Mother of all conception months Graduates

[madcatwoman]

Peanut,are you sure you bled from 'inside'?, as i mentioned earlier DH&I 2nights ago, it wasnt entirely comfortable, i bled a bit too but it was coming from outside, i must have tore a fraction, it did stop as quickly as it began though, just a thought...



Is anyones DH being a bit insensitive to the whole giving birth thing?, ive had a number of humourous comments from mine about the indignified process and how amusing it looks(to him, obviously), had another one tonight while watching somthing on TV, i told him "you're working your way towards a total ban from the delivery room, i'll do it own my own", i think he knew i was pissed off after that though, so im not expecting any more comments. maybe ive lost my sense of humour, i dont know.

 

[molly85]

mines very much do as the midwife says, so want legs up it styrups the lot. beautiful.
He finds the hole belly buttons looking like its gnna pop out more amusing.


Here are some of the nursey pictures. its actually Pea green but had to use my crappy phone camera oh and one of matt yes he is naughty and smokes. thought the picture was a cute one of him. He was clean shaven whith hugh grant hair when we met look what I did to him

 

[madcatwoman]

Did you corrupt him??

oh yes, and the belly button thing amuses him too, i would just like to see him parade his bits infront of all and sundry with people poking around and for me to find it hilarious and equally him too!!, i dont think it would happen.

Baby B is up to no good right down low, dont know what he's doing but it feels like he's ticking my skin underneath, im so ticklish there, ive already jumped!

lovely nursery BTW, youre soooo organised!

 

[molly85]

lol matt put the stuff together the day after we bouth it at 13 weeks lol. I twas still meant to be in the boxes now.

No he has smoked since 14,so 14 years he has all the real bad habits. Drinks and smokes I just eat for england.

 

[molly85]

Abbys being a little gremlin fidgetting about. and poking me in the muscles

 

[PeanutBean]

Anyone still there? I'm in stupid hospital but want to go home. They asked me to come in to be checked. Listened to baby's heart (140), checked my pulse and bp, looked at my liner then asked to do an internal. F***ing hell. Just as painful as in labour nearly. So much for no internals. They saw active bleeding at my cervix though weren't sure if it was that or a laceration inside. Asked me to stay in overnight. Took til half 12 to ge a bed ready and I'm not on delivery suite as there weren't other beds available! I have my own room though. But it turned brown about an hour ago ish and last pee showed the very tiniest suggestion of brown when I wiped so I think I'm done. I might discharge myself and just get home. Seems stupid being here. I hate it all. I never want to stay in hospital again.

 

[molly85]

Aww peanut I'm here.
bloody hell they do make a fuss of pG woman.
try get some sleep try the breakfast and then go home. Make the most of the free bed and board and not being slapped in your sleep.
Eww internals. Soz hun

 

[PeanutBean]

I can't sleep in hospitals. Too hot and the beds are insufferable. It's totally dried up so I'm going to go home. I miss DH and Byron. I want to clean my teeth and I don't want to try and fail to sleep ina stupid hospital gown. The breakfast is crap (had it before!). The newborn baby crying is suddenly not so pleasant. It's in the room next door. I'd rather suffer my own gorgeous boy. Lol. Catch you later!

 

[molly85]

Oh yes go home then. your own is a very differnt thing. Hugs, and behave

 

[PeanutBean]

Aye well we won't be brave enough to try any shenanigans til we're ready for our girl to arrive! Waiting for the form. Man I so needed better sleep after having none last night! The baby is doing that awful cat fight like crying! God what have I let myself in for! Much prefer Byron's stuck out bottom lip!

 

[molly85]

nip in and shone a pinky in it's mouth. lol
your poor OH but matts not getting any better luck here lol.
Sofa? spare bed for the night? Kick Byron into your bed and have his? I can't functionwith out sleep so feeling your pain

 

[PeanutBean]

If they don't let me go soon i'm not going to be fit to drive. I need my own bed.

DH doesn't mind. He said it thought it was too much on consecutive nights and I guess he was right! He went all the last preg without any and then another 8 months. He's not demanding.

So fed up. Come and discharge me. Free up a bed.

 

[molly85]

oh yes I'd forgotten last night you daft woman.
go stand at the desk with your stuff

 

[PeanutBean]

Took an hour but they finally came with the forms. Got home about half 2 and someone just phoned the sodding house phone and woke me. We never get calls. Private number and no message left. DH was in bathroom with Byron so didn't here. Nice one.

 

[gilz82]

Oh Peanut hon I'm so sorry you ended up in hospital. I totally feel you pain I had an internal with my last bleed and it was really painful.

Hopefully you got home and are now curled up in bed relaxing and recouperating.

Madcat my OH has made a few inappropriate labour related comments which I haven't found funny. I've tried to put them down to him being scared of labour in general

 

[PeanutBean]

Waiting for toast and will sleep later. I felt funny about posting any of it gilz knowing how much you've been through. The hospital totally overreacted and unnecessarily scared me. Yet more reason for me to steer clear.

Anyway I guess I forgot about all the business of the thread. I wanted to let you know madcat that when it starts your OH will almost certainly be bricking it and will be far from thinking about dignity or anything like that. If I were you I'd punch him in the arm with every comment he makes!

 

[gilz82]

Peanut don't be silly no need to feel funny about it. The whole point of this thread is so we can all support each other

Enjoy your toast when it arrives and try to have a more relaxing day today.

 

[madcatwoman]

Oh peanut, was a flippin night you have had, sounds like they scared you out of your whits too. did they actually come to any conclusion after all that poking around??. funny that it happened after though, stay away from doing that for the next few months(its not agreeing with me either).
hope its drying up ok for you now.

ive just ordered a body pillow from ebay, i tried 3 pillows in bed last night, helped my hips a bit, made bump ache a bit though, but at least with an all in one pillow i can move it about to suit my aches and pains as they come.

have also ordered a cot on sale in babies r us.

 

[PeanutBean]

No, no conclusion. I know it was from sex though so must've been cervix especially since it was made worse by the swab they didn't tell me they were taking! DH is too afraid to do it again. I reckon if I'm in the mood again after 30 weeks I won't mind doing it again. It was bloody good! They wanted me to stat in til it stopped so at 11am when it had gone brown (ie had stopped) I didn't see why I should have to stay. Effing hospitals.

Hold the pillow helps. I just can't believe how much less painful this pregnancy has been compared to with Byron when I was in agonies. I'm sure it's down to all the lying about I'm doing! Lol

 

[gilz82]

Madcat I do love my all in one pillow thing although my OH has started calling it my penis pillow cos it looks like a willy to him apparently

I'm going to buy our car seat and isofix base today in the boots sale. The car seat has over £40 off compared to mothercare and the base has £20 off so that's some pennies saved