Samantha675
Maybe baby #3?!?
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Id decided before getting pregnant I wanted to do everything in my power to have a sucessful HB this time around. Different midwife, doula and separate birthing classes from the ones MWs tend to offer. I found a MW I really like and since becoming pregnant she had partnered with another MW. Since the 2nd MW has been working longer I asked her for doula recommendations to which she replied "I don't have any. I prefer not to work with them but will if you feel you need one.". The more I think on this the more uncomfortable and unhappy it makes me. I don't need the added worry and stress of thinking my MW won't be happy about my doula being there.
Advice? And as easy as it is to say "oh don't worry about how she feels, it's your birth." I feel more like she isn't fully supporting what I need.
Advice? And as easy as it is to say "oh don't worry about how she feels, it's your birth." I feel more like she isn't fully supporting what I need.