Well, we're still up in the air about a few things. Since you bring this up, I hope you don't mind if I hi-jack for a second? I promise I'll get to the baby names... I like the idea of doing a hyphenate of our last names, he thinks it's a mouthful (and to be honest, that's true, but I still like the idea!). So I get that the last name means more to him than it does to me, so I want the kids to have something from my family as a middle name, and then I think we should agree on the first name. I think that sounds fair... But he wants to let his mother name one of our girls because she never had any girls! I don't know if I am being ridiculous, but I really don't want that, I feel really prematurely offended to possibly not have ANY PART in the naming of one of my children. I don't even like the name that she's had in mind for years. Super plain - not that I dislike it on others, it does sound nice, but way too plain for my liking for my own children.
I would really like to give our sons middle names to be my maiden name and my mother's maiden name, but I have some lee-way there... Could also do father's name and maternal grandfather's, etc. etc. But I want to represent my family somewhere in there. I want my family to be represented too!
Then the girls I'd like to give either mother's/grandmother's middle names, or just super Irish middle names.
But I digress... The first names that I love for girls are Maisy and Eleanor, and we've discussed Max for a boy.