Mothers day dread

[Peach Blossom]

I just went for a walk with my DH. We saw a sign on a pub for a 'Mother's day special' and he asked when Mother's day is. I just shook my head in disbelief and then started to well up again. We had planned to tell everyone that I was pregnant on Mother's day... He couldn't understand why I was upset. Am I being a drama queen? The idea of Mother's day is filling me with dread. Not only will we not be telling people, but it will also be a reminder of what I've lost again. I want to be a mother so so much..

Sort of luckily for me, my Mum lives in Hong Kong so I can hopefully hide away for the day and avoid it all. The closer we get to the 22nd though the more I dread it.

 

[rachjim98]

 

[orange-sox]

I know exactly where you're coming from with this... I am really dreading Mothers Day, even more so because OH is going to his mum and dads, and I'm staying here with my mum, so will be expected to put on a happy face and get on with it... not only will it be mothers day, but also coming upto a month since we lost Seb

Urgh, I'm feeling sorry for myself just thinking about the day, I just want to stay in bed all day and eat ice cream

 

[Peach Blossom]

I know exactly where you're coming from with this... I am really dreading Mothers Day, even more so because OH is going to his mum and dads, and I'm staying here with my mum, so will be expected to put on a happy face and get on with it... not only will it be mothers day, but also coming upto a month since we lost Seb

Urgh, I'm feeling sorry for myself just thinking about the day, I just want to stay in bed all day and eat ice cream

to you hon.

 

[Barneyboo]

 

[ClaireyF]

i know how you feel, each mothers day i dread because i lost my mother when i was young but this year is going to be do difficult, my angel babies should have been born about 4w ago and i should have been a mummy now. i am trying to stay focused because i am lucky enough to be pg again but the pain from my mc has never gone even though it was last july xxx

 

[celine]

Im so sorry sweets
I know miracles do happen after the sadness, a good friend of mine had a baby last year, a baby boy but he had something wrong with him and she had to be induced at 6 months, he lived 3 months and died on Mothers Day 2008 - she never got to take him home to her nursery filled with toys and love
She has since been so blessed and gave birth to a healthy little boy 2 weeks before the anniversary of his brothers birth - so this year she will finally be able to celebrate
I hope your world will turn around and you will be as blessed soon *hugs*

 

[Peach Blossom]

Here's hoping for a miracle...