Come_Bebe
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So when I had my first child my mom was around the entire time. After my daughter was about 3 weeks old my mothers mom had a stroke. I stopped seeing my mother but I understood the circumstances. Today I sit here writing this in need of support my daughter is 9 months today I'm pregnant with my second and my mom doesn't give a shit.
Isn't a Mother suppose to be loving and supportive of her child and most importantly of her grandchild? So I confronted my mom awhile ago telling her how I was hurt and that she doesn't spend anytime with my daughter so she started coming around religiously. After 2 weeks of that. It stopped again. Her excuse is that she has a lot to do. Mind you my mom doesn't work she's a homemaker with no children under 22. She always wants to be with her mother and will make all the time in the world for her siblings but how come she never wants to hang out with her daughters or grand daughter. Am I mistaken? Do I have a right to be hurt? I was trying to tell my mom this morning a coughis her priorities are in the wrong place and she didn't care. I said if you don't want to be a good grandmother or mother there shouldn't be a reason for you to be in our lives. She said I don't care. I said so if I take away your granddaughter and you can't see her anymore you don't care? She said it's up to you. I don't care what you do. So I responded with you don't have a daughter anymore or a granddaughter forget I exist. Don't call me I don't want to ever hear from you again. Then I hung up.
Isn't a Mother suppose to be loving and supportive of her child and most importantly of her grandchild? So I confronted my mom awhile ago telling her how I was hurt and that she doesn't spend anytime with my daughter so she started coming around religiously. After 2 weeks of that. It stopped again. Her excuse is that she has a lot to do. Mind you my mom doesn't work she's a homemaker with no children under 22. She always wants to be with her mother and will make all the time in the world for her siblings but how come she never wants to hang out with her daughters or grand daughter. Am I mistaken? Do I have a right to be hurt? I was trying to tell my mom this morning a coughis her priorities are in the wrong place and she didn't care. I said if you don't want to be a good grandmother or mother there shouldn't be a reason for you to be in our lives. She said I don't care. I said so if I take away your granddaughter and you can't see her anymore you don't care? She said it's up to you. I don't care what you do. So I responded with you don't have a daughter anymore or a granddaughter forget I exist. Don't call me I don't want to ever hear from you again. Then I hung up.