lol thanks everyone, I have had people asking me am I sure my dates are right etc etc but I have had hyperemesis since 6 weeks so I actually lost almost a stone and as I can only eat white bread, cheese and fruit I'm actually very malnourished too so anything I've gained is all baby and amazingly enough baby is spot on size for my dates, I guess cos I'm also tall there's more length for bubs to stretch out, I was actually bigger than this with my first even though I carried her neat too, though when I sit down I don't have a pregnant lady bump as such more of a fat muffin top look, though I can still fit in my regular jeans. Even though my bump is small it's actually still accompanied with the usual backache and feeling like a big lump so take heart all the ladies with the bigger bumps that us smaller bump ladies are just as uncomfortable as you, only difference is if baby lies in an awkward way or I bloat it is a lot more noticeable as my belly seems to balloon then! I will be so glad when this pregnancy is over cos of the sickness of the HG as I can't wait to be able to eat proper food again!