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cor i hope that thread gets closed down! i noticed there hasnt been an arguement in 1st tri today, someone is obviously bored!
 
Nomore if it helps accept it! We all need help sometimes.

Molly - I sanded and painted skirting at the end of my last pregnancy and am sure it is a contributory factor to my waters going early! :haha: Do it slowly! I'm done with house renovations until after the birth. I've so much emotional stuff inside I just really want to focus on me and the baby and the birth. Two years of feeling depressed and angry to sort through and get over before the birth as I'm sure it'll have a negative effect if it's still hanging around. Also need to have my home visit with the MW to write my birth plan and book a debrief with the consultant MW - a huge deal so I'm afraid to do it before I really have time to deal with it properly.

Ozzie - it would be so much easier if people would just browse through the losses section if they want to learn about these things. Better still do a very quick google and find out that the vat majority of first tri losses and genetic and that is that. What are you doing in there anyway?!
 
lol Molly you posted while I was typing and chatting to DH but snap!
 
i just reported it - but i was good i am still grounded so did not comment on it. why would you ask that! like someone else said in the thread, i wouldnt even post it in the loss section because she literally asked hey what did you do to loose your baby did you do xy or z errr nah love, google! find out WHY you arent supposed to do those things from a medical website not from ladies suffering loss!
 
lol on which point.
its 1 3x3 room and that is exactly why I want to do it.
lol molly has just stared at my french fancies so I gave her the wrapper to lick and she eatten it getting the paper stuckin her teeth. if only that would teach her
 
Nomore, my family constantly seem to know our financial business I hate it! When DH was out of work and I was on mat leave they all used to ask how will you pay for this or that, I was like waaaaa thanks for reminding me! I hate asking for help, I didn't really know what to say back! They still all do it now and I hate it!
 
I never went in 1st tri for this exact reason there's just no need for it
 
i know it kind of makes you feel like you arent coping, yeah my dh has debts of about 30 grand, everytime he pays a loan off he struggles and basically gets in the same amount of debt as before its all because of his ex, i have been moved out since 19 and i know people thought i would be back as quickly as i left but i havent even looked back. i guess everyone goes through things like this every now and then, i suppose although we havent been flush at all we havent ever worried about paying next months bills you know which is a fortunate position to be in i suppose. we will be fine, i know we will be. i just need to stop panicking!

yeah i spend most of my time just flicking through second and third tri and natural birth sections oh and obviously the pre graduate thread for mother of all conception 1st tri is full to the brim of really scared women and it makes me ten times worse
 
Molly - snap on saying she should google rather than posting in first tri. Everyone is way to hung up on losses over there, it scares newbies unnecessarily. I didn't join until the end of first tri thank goodness! Didn't really bother with it this time.

Pink my family know about our financial stuff which is fine, I know we can rely on them if we are desperate though we haven't needed to yet. I wish DH's family cared enough to ask as his mum and dad are both loaded and the one time he asked for support when everything was horrendous they were like whatever and even said it was fine for my retired on state pension parents to offer us help but they in their half million pound houses and the likes couldn't possibly help us out with anything! :growlmad: They've known how he's lived since he turned 18 and left home. I think there's a happy medium!
 
Couldn't stop myself from posting on that thread. It really ticked me off.
 
I think though it really makes you appreciate 'things' in the right way. All James' Xmas pressies were second hand pretty much and this birthday we were able to buy something new and it was really nice! We have been struggling for so long it makes you realise what you actually 'need' we're lucky that we haven't really got much debt so we can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes I feel so guilty when I read on here what people buy their kids, we could never afford that stuff, but James is such a happy content little boy and actually really appreciates when he gets a new toy, he sits nicely in the car and I really think it's because we've never fussed over him if that makes sense? He's never had toys or music on or anything, and those babies I know who have are really fussy in the car!
Woa that went off on one lol
 
:haha: I dunno. I steered clear of first tri, but as I was scrolling down the forum lists it was there and I got curious. :dohh: Bad girl! :rofl:
 
You're right pink, I think people do buy their kids too much stuff, generally speaking. DH is a Geordie and in the NE there is a big tradition of spending ENORMOUS quantities of money on presents and getting into debt for the whole year. We both suppose it's down to it being generally quite poor across the NE and people feel they have to make up for that. DH's mum buys so much for his little sister, I could never believe it. I think she would get as much in one year as I got my whole childhood. She does it to make up for not being a terribly good mother tbh. It's sad. :(
 
Kids don't need a lot, and it's amazing how quickly they pick up on stuff like that! James would rather play with his balloons yesterday :rofl:

My DH is a tight Yorkshireman lol
 
Claire most the toys we have got abby are mine from being younger tehy were all kept so well we have just washed them.
We will be looking at this lovely toy shop I have found so matt can say the sorts of things he would like. then everything she gets will be gifts. a very spoiled child probably but I hope not an antisocial ones
 
Peanut taht is so weird. Have a wearsider(cough got to get it right) dad he was never like that. Yes he did try and get decent birthday and christmas presents but never bankrupted himself. My mum on the other side tried to spoil me rotton though she had a childhood with very little material goods not taht she has ever understood that its not whats needed.

I want paint for abby shes going to get sooo messy
 
Bloody balloons! We spend months with them knocking around the house after parties! I've got a couple of tubs of my old soft toys too though we've not really had to get many out. Byron gets bought loads from his stupid grandparents so we hardly buy him anything to make up for it!

I looked at that thread. It's actually worse than I thought it would be!
 
Molly obviously I'm generalising but I've heard it often from people who have moved away or moved there from elsewhere and 9 years of living there I saw a lot of waste in very poor areas around Christmas time. I mean visible stuff like quad bikes and the likes! My SIL got an iphone 4 from her Grandma for Christmas, she's 14!
 
Lol peanut! I sent a whole load bk home with my little sister. (she's four!)
 
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