Mother of all conception months Graduates

[MADLYSBOYS]

I think a chart is a very good thing we have had several and once the behaviour appears again they come back out

Its important not to give orders though as in `dont or do not` this creates negativitiy make a chart a positive thing so the child in question thinks they are going a good job Lots of praise as well usually works and thanking them we also given interim `treats` if hes been exceptional good on top!

I agree NOMORE increasing the time might work we put Oliver in the corner of the sofa instead of the naughty step ... no tv and no toys for a set amount of time .... hes now growing out of it but the `grounding` for a day is a huge consequence so fxed it gets better also I might add that sometimes we dont think Oliver is stimulated enough not that we dont try but some kids just get bored so easily and then start to play up! The 6wks school hols is a big challenge for us to keep him occupied enough am expecting lots of naughtiness

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

fingers crossed it works, one thing i cannot abide is violent kids getting their way in public or otherwise because the parents are too embarrassed/lazy to sort it out, i hate the if you stop hittting mummy you can have a sweet, 30 seconds later gets sweet scenes you see everywhere, i am sure if he could talk more it would be a back chatting problem as opposed to a slapping problem lol

 

[tas1]

Aww Kate that is cute!

I take toys away from Caden and he goes well I'll just take your Hoover or your picture then I say no you can't I'm the boss so he says no I'm the boss then I feel like saying yeah you are coz I always do everything you want lol

I told Caden off for scratching the paint off in our bathroom and he said I wasn't I was rubbing it........I could of said little shit that's the same bloody thing but I didn't I said your still taking the paint off I've asked you not to do that but your carrying on this is your last warning then he says in a sarcastic voice but I'm sorry......I know your not!! Kids....but we love them!

I've been a naughty mummy and let Caleb sleep on me today so he would have longer to sleep lol but I think I will try letting him soothe himself or is he too young? After that thread I don't know anyone I'm feeling Caden is trying resentful because I'm busy with Caleb all the time he asks me to watch something he is doing then says or are you too busy?? Breaks my heart coz I love watching him and doing stuff with hmm but j love cuddling Caleb too

Xx

 

[molly85]

can you not cuddle and watch?

I'm going to be in so much trouble my dad was a big smaker the round the head ones i don't approve of but on the bum, backs of legs (care of mymum) or on the hand seemed to work i especially remember the hand because i had to give him the hand i think it was the mental accepting the punishment business but i was at junior school when i remember that i think. I also think we give ourselves to high a goal with behavior i know i expect a certain standard from molly (yes i know shes a dog but i still raised her ) shes brilliantly behaved but when she kicks back a bit she becomes the naughtyiest dog alive

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Alex took a dummy he's sucking away content in his cot and just my luck I can't sleep.

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

aw ozzie, for months i was going i will drop leos 11pm feed i will i will but loved watching him so much but was so tired waiting up until then and falling asleep was a no no because i would wake at midnight scared stiff that i hadnt fed him, so when the time came i was like yes i get to sleep anytime after 7pm and not have to wake up or feel guilty or anything until leo wakes up again. i can honestly say that i have never ever managed to get to sleep before 11 other than a very few handfuls of times mostly when ill or being up all night with leo being ill.

its funny isnt it the second you are actually allowed to switch off you still dont! i am sure if my bed was in a room which didnt have peoples conversations floating through all walls and floorboards i might have been able to catch up on sleep lately but alas i do not lol

i was slapped but only when we were incredibly naughty, i haveto say it was mostly my brother and sister who got it as i was very good, or clever knowing that x behaviour ends up with y result but one day leo went into full blown pulling hair, punching, biting, kicking and hitting and nothing i did stopped him, he actually drew blood from biting and split my lip when he phwacked me round the mouth, so i slapped him more to snap him out of it, he stopped burst into tears and then went absolutely mentally beserk - he has never ever been so violent ever since or before but the slap for him just made him worse! i would never say it harmed me getting slapped because it didnt but for leo just totally didnt work. . .

 

[molly85]

i can hear my dad saying wasn't hard enough. It's a really contraversial subject but unlike the baby clubwe are all grown up enough to discuss our own opinions teehee

ok who designs the feet in sleep suits? they are just to small and thr crotches are designed for wasable nappies. jeez at this rate we might hit 0-3 before 3 months

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

i had the same issue with feet in sleepsuits, everything else fitted him but not the feet! you cant evencut them off to make the suits last longer because the legs of the suit just ping up the legs of baby, it completely ruins them grrr lol

 

[molly85]

yikes she has a set of pjs with feet drive you nuts, matts step brother got her this cute velour chick sleep suit the feet are to narrow and its an over the head jobby far from what you want with a sleepy babytackling them into it then trying to get the feet in bleugh that may not get worn again

 

[madcatwoman]

Morning all!

well, i had one 4, 45 feed then he went back to sleep till 7.50, i think i prefer it that way than just getting up at 5.30 or 6 actually!

Had a rotten stomach yesterday evening, turned out to be the sh*ts, i seem to be getting that more often than i used to, either i pick things up more easier these days or its just my appalling diet I fed bailey, dumped him in his basket quick and ran to the loo which made him cry, just had to sit there and listen

 

[tas1]

Morning

Molly I used to get a slap well mainly my sister I just hid being naught! And I do slap Caden only when he is really naughty!

Cat maybe you have IBS,I suffer from and it seems to have come back after ive had Caleb

Xx

 

[PeanutBean]

Morning.

Sorry you've been unwell Madcat. All the movement of your guts to make way for the baby and then back again really messes them up for a while. Gut related illnesses definitely worsen after birth for a few months. My gallbladder stuff has been much worse both times. The way you digest changes in pregnancy too. It will settle down again though.

I was woken at 1am by Byron. Not impressed as we didn't get to bed til half 11. Then Indigo woke for a feed at 4am and then at half 7. Would've been an ok night but for Byron and a dodgy head from the sealant and grout fumes.

We're off to the National Railway Museum today.

 

[PeanutBean]

Dunno why that posted twice...

 

[tas1]

Pb Caden went to NRM with the in laws the other day and apparently the kids bit was closed off just thought I'd tell you x

 

[madcatwoman]

yeh you could be right tas or simply PB's explanation is the case.
hope you have a nice day PB

 

[gilz82]

Hi girls :wave:

I've mostly forgotten what I've read sorry I'm exhausted and have a migraine so brain function is minimal today.

Phoned my gp for advice this morning as there has still been no improvement in Noah. Because he's a baby they told me to take him up rather than give me advice on the phone. The gp said that although it can take a fortnight for the new medication to had complete effect you should be able to see a big improvement after the first couple of days which just hasn't happened for us. I'm still struggling to get him to eat properly and he's started bringing up acid sick again. The gp more than doubled his dose so he's now on the maximum dose that is prescribable up to two years old. We are back at the paediatrician on monday and the gp hopes there should be a marked improvement by then. Fingers crossed

Hope all girls and babies are all doing well, huge hugs for all

 

[molly85]

Oh gilz I so hope he improves and your not coming home via the supermarket with baby rice.

Last night I was naughty and abby was still up on the sofa at 10pm instead of in bed at 8pm I am trying to figure the best way to get sleep, little lady fed beteen 10 & 11 then went off to bed I followed took ages to get off to sleep, she woke around 4am then took nearly an hour do finish her bottle then cheeky madam lay in her basket kicking and gurgling for 20 minutes making it impossible to sleep as she was fine. She then woke at 8.30 I am def having the issue that though I'm allowed more sleep i seem to need more.

Cat to go with other theories I used to get dodgy guts around might be that the rogeteron heats you up and your bum moves faster then.

PB hugs on the dodgy night or Byron and fumes

 

[Ozzieshunni]

glitz

ARGH I have a greedy baby!!!!! He'll take both breasts, spit up, and want fed again. No amount of winding seems to solve this and it's only during the day. I feel like he's permenantly attached to my breast. Also he wouldn't settle anywhere except next to me last night. DH has been sleeping on the sofa

 

[tas1]

Oh gilz I really hope you an improvement soon! Xx

I've had Caleb tattooed on my wrist and his dob in roman numerals on my shoulder,the wrist one hurt really bad! Decided I definately don't want another babies as I would have to tattoo their names and dob on me too lol.

We haven't done anything today coz it has rained loads good for Cadens sunflower which is massive I'll try post a picture on fb!

I think Caleb is growing more coz he has been sleeping loads and has upped his feed to 8oz sometimes!

I'm getting my coiled checked tomorrow and gonna ask her if she can stop the bleeding as I wanna take Caleb for his first swim soon before it gets too cold for him! He has his second jabs tomorrow as well I totally forgot about it so need to check the time

Xx

 

[madcatwoman]

well, i now have bailey in one arm and my laptop on the couch besides me...so much better now aparently my early birthday pressie.

wow one of the girls on 3rd tri asked for advice as she was being induced, i replied without it seems the advice she was hoping for, jumped down my bloody throat just because i didnt tell her the experince was a bed of roses!!!!!!!
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