Peanut grrrr @ families I agree with Molly puppy over grandkids says it all
Ozzie well done you and Alex on the feeding and

for the rolling over
NOMORE

@ the coffin gawper honestly some people

we had a few at my grandad funeral too

we call them the `noisy neighbours`

and great news that your MW is standing your corner

Tas men can be such idiots sometimes

imo say you did get work then he would have to help out with the boys and house a whole lot more than he does now and from what I can see he doesnt seem to want to help out now so what would he do if you left the boys with him each evening to go to work like he suggests

There would be no games console for him then infact it would be a life of looking after his kids ... bottles, nappy changing, juggling bedtime and then all the household chores, do marigolds suit him?!?!?!?!?! ... honestly hon call his `bluff` say `ok I will look for an evening job so when you come home I will go it work!`

bet hes not so quick to suggest you work then

imo `some` men want it all ways and they are so quick to forget they made these babies as well

We are not superwomen

we come bloody well close a majority of the time but honestly a little bit of help goes a long way

and as for spending money if its on bills and the boys is that not what he works to pay for

I went shopping on Monday and bought stuff for the boys and for a rare change treated myself to a new top

it was only 8.00 and I charged it all to my account and then had DH transfer to money from his account to mine so he paid for it

DH dare not say anything to me about the money I spend anymore after we too had words because I hardly spend anything on myself except for bus fares or the odd sandwich tbh and then I walk most places these days. He always questioned everything I did or spent and I told him if I was going to be a SAHM for the majority I needed some space because I wouldnt have my own money and his wage would be our household income therefore he would be paying for everything in return I would take on all childcare and household chores during his working hours but when he came home on an evening or a weekend I would expect him to chip in and help

I do as much as I can in the house cleaning wise and quite often he has to do very little but we if are having a very bad week then he has more to do and he has to except that been a SAHM can be as challenging as going to the office for the day and at the end of it all we made these boys together they are not `mine` they are `ours`
madcat Charlie has `daisy` in his crib with him

`daisy is a cows head with a muslin skirt attached so I would say if he could suffocate on anything it would be that because its a large square piece of material

I`m quite laid back about this sort of thing tbh and Oliver had his `baby` a very similar comfort blanket in with him from an early age

Charlie likes to have `daisy` up near his face and he will go to sleep holding it against his cheek but will nearly always wake up having kicked it to the bottom of the crib

imo its each to there own and its pretty much how you feel about it

children quite often pull `comfort` toy over there face and it doesnt matter how many times you remove it they will always pull it back over
As for rolling over Charlie has done it an handful of times

but much rather prefers for some reason to do it at baby class than at home

funny child
NOMORE bless your DH

I swear this was one of the reasons why my DH didnt want to try for number 2 for so long

I think after our bad delivery with Oliver he was so scared it might be worse next time round
