nearing date in pregnancy of my last mc

[welshmummy2be]

freaking out a bit (understatement there) im 3 days short in this pregnancy of my previous MC and im constantly going to the loo checking...im so frustrated about it, i've had an early scan done last week but i feel they are kinda like CRB checks (only viable at time printed/time of scan) i now have another 4 weeks wait for another scan so so so stressed out though. all i feel like doing is crying not only that but i dont feel like i can talk to my OH about it although i am very open with him he keeps saying dont worry it'll be fine but this just makes me more annoyed and i hate when people say when this baby comes etc (being an open family everyone knew from the day i found out) JUST WANT TO SCREAM and somehow fall asleep until after the 12 week mark

 

[reversal]

my oh was like that when i got pregnant i was saying something didn't feel right he would say its fine your worrying over nothing, we had a scan at 7wks 5 days and baby was fine he said you see now will you stop worrying, i couldn't as i knew something was wrong it just didnt feel right, i had a bleed on the 14th and was told on the 16th i'd had a mmc at 8 and a half weeks less than a week after the scan. I think you can somtimes feel that somethings wrong, hope you have a healthy baby and can stop stressing after your scan

 

[hb1]

It is always stressful approaching a milestone - your prev mc point or even a scan - the doubts come creeping in - take heart - the most likely outcome is a good one

hx

 

[mislaww]

Ugh. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I know the feeling. I couldn't breathe until I passed that point. My hubby and I went to our ultrasound like we were heading to a funeral, entirely ready to start the grieving and pain all over again. Best surprise ever when the tech said "okay I see baby and a heartbeat, now go empty your bladder!" I'm hoping for a happy ending for you - and perhaps more importantly right now, that the time between now and then flies for you!

 

[welshmummy2be]

thanks ladies, counting away the days...2 more to go, thankfully my new job has come to the rescue a bit and given me shifts which seem to keep my mind from thinking to much x

 

[mummywants]

hey hun iam feeling the same way at the min i had a misscarage at 8 week 4 days and iam now pregnet again im just turning 8 week iam so scared xxx

 

[welshmummy2be]

cant help thinking the worse, im on the same stage now as i was when i lost last baby. now i've starting getting really bad lower back ache so scared im losing again really judt want to bury my head in the sand and cry the ocean