my ex

[lindad2604]

As you know my ex had an affair and moved out when our baby was 10 months old, she is now 19 months old and last night we had a blazin row on the phone over the woman he had the affair with and I turned round and said aw well my new fella is moving in with me just so you know! Im not dating anyone but he went beserk and Ive had his mother on the phone also giving off. Why would that happen, I dont understand why that would annoy him as hes the one that has moved on.

 

[Dezireey]

pffft ownership, lack of control, one can only guess why men get their backs up when WE decide to move on with another man. yeah he could be jealous and be hurt but the way I see it, whenever a boyfriend of mine has got the hump about me having a new fella, I just ignored them unless they took action to get me back. Good for you for putting the wind up his sails, hope he realises what he's lost. I think i am going to lie a bit in the future and choose a day ( too early yet he would be suspicious) to tell FOB I have met someone new. Just to get my own back a little bit

 

[Lemonflower]

Well. My FOB left me, got with a girl 6 weeks later (he may have been seeing her while we were together I'm still unsure) and moved in with her in less then 2 months.

Even though he hasn't seen his son in the 9 weeks since his been born apart from once briefly when he was a week old. He had the audacity to call me a slag to mutual friends when he found out I am seeing someone.
He doesn't want either of us but he's pissed off someone else does. My new fella walks past my ex's work everyday and my ex gives him evils! WTF - lol!

 

[Shezza84uk]

Don't let him anywhere near you! He would be annoyed they like to think their gods gift and you can't move on..

His mum has a nerve calling why didn't she tell her son he's a deadbeat dad like the rest of the arseholes around ugh if he's anything like my ex he will be thinking about how to interfere with your "new bf" I was stupid enough to break up with someone for my ex then after the coast was clear he took off again! Let him be territorial ignore his crap you are entitled to move on if he wanted his family he would be there!

Ugh I hate men

 

[Laura2919]

That is when they all learn their lesson unfortunately.. It takes for their lack of control to make them see that the way they want it isn't the way it is or the way it is gonna be.

Men don't realise how easy it is to slowly fade from a childs life and for another man to replace them. Men think they can walk out or leave and then no man enter into that family home again. Personally I am sick to my back teeth of how some men think they can just get away with not even being interested enough in their children but think they can control how we live our lives.

 

[lilly78]

i would say jealous, men always think the grass is greener, they think they are indispensable, good luck in the future.

 

[Laura2919]

I agree they all think the grass is greener until the shiny new relationship status dies down and they realise all women deep down are the same.

 

[lindad2604]

Aw i dont know anymore! I was sick a few days there and fob came and tidied my house and done my washing for me. I never asked him to do it like wtf he left cos he didnt care about me??

 

[Laura2919]

Don't be sucked in unless you really think he's changed.

I am not a believer in people changing..

 

[special_kala]

Its ownership.

The girls dad called me a "fucking whore" when i even hinted at me and another guy about 10 minutes after he admitted to already seeing someone and sleeping with them