My first appointment tomorrow!! Help!!

[Rachyf]

Hi ladies, I have my first appointment with the consultant tomorrow! It's our first try at ivf after 3 1/2 years ttc and I'm so nervous I could scream!! My DH doesn't understand, so was hoping some of you ladies could give me any tips or hints on what to expect and what to ask!!

 

[Coolstar]

I know what you are going through. Sometime even I feel that my dh doesn't understand . But then maybe they do feel but cannot express. Men are different from us.
About your appointment don't worry much. Ask your doctor in details about how the ivf cycle will work for you. Success rate, possible failure, side effects of meds, do they do day 3 or day 5 transfer (risk/ benefit of each), chances of failures, cost, chances of multiples, cost of storage of sperm and egg.
Wish you all the luck, lots of hugs to you.

 

[Rachyf]

Oh thank you so much!! I just have so much stuff going through my head!! I'm sure it will be ok once I'm doing it, it's just the waiting around I can't bare!!!! X