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So. Yesterday I was at war with myself.. I couldn't decide whether I should call and check on the status of my child support case, or just let it go and take care of lo.
Yesterday around lunch I gave them a ring and discovered a court date had been set, and that someone (they claim I did) called.. gave them my social security number and changed my address (I think it was FOB no wonder why he's been calling talking about childsupport.). The only way I can get it changed now is to send in my picture id, ss number, and a hand written letter saying I want to change it. Our court date is a few months away and I would like to know what to expect.
Could you please share with me your expierence? FOB has refused to do a DNA test willingly infact we scheduled a date through the state to have one done and he through a tantrum because I had taken my lo there before there we a lot of people to have the test done he went into the office discovered we'd already been there and walked out. he did manage to call me and say see you in court. I know for a fact that he will have to have one when we go so does lo have to be there if they already have our swabs from previously? Are there going to be alot of people in there? Is it like a big room court room? Should I seek a lawyer( I honestly can't afford one)? I just want to know what to expect. My mother isn't a fan of FOB but she doesn't believe I should push for support. as it's kinda my fault for continuing our physical relationship after he kicked me out our home. . . anywho I hope someone has gone through this.. I would hate to be a worry wart for the next few months and it's nothing to worry about.
Yesterday around lunch I gave them a ring and discovered a court date had been set, and that someone (they claim I did) called.. gave them my social security number and changed my address (I think it was FOB no wonder why he's been calling talking about childsupport.). The only way I can get it changed now is to send in my picture id, ss number, and a hand written letter saying I want to change it. Our court date is a few months away and I would like to know what to expect.
Could you please share with me your expierence? FOB has refused to do a DNA test willingly infact we scheduled a date through the state to have one done and he through a tantrum because I had taken my lo there before there we a lot of people to have the test done he went into the office discovered we'd already been there and walked out. he did manage to call me and say see you in court. I know for a fact that he will have to have one when we go so does lo have to be there if they already have our swabs from previously? Are there going to be alot of people in there? Is it like a big room court room? Should I seek a lawyer( I honestly can't afford one)? I just want to know what to expect. My mother isn't a fan of FOB but she doesn't believe I should push for support. as it's kinda my fault for continuing our physical relationship after he kicked me out our home. . . anywho I hope someone has gone through this.. I would hate to be a worry wart for the next few months and it's nothing to worry about.
I've never been through this myself so I've got no advice, but I just want to say good luck 
your ex doesn't sound very nice. I hope things work out well and they do what's best for you and your LO.
