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I know what you mean Gilz, Half the time you just want some harmony so you dont want to kick up a fuss. i just ASK sometimes for help but not often it has to be said.

God i hope these meds work for noah,:hugs:
 
Hi everyone,
Can't believe all these useless men:wacko:
My dh is up at the crack of dawn and if I happen to be still sleeping which isn't often,I come down and my bottles are sterilized and all for me,he's a wee gem:cloud9:
I know he wasn't this wonderful with baby no1,so I did have to fight and argue over things,but its paid off,as now these things are just 2nd nature to him,I never have to ask him to do anything.When wk end comes around he'll ask me if I want him to do the night feed or get up with the boys,he would NEVER in a million years think he could get away with doing neither:wacko:If I'm feeding Teagan he'll tidy up the dinner stuff and get the boys ready for bed etc!
Each to their own,but I wouldn't stand for it to be honest.

No crack here,had a stressful shopping trip this morning:wacko:
We'd been doing well,3 kiddies out grocery shopping,today I was just stresed,I had shitty nappies galore to change,and it takes that long to get 3 in and out of the car and get the correct trolley etc,I never manage to get it done before madame is due a feed,so the last 10mins in tesco are usually her screaming the place down and the sweat pissing off me,plus the boys like to start running about at the same time to add to the stress:wacko:

glad all babies are ok after their jabs,ours is next wk.
Tas so glad your friend is ok:happydance:
Scary though that someone was passing your window,do you rent or is it your house?If your renting maybe you could think about moving?

I was just thinking about the still pregnant ladies on this thread!!Its still in the pregnancy section but has been taken over by us mummies!!!
Still thinking of yous.x
And nomore I was sure I was going early,I thought teagan was falling out too, way early,they do engage and disengage as its your 2nd baby,and as you know missy ended up being 10days late:wacko:
 
That vbaby is why we only online shop now!

We will move the thread to the parenting groups bit at some point, but it didn't feel fair to do it before the others have had their babes.

We are just back from the doctors. Worse that it being the useless doctor, it was a trainee! :wacko: She whapped out some pretty long needles and I wonder that when Byron had his they weren't littler. But I might be thinking of the H1N1 jab as that was a special pidgy thing that poked in and out in about a second. But she was squirting for considerably longer (my poor girl) then at the end asked if I knew which sheet I kept then said how she had a summer job (!!) at a child health place and clearly can't remember a thing!! Way to fill me with confidence in her baby-jabbing technique! The girl was sound asleep after screaming all morning and I even managed a sort of dream feed with her before we left (wasn't sure this was possible with bf) and know she naturally screamed she did go right back to sleep in between and after. Had to ask for plasters as the blood started to come. Sheesh. Just hoping it was all the right stuff and right dose... I'll be glad to be seeing the nurse next time.

On the useless men, I do look at my DH and wonder. It's generally accepted that he is above average in terms of participation in family life and consideration which must be down to his own natural disposition but I also know that I wouldn't accept much less and that was something I brought with me from my first long term relationship when we first met. He was also only 18. I'm not sure how much of being a good OH is nature and how much is nurture. I do think women tend to let men get away with too much but if those rules are set early on I think it must be very difficult to change from the status quo years into a relationship. Though the addition of a first baby is definitely as fair an opportunity as any given the whole way of life has to be rewritten. But I am at a loss as to how to make it different. I know some women will have row after row after row and nothing ever changes. :(
 
Sorry to had a stressful shopping trip,I try and get my shopping done in-between feeds and struggle with two kids so you must have your hands full vbaby! Thankfully Caeen has decided he likes to sit in the trolley next to Caleb so I can get it done quicker but not without a moan from Caden asking for a magazine!
I'm renting off my parents although they say it's my house but I don't want my name in the hous as I have loads of debt and don't want someone to take it from me! Plus the rent/mortgage is cheap and we wouldn't be able to afford it! I'm gonna ask my dad to fix an outside light up so if it happens again they will get scared plus we'll be able to see then,I'm thinking of a security camera as well so we can catch them on tape as I'm very scared even to go out in the daytime which is stupid I know! I was talking to my neighbour about a gate at the end of the drive but we would have to get all the neighbours to agree and it would have to be electric! I dont plan on staying here for years but financially it looks like we will have to til I get my level 3 and a better job,just want it save I use to let Caden play in the garden on his own but not no more! I think I'm just being a chicken!

I think I must be coming down with something coz I feel rotten!

Glad you like your camera pb and hope indigo is ok with her jabs!
Hope new meds work gilz for Noah,only a couple more weeks til you can start weaning!

Xx
 
Just found another thing about my OHs so called training,he has had his phone cut off from spending too much on it so he hasn't bothered to charge it etc so I thought I'd charge it this morning coz he claimed he had a message from the organiser of training saying it had been changed to a different field well he does just not the field he said and the message came through on the 6th not weeks ago! I dont know if he's cheating or if he wanted time on his playstation but he didn't have to lie about it! What should I do?? I feel like a right mug telling everyone he wasnt at tea coz he was training! Not making me feel any better right now

Xx
 
ask him straight out what the hell is going on if he wont tell you pass him a local paper pen and phone and tellhim tostart looking i did this after 1 hormonalfight with matt he soon sorted his issue out. i could just be mean
 
Anyone who BFs: Alex is spitting up again, more than just a little. He's not in distress about it or anything or acting like he's starving. :shrug: I'm at a loss. Could he be taking too much? I try winding him and he doesn't usually burp.
 
Tas,im sorry to hear youre having so much trouble with your DH at the moment, i havent been able to follow very well on here recently as i cant access the pc very often&cant reply on my phone but i get the jist,knowing men its more likely he wants time on a bloody game console!!.

Mine announced "im staying up late tonight to play my game"!
i said
"oh so your doing the night feeds and will be up at 6am then"
he said
"yes i can do that, but bailey willbe sent straight back to bed till i get up at 9am" (AS IF IT WORKS LIKE THAT!!!):dohh::shrug:

Peanut and vbaby, you must think im as soft as they come.I did lay down ground rules before Bailey was born and tried to enforce them, but it got to the point where if id made any more of an issue we would do nothing but argue, arguments are something i just cant cope with(its all i ever had in my home life growing up).
He has said that he doesnt hear Bailey cry and i have to poke him, and i did one night, but DH laid there saying "hang on i just need to wake up" by which time Bailey was screaming and i couldnt listen anymore!.

I need to get a new bouncer too. the one we got last year in the next sale is crap, the back is too flat and his head always lolls to the side and down on his shoulder when he sleeps, plus its a very rough material too, im putting him in it more now so that he's upright with his silent reflux.
-----any suggestions for a bouncy chair that has a nice padded,soft & curved(head hugging) back to it? (anyone with anyone suggestions...can you mail me on FB as i might not get on here again tonight)thanks:winkwink:
 
ha ha vbaby i am the last of the "regular attendees" on this thread having her baby and that is only in 6 weeks! gah i say only 6 weeks sometimes i think yeah thats going to go fast from this point as i wont have that whole it could happen any time between 37-42 weeks feeling and then the next i remember how long the 6 week summer holiday used to feel lol i think once i get to 4 weeks left i will start panicking as i have no energy, in too much pain to get any serious cleaning done and also nesting doesnt seem to come into effect with me! meaning i will prob be running around at 3am getting all the things that there is no way i'll be able to do for at least a month

aw tas honestly i dont know the problem with some men and feeling the need to not tell the truth, my husband cant lie to me his face is too expressive but one of my ex's would lie about such random things and yeah he was an a hole so prob not hte best example but it was like he told a lie to cover a lie to cover a lie to cover another one but the original lie would be something really stupid

it could just be that your oh didnt want to go to tea and relax but thought you might get angry at him but at the same time when confronted with the fact you know he didnt go training he shouldnt be telling more lies . . . i would just be upfront about it hun xkx

aw all the tired mummies big hugs, leo likes to cuddle my dh's coat whilst watching in the night garden, this afternoon during this time i actually woke myself up snorting . . . hmmm a rare cup of real coffee came out after that lol

baby is moving around like absolute mad at 27 weeks she was transverse, 28 weeks head down, 30 weeks transverse, the last two weeks pushing down really really hard but then today she did a great big massive move and is now laying transverse again! i can feel her head above my hip!
 
I've no good advice really Tas but I know I'd say something to DH if I thought anything fishy was going on.

Ozzie - he could easily be guzzling too much. they tend to be greedy these breastfed babies! Indigo varies with sometimes no sick sometimes quite a bit but for sure well less than, say, an ounce. If it doesn't trouble him and he gains weight there's nothing to worry about. I never wind Indigo. She doesn't burp if I try so I don't bother. It doesn't seem to make any difference to anything. :shrug:
 
Thanks PB. Does Indigo stick her tongue out quite a bit or is it just my wee man being cheeky?
 
I asked him but still saying he went even told his dad he went! I dunno think I'll just leave it and see what happens! Whatever happens happens for a reason
Xx
 
Can you ask one of his football mates or someone Tas?

Ozzie they go through a tongue-discovery phase. Stick yours out back, he might start copying you. :D

Cor the girl is being a bit of a whinge. Stupid jabs. She wants to be asleep but is cross and keeps doing stupid things like nutting my collar bone so hard she screams or dozing off at the boob then screaming after doing the feeling of falling thing waking her with a jolt.
 
i am a bit like that tas, with my ex i was like right i have pushed the subject a couple of times if he is up to something he will slip up again and if he isnt then maybe it was nothing

think is with lies on top of lies the person telling them will forget what they have said to whom so if there was anything to worry about then it wouldnt take long

to be honest if this is the first time he has ever done anything like that i would be inclined not to worry too much, i wouldnt mind betting that he just didnt want to go and now cant back track on the lie because then the arguement will not just be aboutnot wanting to go but about lying about it lol

xkx
 
I'm thinking of texting his football friends but don't wanna get proved right! He lies about little stuff all the time so I never know what to believe!

Caleb copies me sticking my tongue out it's cute

Xx
 
aw hun big hugs xkx

aw i love it when they copy! i still love it when leo copies me lol lol lol i am sure when he is 9 and copying everything i say to be annoying i will change my mind but for now copying rocks! xkx
 
oh god only just eatting,bwent to see matts family so abby got passed round i didn't realise she ha hit the fights sleep stage wahhhhhhh shes just winged herself to sleep after taking another 2 ounces of food this time hungry baby she had 4 ounces 2 hours ago. so tierd i hope she sleeps i have to take on the laundry tomorrow ready for2 nights away
 
Sorry ladies had a really busy day. Charlotte wouldn't sleep all day and was on the boob constantly. James has been in a snot all afternoon, one exhausted mummy! Thank you for all your support re unhelpful men! I am sorry so many of us get it. My DH came and apologised and said he was in mood, but he's always in a mood if I ask for his help :shrug: I did go to baby group and he had half day. I came home and he'd done all the housework so glad he listened and made an effort. He was much more helpful with the kiddies as well.

I've put my little man into a proper bed yesterday. Well we all finally were in bed by 10.30. My little girl just woke up. Must have been exhausted with all that feeding and no sleeping yesterday! She had 5 hrs sleep plus went 7 hrs without feeding! I feel really refreshed. I order this every night lol.

Tas I would have to say something, otherwise it would eat away at me inside. It does sound dodgy but I'm with he wanted to relax and have tine to himself but knew he was being unfair. Men are pretty selfish by nature (unless your pb and Vbaby's OH!)!

Ozzie Lottie goes through stages like that. I think the same as PB, he's just taking a bit to much and it's coming back up. Unless it's amount where he's soaking his clothes and hes regularly doing that Id say it's fine! If he's having a growth spurt he'll take more to stimulate your milk so he's more likely to spit up some. Could be that?

Molly hope your got some sleep. Babies get overstimulated very quickly, it can be a nightmare!
 
Think I'm gonna text one of his football friends! I think I know it's coz he wanted his space coz he has been coming home for the whole two weeks for an hr evey night (still annoying) to play on his console but I hate lying even about little things,I think if you can lie about little things then you can lie about everything else!

Glad your DH helped you out more yesterday,let's hope he carries on! Wish mine could tell has a stress coz I moan he's not helping but then he tells me he doesn't know what I want done......use your common sense lol if only you could buy it lol

We have just got up we all went to bed at 10.30 too feel better still got a headache but think I can function with this one! Got the inlaws coming round again tonight they came round last night my mil said I looked stressed...yeah dealing with your son lol

My asda shop has just come spent £70 and that's without meat coz I got aload from the butcher before we moved out! And without cleaning stuff coz I got that from bargain madness it's handwork trying to get your shopping cheap!

Hope your all ok xx
 
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