My rant!!!!!!!! :'(

[Ashleylove]

Hi I am a newby n ive been trying for my 1st child for sometime now I am 25 and I have never been pregnant a day n my LIFE and im starting to think I cant have kids even tho I get a normal period it just seem like children of my own wont be in my future and my bf has two kids from a previous relationship so I no it isnt him ive talked to my gyno he said everything seems to look good but if I dont get pregnant by the end of the year then he's going to do a ultrasound to make sure my tubs arent blocked or anything but this is where my rant comes n how come tha ones who would make tha best moms have so much trouble getting pregnant but the ones who could careless bout their children are having them left and right I just dont understand it how can u feel complete as a woman when u cant give tha man u luv a child *tears* its like my heart is broken and tired every month im always dissappointed but yet my 18yr.old sister who has the mind of a 12yr.old is 7months pregnant im.sooo angry but yet I put a smile on my face and pretend im happy for her but deep down im not I no.selfish rite but I could go on forever but im not gone burden you guys with my issues but I spread baby dust for each and everyone u of girls n pray that everyone gets that BFP!!!!!!

BLESSINGS TO YOU

 

[Iwantababybad]

OMG reading this is like reading the story of my life every single thing on here i'm with u 100%. Since i was in my early 20's i felt i couldn't conceive. and now that we been trying since june im getting frustrated. My friend just told me today she got a BFP today and i mixed emotions happy and jealous at the same time. My 2 younger sisters got pregnant at 17 and the other at 19. I felt like i did everything right. I got my career going, bought my home got married and now i feel hopeless. Went to doc yesterday and he's conserned about my 41 day cycles now i gotta do an ultrasound on wed and some blood work in 3 weeks. I knew this ride wasn't gonna be smooth. I hope this is our month im suppose to ovulate on the 30th . good luck and let's not get discourage and to both of us

 

[Ashleylove]

I hope this month is our month im really not sure when I ovulate but my gyno told me to have sex on tha 13th 14th n 15th day of my cycle n I should be pregnant and 2 to 3 months lol it sounds so easy doesnt it but he said if I dont fall pregnant which he said he's pretty sure I am then come back n we'll figure out wats going on (i luv him lol) but me n my bf baby dance pretty much everyday all this month my period is due oct.6 so hopefully she wont show up......even if its not imma try n take ur advice n not get discouraged but I hope u get that bfp this month......best wishes

 

[flangel813]

I totall understand your frustration. A friend of mine has gotten pregnant twice since I've been off the pill. I've just finished my basic testing this summer and had an HSG to check my tubes. We've been trying for 1 year and NTNP the year before that. Everything came back normal so I can't figure out why no :BFP: yet. Sad to say but I was actually hoping one of the tests would find something wrong...arrrgh!

 

[Ashleylove]

Unfortunately we all in the same boat but I dont feel alone anymore I wish we didnt all have to go thru this but atleast we have each other on here to give some type of comfort n no that we r not alone but I send u tons of babydust and hopefully all of us will be on the BFP forum this year.....