CJHanson
2 boys 1 angel baking#4
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I found out at my ultrasound yesterday, 10+1, that baby had stopped growing at 8+1 and the heart had stopped beating. I had my D and C today around 11 am, at 10+2. Right now I'm just sad, confused, mad, frustrated and so very lost. It got delayed 4 hours... it was awful just laying in that room waiting! I'm in quite a bit of pain but there's not nearly as much blood as I had thought, which I'm thankful for. I'm still completely heartbroken. When I saw him this morning I asked my doctor (my OB for the last 7 years whom I love and adore!) if there was any way they could be wrong and he said no. Once I went in to the OR I requested that they not put me to sleep until I could talk to him again, I asked him once more if he was sure there was no possibility of a mistake, he told me he watched the video and reviewed the ultrasound and told me there was absolutely no way there was a mistake... I cried as he held my hand. I fell asleep seconds after that while I was still crying... I woke up the same way, crying and screaming begging them to give my baby back and repeating that there couldn't be anything wrong with it... even though I know that's not true... I saw the baby on the ultrasound screen, I knew. This IS my baby, no matter what happened. I am beyond broken, my soul aches and I am so incredibly sad to be leaving.