Mother of all conception months Graduates

[MADLYSBOYS]

Quite possibly it seems

I had suspicions and tested last week and got however and other symptons have continued so I used the other test in the pack on Tuesday and got a vvvvfaint very similar to my limboland days with Charlie tested again yesterday eve with 90min held pee and another similar result pics in my journal a page or two back from end DH is in and me well am not sure what to think .... not confirmed but cant see how I cant be pregnant although not really sure how it happened either lack of sex, depo and bleeding twice during July is kinda funny to get to grips with but then it only took one episode of when we fell pregnant with Charlie

 

[PeanutBean]

Blimey!! Keep us posted! What if it's a girl? You'll have to change your name again.

 

[molly85]

lol PB that was my thoughts exactly.

I no longer trust contraception, her with the depo here, PLB a long term bnb friend on the pill is now 20 weeks with twins https://s1.bbstatic.com/images/smilies/icon_eek.gif, and a 9 month old. Claire was bfing for god sake. wahhhhh. I do feel you may be nicking my spot Madly I am coming after you extra for Matty lol

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Blimey indeed

I doubt I have any chance of ever having a girl but tbh I would welcome another boy

No plans to re-test yet am kinda burying my head in the sand right now it took nearly two weeks to get a clear with Charlie so we are talking the same I reckon ( it was two weeks ish with Oliver too from early vvvvvfaint ) Funny thing is I got a vvvvvfaint on Tuesday which was exactly a year to the day when I got my vvvvvfaint with Charlie I got my clear with Charlie on the 20th August so am looking at that as a re-test date if I can bare it that long DH handled it better than I thought he would .... I only told him last night after having suspicions for about two weeks, I didnt know how to tell him, Charlie is only 3mths old .... he says he needs time to get his head around it which I can totally understand but then I am also fighting emotions and hope that it turns out to be a fluke my head is all over the place as for my body I dont know how it would fair up with another pregnancy so soon especially with my tailbone, back and pelvis ugh!

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

oh madly if you are i will no longer be the only one left to pop! lol

i think my dh would have forty fits if i came up to him saying, i think i am pregnant . . . again, he is totally sex starved, having to put up with my horrendous attitude and snapping, i do not think he would be able to cope with 18 months worth of it lol

 

[molly85]

lol nomore your 38 weeks get going on that man lol give that chief midwife the delivery she wants lol

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Thank you NOMORE for that thought although if I am am hoping I wont be left on my own for too long

DH asked me if I was ok last night (I have been feeling crap for a few weeks but was quiet last night cause I planned on telling him!) So I said `no` he asked me what was wrong so I told him I didnt know how to tell him .... he said `now you have me worried, it must be bad if you cant tell me!` I was and he said `baby tell me!` so I looked at him in the eyes and said `I think I might be pregnant again!` blurted out everything about the tests and stuff and he said `well I certainly wasnt expecting that!` he admitted afterwards he thought I was going to tell him we were over and I didnt love him anymore We havent spoken about it since last night I dont know what to say to him He blames himself he says he should have used a condom but then I had the depo so we thought we were pretty safe its never failed us before Not planned if I am but certainly welcome by me not so sure DH feels the same right now sadly!

 

[tas1]

Oh my goodness me madly although I'm slightly excited for you!!! I do think crazy comes to mind as well but still excitement is taking over! I love babies!!
You'll make me broody even you Kate keep making me broody again lol!! So happy for you madly!

I can't remember what else I read lol but hope everyone else is ok!!

I gave Caleb some baby rice this morning he slowly ate it after having abit of his bottle! I need to sort out my plan,I'm thinking baby rice for a week then maybe baby rice for breakfast then baby rice and pear or apple for lunch I don't know yet I'll have to read some weaning books to see what I should do

Xx

 

[molly85]

madly hes a man let him see a scan hre'll go all gooey

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

I want to see the clear result before getting exited or happy ot anything iykwim but one thing is for sure DH knows if I am pregnant this baby will be born, I am anti abortion ( sorry not meant to offend anyone ) but I also understand everyone is different and each to their own choices DH has already suggested we might not keep another baby to which I told him he knows me well enough so I think he might have been chancing his arm anyway he can walk the fact is if I am pregnant I will be a Mummy of three

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

aw madly your dh is a cutie pop really isnt he bless him being worried about you not loving him anymore! was it you that was having the issues after depot? also dont they say if you do not have it done during your period it is the same as other contraception . . takes a week or so to take? also how do they know that is factually correct for every single woman? during ttc it dawned on me how nothing is really the same for any woman in relation to contraception, cycles, ovulation, post ovulation symptoms . . .ohhhhh will be watching this space!

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

having my usual daily bout of painful braxtons . . . had them for 6 hours yesterday . . . it is one thing not giving me any symptoms to spot (had nothing prior to labouring with leo) but to give me painful braxtons, bits of plug (niiiiice) and dicky tummy well that is just freaking teasing! until i get the urge to time contractions i am not taking them seriously whatsoever!

ha ha i said to dh earlier i want herout now you going to help me and he went how wink wink i went ermmmmmm actually my hips hurt too much lol lol lol poor thing!!! i am a firm believer that all those things only really help if you are already ready to go into labour and i do not think i am . . . i would like to tempt fate by saying i still havent packed my hospital bags yet!

 

[PeanutBean]

I'm never going to be able to get this thread moved to parenting am I?!

I don't trust hormonal contraception one jot. Had my own issues with it. Condoms all the way for us.

I always think nomore how useful it would be to monitor how our individual hormones naturally cycle and create a pill tailored to them to avoid bad side effects and improve efficacy etc. Would also be useful if someone wanted hrt in later life.

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Yes hon I had the depo at 6+3wks postnatal (mid June!) when I was still losing locia (finished a day or two after the depo!) then no bleeding for about two weeks when I got what I classed as AF 1st July bled extremely lightly for 12days then had about a weeks break then another bleed for another 12days again extremely light which finished on the 31st July ... nothing since .... tested last Tuesday so 2nd and tested this Tuesday 9th and vvvvvfaint We had in the first six weeks after I had Charlie using condoms I think maybe once of twice then I had the depo jab and we have had since I could count the times on one hand and have plenty of room left over If after all that I def am pregnant its short of a damn miracle and imo meant to be!

 

[molly85]

lol nomore.hospital bags reminds me ofmy list for nextbaby take barely anything so I cxan leave asap

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

ha ha pb i was thinking that lol lol lol! i agree even if i knew i had taken the pill correctly every month i would still be a bit like erm could i and when i was on depot i never got pregnant but man i had to take tests every few months just to make sure, i dont know how i feel about contraception this time, i do not think we would be able to accommodate a third child with our bills and the fact most pubs have two bedrooms only (2 children can share for a while but 3 is a bit of a stretch) but it did scare me not ovulating for the first 6 months i was trying i just kept on thinking what have i done to myself!

that is exactly how i would think it madly! you two boys are miracles themselves a third is simply meant to be as you say! i found loads of my internet cheapies the other day (along with the piss book lol lol lol) i would offer them to you but they will only drive you more insane, most of my post when ttc was bloody cheapie hpts! iw ill never take one again . . . .next day lol

 

[molly85]

Gah the bloody injection i believe it has a 96% chance of working and what your bleeding nurse didn't tell you which you already know hence the testing is it takes a month for the first one to kick in. there after if your late for 1 i believe you have a weekif its a few days late etc. Oryou get a body like mine and any twitch in hormones and your up sh1t creek with out your paddle

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

molly thats my plan! i want to be out asap! i am hoping that she is born at like 7am too close to visiting time to chuck dh out but close enough to 9am to put in my request to leave asap lol its august! they will need the beds surely!

 

[molly85]

lol for all those early christmas concieved babies

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

NOMORE so funny like me nagging the nurses ear off to remove the catheter ... I swear she was thinking `not her again!` I wanted out big time and I was getting it

Molly all I can say is the `the things you dont get told!` like dont have unprotected ie use a condom for the first month just to be sure ..... I mean me and dh are really to blame we had the but we `thought` the depo covered us like in the past