My Mum's Kicked me out!!

[mummyluv]

So if you read my previous post you'll know that my mum was really angry about my pregnany and wanted me to have an 'a'

Then when, like sugested, I left it a few days (Told her a couple of Days before I posted it) and went back last night she asked me if I had 'come to my senses' and told me that I am not welcome under her roof whilst I'm pregnant. Last time I didn't really think she was serious because she was shouting and screaming so i thaught she was just upset. But yesterday she had a really calm serious expression on and from exprience that is the face she does when she isn't budging.

I don't want to loose my mum but I'm not willing to give up my baby just because she doesn't want the 'Shame' of having a teen daughter whose pregnant. It's just not fair. All other parents inolved are happy. My Dad and step-mum are being very supportive along with OH parents.

Just needed some advice about how to handle it and if anyones been in a simaler situation before??? xoxo

 

[Feff]

I'm lucky that I've had full support from my family but I'm sorry your mam is being like this if I were you I'd try and have a calm but serious conversation with her, or you could write her a letter? There's a good chance that she's just shocked and upset and that's why she's reacted this way so try and give her a bit of space and time then try and have a chat I hope everything turns out okay xx

 

[teenmommy15]

its hard not to have your mothers support but your LO is more important right now. See if you can stay with your OH or you dad since they're both supportive. Atleast your dad and step mom are being very supportive. I know that it doesnt help but you have to just hope she comes around and just focus on you and your LO right now.

 

[jozylynn896]

You need to make sure you have a home overll hun. That's the most important thing.
Try talking to.your mum but be serious. Tell her therea no way you're getting rid of.this baby and that you'd rather accept the.responsibilty and be a mom.

 

[skyesmom]

she's probably under shock and sort of blaming herself for you being pregnant and seeing it as her own failure as a mother. she shouldn't be forcing you into anything, and you won't lose her in the long run.

can you move over to your dad and your stepmom if they are being supportive? or move in with your oh? just leave her some time (maybe some months) to get around the situation. your LO and you are more important then your mom. and she will wrap her head around it eventually.

 

[MummyMana]

Maybe point out to her that the baby isn't just "a baby" but her own grandchild? In her anger she may not have seen it that way