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Hi Guys,
So my husband went for his first check up today + had to give his first sample. The poor thing he was really nervous, but he was just getting on with it.
He literally came back green and shaky + said it is the worst things he had to go through.
I just feel so bad for him.
We have been TTC for over a year and a half + we said we would get the ball rolling + get checked out, he wants to go get checked out before me.
I feel so sorry for him, I know it is what we have to do, but the whole process is so demeaning. He said he felt so embaressed, even though he was reassured by other guys being there and obviously for the same thing.
The good thing is he did manage to give a sample, but here is the worst part, the nurse he had to give the sample too made a comment about how poor it was
the silly cow, i would love to get my hands on her!! how insensitive. she could have just said nothing.
So he came home + he is so down
I know he will be fine, but he has to go back in a couple of weeks + I dont know how either of us are going to cope 
The things we have to go through for a little bambino
So my husband went for his first check up today + had to give his first sample. The poor thing he was really nervous, but he was just getting on with it.
He literally came back green and shaky + said it is the worst things he had to go through.

We have been TTC for over a year and a half + we said we would get the ball rolling + get checked out, he wants to go get checked out before me.
I feel so sorry for him, I know it is what we have to do, but the whole process is so demeaning. He said he felt so embaressed, even though he was reassured by other guys being there and obviously for the same thing.
The good thing is he did manage to give a sample, but here is the worst part, the nurse he had to give the sample too made a comment about how poor it was

So he came home + he is so down


The things we have to go through for a little bambino
