we go out, im left packing the babies bag, sorting the feeds out, doing one last nappy change, dressing him, putting him his seat and carrying the whole lot to the car lol!.
As for the night feeds, that was never going to happen!silly me!

BTW, im constipated!, so busy ive been putting off time to go for a poop!,now i cant go at all!

 

[molly85]

cat i am plain selfish I will have a normal shower if she screams so be it she won't be hungry or wet etc just wants me or her dummy lol.

I am sat here 1 handed typing as she has just finished her lunch.

matts the same sort of he'll take her to the car but i jhave to lug the pram bit bloody cheek i wasn't meant to carry much but 2 weeks after having abby i was lugging stuff about next time i will have a section just so i have to rest lol

 

[tas1]

Next time??? Your wanting more Molly??

I'm like you cat I'll do everything for both of my boys and OH will just get himself sorted then put caden in the car and that's it! I have to ask him alot to do stuff

Xx

 

[molly85]

tas i'm an only child i only agreed to have abby if we have more than 1. I was a young carer so as where you have 2 so they aren't spoiled i want 2+ so if need be she isn't lonley and the only one to look after us when we are old and decripid

 

[tas1]

That's a good reason! I think I used the caden being lonely reason to my OH as well!

Oh my word I'm laughing at one of cadens programmes x

 

[pinkclaire]

Tas I live right near longleat lol.

Gilz I thought of some other things that helps settle colicky/windy/reflux babies. Carrying them on your forearm face down, in a real blokey way, omg that's hard to describe! It really works though! I've had two bad nights with Charlotte, I seriously wanted to stab OH in the head just because he was asleep throughout it lol.

 

[pinkclaire]

Oh also have you tried the 'I love u' massage?

 

[loopylollipop]

Lovely pictures Ozzie, super big hugs and congrats. Glad things looking good with Alex's heart

All other photos lovely too - everyones birth pics are great. Molly yours is funny looks like you are lovin that gas & air

Tas - what have you tried for the thrush so far? Oh and Dylan is getting balder by the day. I looked in his moses basket bedding and thought the cat had been sleeping in there! But no, it was all his hair

Gotta dash, the boobie monster is awake....

 

[tas1]

I got nystan oral suspension nystatin from the doctor but it's ran out now! I really don't want pump loads of chemicals in his little body if they arent gonna work,it looked like it was getting better but it looks like it has spread to the side of his mouth

Xx

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Oh!!!!! I forgot some more good news!!!!!!! DH got the Tesco at home customer service job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He found out 10 minutes before I went in for my section! A son and a new job all in one day! What a lucky guy

 

[pinkclaire]

Thats fab news Ozzie xx

 

[tas1]

Great news Ozzie! Xx

 

[sequeena]

Oh!!!!! I forgot some more good news!!!!!!! DH got the Tesco at home customer service job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He found out 10 minutes before I went in for my section! A son and a new job all in one day! What a lucky guy

Amazing!!!

 

[molly85]

Brilliant ozzie so how does that work?

Loopy I loved it matt had to force it out my mouth i was meant to give it over to push but i used the mouth piese to bight down on.

 

[gilz82]

Claire I know exactly what hold you mean, my hv showed me it. Noah tends to puke if I hold him like that within a couple of hours of feeding but I have been trying it at night. Also starting the try i love you massage now that he's more confident about being naked. We are having round two of baby massage classes starting this week. Hopefully I'll actually get to touch him this time.

As for our hospital appointment it was a complete farse. Noah was in so much pain he screamed his face purple the whole time we were there. Our paediatrician said "oh can't up the meds so just feed him if he's screaming. I was super confused as he's the same man who told me a fortnight ago it was so important not to over feed him. I reminded him of that point and he just looked at me and repeated what he'd said previously. Asked him what I'm supposed to do given Noah screamed all night the past two nights and he said he was sure it'll get better with age. WTF is that! That's not and answer and I don't just accept that my previously non screamy baby just had to exist as this new screamy version.

No idea what to do now other than feed him when I think is correct, have no ideas about how to deal with the pain he's in.

 

[Sofiekirsten]

Ozzie!

Finally managed to get some decent footprints off Jacob with a new footprinting kit I bought off ebay for like £3....

This is the link

https://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=250622495457&ssPageName=STRK:MEWAX:IT

and this is what we got...