my dad is seriously psycho! :(

[bsd]

My OH and I moved in with my parents at the end of this pregnancy and plan to bring the LO here. We did this due to financial reasons because it was the safest and surest way we would have everything for the LO, including heat. BUT we knew how hard it would be because my parents are crazy. Mostly my dad. He literally has serious mental issues that I cant even begin to describe. He doesn't work 'because of them'. I really can't explain them or his personality its something you'd have to experience to fully understand but believe me when I say its so awful. He is just extremely negative, he CANNOT say anything positive at all, absolutely everything has a bad side and thats the point he makes in all his conversations. He is inconsiderate and lazy. To be putting it frankly, he is an asshole.
Me and the OH knew this when we decided to move in (we didn't know it had gotten that bad though) and the one thing we were worried about was keeping our cool with him. You cannot reason with him or try talking with him.. he doesn't see it any other way but his way. So basically him not having a job and me not having a job I'm home with him all day and I have to hear him say awful negative things to me all day and the only thing I can do about it is just nod and agree, no matter how ridiculous. Thats the easiest way to handle him because what ever you have to say to get him to stop talking to you faster is better off for you.
Any way I hide out in my room as much as possible but I still have to eat and do dishes and do laundry and other stuff so of course when I'm downstairs and he comes down he has to give me his two sense about every little thing in my life. I am doing pretty good at ignoring everything he says but for example, today when I warned him that after the baby is born I wont be doing dishes everyday and he's going to need to help out a lot more he blew it out of proportion. Telling me that I'm "too concerned with the baby" and my life can't just stop because I'm having a kid. I really do try to just ignore everything he says because I know he's crazy, but seriously!?! How can you be 'too concerned' with a newborn baby. Wouldn't that make me a good parent you dumbass!!!!

Sorry for the rant I'm so just upset I just want to cry I know I have to put up with him for that is my only option right now but it's getting so hard.. he so god damn crazy and I know once the LO gets here I will loose it on his ass if he crosses lines. (he crosses lines every conversation he has, I just always try to ignore it! )

I'm just in an awful situation and there is no way out

 

[xforuiholdonx]

so sorry your in this nutty situation!

 

[bsd]

Thanks.. its getting so hard to keep my cool, my OH seriously gets so mad at my dad which I don't blame him! We just have to work our butts off to save money so we can get out of here asap! But in the meantime... it totally sucks