Violet3
Mama to 1 baba <3
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Well just so any of my regular BnB friends are aware, this isn't about MY nearly-nine-year-old ! That would be impossible since I don't have a child (not for the next few months anyway )
So here's the problem. My MIL has an 8 year old who will be 9 very shortly. This is what happens, practically EVERY night:
So please, anyone, ADVICE !
Thank you, Vi x
So here's the problem. My MIL has an 8 year old who will be 9 very shortly. This is what happens, practically EVERY night:
- 9 o'clock- bedtime. Child is taken up to bed.
- Child's mum reads story. Instead of falling asleep, Child constantly asks questions about the book and queries what will happen in tomorrow nights' read.
- Child will not go to sleep. Child's mum stays in room, exhausted, sometimes for more than 2 hours.
- Once Child finally drops off, Child's Mum leaves room. (OR Child refuses to go to sleep so Child's Mum gets into his bed and they BOTH fall asleep- resulting in Child's Mum being exhausted when she wakes up and returns to her own bed.)
- If Child wakes up and his mum is not there, he either goes downstairs to get her, shouts 'Mum ! Mum !!', or sits at the top of the stairs until someone notices he is there and insists that he has been sat there for anything up to '12 hours'.
- If Child's Mum is too exhausted to go back into his room and stay with him for ages AGAIN then Child's Dad offers to go and tuck him in. Child refuses his dad's offer and insists on his mum taking him back to bed.
- Sometimes Child wakes up constantly during the night, claiming to want a glass of water or to have had a nightmare. This results in Mum getting up at intervals of sometimes every couple of hours during the night, even when she has to get up for work at 6 in the morning. She gets mad with him (who wouldn't ?), and he ends up crying.
So please, anyone, ADVICE !
Thank you, Vi x