Mother of all conception months Graduates

[NOMORENUMBERS]

good evening ladies!

Not had much time to post in the last few days but managed to have a quick gander on here to keep myself updated lol!

with that said i have forgotten everything as per usual apart from felt tip pens! are you kidding me! and i HATE it when people say we are tight for money so we wont splurge but shall we split the bill anyway and once they have your agreement they order 3 courses one being steak and a nice bottle of wine with soft drinks on the side grrrrr if money is so tight why are you making it even tighter for us a holes! grrrr lol

i have 3 words - my. poor. back. i was in tears again with it last night, just trying to relax but honestly the house is such a tip and dh bless him he tries to make it seem like he doesnt mind that i cant stand long enough to do all the washing up that him and leo seem to make but all that huffing and puffing really mega winds me up lol if you dont want to do it then do what you need to do and then honestly give me a day and it will all be done but dont rush me, talk about how messy the place is and huff and puff when you pull your household weight! lol i just cant keep bending over and picking up after them both! honestly they are both terrible they just drop everything on the floor! so tonight plan is to alternate strapping an ice pack and then a luke warm pack on my back and then hope i can get the house to a state where even if i leave it half a day of not picking things up it wont be so bad. . . .

sorry rambling and thinking out loud lol cant wait for thursday to potentially find out our section date but the day after is the funeral so dont want thursday to end. . .

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

oh and to end on a funny note i thought i would share my uncles fb status with you all, it got me chuckling! it is something along the lines of . . .

"why did my pupil (he is a driving instructor) close her eyes and scream when a lorry on the otherside of the road to us drove past!"

and then in the comments added

"to make it even worse/funnier she asked if she could book in for her tests! errrrr . . . "

lol

 

[PeanutBean]

Lol nomore!

Molly we played with big jigs stuff at NRM and bought a station. It was all good except the suspension bridge which constantly fell over - worth investing in the Brio for that.

 

[molly85]

ohhh they all into mingle right? whats it like mixing trains. I actually thought he was looking at porn the noises he was making lol

OK why is abby chewing her hand but not hungry????????? she keeps dribbling and spitting up it's pretty gross

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Evening Ladies :wave:

vbaby the christening sounds great I have just been with my Sister today to view a house she has been offered and we are doing the joint christening thing with our boys and her house has the biggest garden its like a footie pitch so we `may` have the do at hers and go all out oooooooooooh am all excited with this party talk and WELL DONE Teagan Have a good weekend hon

Tas that is so true a mothers work is never done .... another saying `A mother is busy from Son up to Son down!` Next year for Mothers Day I might take myself off for the day because we usually spend the day traipsing around and the way I feel right now come Mothers Day I think I might need the break

Sounds like a fun day Peanut

for been a SAHM Molly and glad you enjoyed your group Me and Charlie love ours on a Tues and Thurs guna miss it a bit over 6wk hols cause Oliver cant go to it

NOMORE and at the learner driver

Well I have spent the day with my Mum and Sister Oliver went to MILs for tea and we went to view my Sister house which is currently having repairs done to it Calling kim and aggy from how clean is your house comes to mind and I still cant get over the fact that a couple with three kids lived in such a squalor Theres a lot of work to be done, it needs stripping back to its shell so she has a fresh canvas to decorate etc and it need scrubbing in every nook and cranny but it has huge potential to be a wonderful family home for her and her LOs so with lots of hard work me and Mum think she can make it a lovely home Then I got home and realised you what having a `day off` means it means I dont do the housework/chores that need doing and these are left for an evening with DHs help which seems to be far too much for him to deal with so it ended in a huge argument and battle and tbh its far too much to deal with which I dont have the energy for right now so am just not going to bother taking the whole day out of the house again .... maybe a few hrs for baby class and such but I just cant deal with the fallout every time I try to take a break

 

[PeanutBean]

madly, sorry about the OH troubles.

Molly, yes they fit. Ikea do some cheap ones too but they are pretty crap.

I've met Aggie, madly, she looks much older in real life!

 

[Ozzieshunni]

My exhusband's gf (a friend of mine, she introduced us) is 6 weeks pregnant. I honestly feel sorry for her. He told me when we broke up that "Kids are a burden. You always have to figure out something to do with them if you want to go somewhere." She's in for a rude awakening. She's very self centered and to have a child is to put someone else first. *sigh* I'm not trying to sound like a bitch, but I feel bad for her. Being the nice person I am though, I offered to answer any questions she might have. DH said I should just forget her. Argh! I kinda did not need this information right now.

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

aw madly! there is a thread in third tri that i commented on which turned into my own mini rant about dh from months back lol, basically he stopped working but expected me to still be doing the majority of the housework plus working full time when when iwas off work with leo i had to do all of it!

today he was huffing and puffing about and actually described himself as a little depressed duw to having to do the washing up and keeping leo occupied for two hours! i appreciate he has a lot going on in his head but that is purely because he lets everything bother him so much but jesus christ if you are going to kick up such a stink about doing washing up please do not do it!

i totally feel for you madly there is nothing worse than the "who does more" arguement and even when it is clearly proved that you will do more you still always feel bad big hugs madly xkx

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

ah i hate it when exs come back in just to blurt their crap out everywhere and then leave! to make you feel better my uncle got divorced because he said he didnt want kids then remarried and had his first at 40 and second at 43 and honestly the first thing he said to me (i was 14 at the time!?) was do not wait to have kids careers and stuff can wait i totally regret waiting this long, he was the most anti kid person i knew! and now he is a brill dad! when i got pregnant at 21 he said i knew you would listen to me about not waiting to have kids lol

as for her ozzie she will haveno choice but to become a lot less selfish, honestly the reason my sister still hasnt had kids is because she knows although not a selfish person she is selfish with her time so to speak and is still enjoying it being her time but should an accident ever happen i have no doubt she would rise tothe occassion (although i think my sister and your exs gf are selfish in totally different ways) but honestly it could be the making of her!

with all that said ozzie i agree with your dh, do you have the time or energy to be worrying about people who do not matter? nope! then just forget it, you extended your help which is more than i would to any of my exs so you have done more than enough xkx

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Yeah. I think it was an accident, tbh.

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

so was my uncles first lol lol lol lol well fingers crossed they pull their fingers out the world doesnt need another poorly raisedchild, there is no more room for em lol xkx

 

[molly85]

eugh ex's i get random dreams about the guy i lived in cardiff with

 

[tas1]

Evening ladies!

Hope you have had a nice day!

Madly and Kate me and my OH always argue about the housework I keep telling him when he finishes work he turns into daddy even it that's means helping with housework or just sitting with the boys (it mostly is sitting with the boys coz doing housework is like a little break for me I know I'm sad) but does he do that no he comes in and sits on his arse so tonight he comes in i let him order an Indian coz I've been tight for past couple of weeks trying to save money so I let us have one tonight anyway I thought while we at waiting I'll put all the washing away get boys pjs make beds while he watches the boys.....5mins later he comes upstairs I'm just going across the shop to get a drink (great I did need a cold fizzy drink myself but could you of waited) so both boys are upstairs then Caleb starts getting grumpy coz he's getting hungry and doesn't understand why I'm not cuddling him or anything so I had to stop! I had ago at my OH saying I only ever ask you for your help on an evening as I'm struggling to do stuff in the day coz Caleb likes to sleep on me and if I manage to put him down it's for 10mins before he realises or Caden wakes him up so I'm struggling to get stuff done! Then he moans I always moan at him so I said you know where the door is if your not willing to be a daddy and husband when you get back from work I would rather be a single mum......it worked he made beds did Calebs bottle dressed Caden put rubbish out but I know the arguement will happen again I just wish it wouldn't it drains me saying the same things everyday!

Ozzie I agree with Kate and you DH don't be nice to your exs girlfriend....I totally wouldnt to be honest I don't even talk to any of my exs they are an ex for a reason!

Vbaby and madly I'm getting my boys christened on 11th september church is booked I have a venue (a pub lol) as I don't want the mess at my house and my sister had my nephews naming day at my mums house so will be nice! I've been looking for invites today and cake toppers,I've ordered a cake topper for Cadens cake and all the decorations except I'm getting some big poster to go up with a picture of the boys with happy christening on! I like to go all out for my boys so I go crazy lol!!

Pb I bought Caden the ikea train set lol I think I did anyway maybe I didn't coz it has a bridge now I'm thinking I didn't it's my mum who has it.....I wonder where I got mine from maybe tescos **I sound like a crazy person thinking or even writing out loud lol**

Well it's the third night in a row where Caleb has gone in his basket awake,tonight wasn't so good as he took abit longer to sleep and he wanted me to hold his hands but he went to sleep which is good,I think I'm just gonna to with the flow on this one coz if he's happy doing this then so am I! Caden went to bed in his own bed too although we had some tantrums but he was getting tired and watching the new cars film on that website lol such a bad mummy if only baby club could read this Caden said to me 'that's good mummy we can watch cars isn't it' lol so I said under my breathe 'yes mummy's really good for letting you watch an illegal site' lol but it's cheaper than taking him to cinema lol

I forgot to tell you my money making scheme me my mum and BIL are buying joblots of stuff and selling them at car boot we wanna see if we can double our money! If we can then we will invest in more stock! I'm hoping we can coz it can pay for the christening fingers crossed

Anyways gotta go to some washing up and sterilising xx

 

[molly85]

gah, abby was hungry by the time she was in her basket, i'm taking a risk and trying the fast teats to see if that will help with her fussing with her food.

Girls canyou see where babies canine teeth (i'm guessing here I know they have less baby teeth than adult) are do they bulge at teh bottom I have asked my dental nurse neighbour to have a look She gets me to read her meter she can look at my babies teeth but woundering if anyone else had noticed this. If it's weird they better not be coming through. anywho going to make missy a botle then bed will try this dream feeding a again mwahhhhhh

 

[PeanutBean]

It's normal to see the bulge Molly but they're some of the last teeth to come through. All the teeth are there in the gum already I think, or some of them anyway.

I'm awake. She woke and 3 and for some reason got a rare whinge on. That woke Byron who came into our bed and DH took Indigo away but I couldn't sleep listening to her so we swapped back to normal - them sleeping soundly, me wide awake. So effing knackered it's unreal. She's just gone back in her basket so hopefully I can get back to sleep.

 

[tas1]

Oh no fingers crossed you can get some more sleep pb!

Molly Calebs gums have been bumpy since birth but for a few weeks now his vang tooth on top is sticking out as I can feel and see it which is strange as it's the bottom front ones that come through first then the top front ones!

It's 8am and we're still in bed but I have to get up as I have to go into town to try dresses on for my friends wedding which isnt til next yr but she thinks she's found a dress for bridesmaid wahoo!! Then I need to go shopping then I have to do some friends hair then try and sort out our car boot stuff for tomorrow gonna be a busy day!

Xx

 

[PeanutBean]

Well she woke again at 5am. Fed her again and had to settle her in bed with mr which took ages. Just had no sodding sleep for days now and all these long days out. I'm totally done in.

 

[tas1]

Bless ya! Have you got anymore days out planned? X

 

[PeanutBean]

No we're done for this hol. DH is using up the last of his hol and is now off on Monday and wed afternoon but as it's a nursery day and I have loads of plans we'll be doing jobs on Monday. I need to find time next week to get to Bolton to get my new camera checked as it's had a spot of the sensor since the first picture that doesn't shake off and so could be a faulty sensor. Nothing I buy at the moment seems to be coming without fault. Sigh.

 

[madcatwoman]

Morning
crap night here, didnt feel well. got up to feed bailey at 5, and have had the squits on and off(quite badly) again. Felt sick too, and you know i just cope with nausea. I got a horrible feeling pregnancy&birth may have as tas suggested left me with IBS as this is the 3rd time ive had this
I pulled DH out of bed by his hand at 8am as i couldnt look after bailey, so he's had to pull his weight this morning.


oh why did i go down the GBS route??

Systemic antibiotics used to combat group B Streptococcus and other bacteria in pregnant women can disrupt the balance of bacteria that normally reside in the intestine, providing another possible trigger for IBS.