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[MinneGirl]

Holy moly---that is A LOT of bd'ing!!!!! Maybe we will try the twice a day plan next month (if we need to) as well! I thought once a day was slightly exhausting though--after about day 7!! Yes, please stick around and give us updates--and send lots of dust our way. Hopefully we will all be joining you SOOOOOOOOOON!

 

[membas#1]

A healthy dose of dust for you all

RE: excessive BDing...it's not so bad if you can target your few most fertile days and just do it 2x day on a few days--I was done by the time we got through O--i love my man and i love to BD, but I was done and my lady bits needed some serious time off! If i hadn't gotten the early days of EWCM we would have done the 2x day on CD 15, 16, 17...SO was surely happy with all the BDing action...but even he needed a break--for a day! I needed about 3 days off!

 

[MinneGirl]

You give me inspiration!!! If I need to next month, we are trying the 2x per day thing!

 

[dragonfly26]

Oh I just can't express how happy I am for you membas!!! I know I said it already but congrats!!! This is so exciting!!! You make me want to test early. I'm only 10 DPO, but I know that's when you found out, it's making it really hard to wait!!! I have been symptom spotting like I did last month due to the fact that I did last month and could have sworn I had all these symptoms just to be let down. I did take note to the fact that on saturday while camping around noon I got this wave a nausea and on saturday night when trying to fall asleep at like 1 am I was super nausous. I laid in bed for like an hour debating if i should just get up and puke. I'm probably just grasping, but I'm am trying to have a pma.

 

[membas#1]

Thanks Dragonfly. I think it depends on how you will feel if it's neg at 10 DPO. I sort of when into it thinking "ok, it's early...still 5 days before AF, this will probably be BFN", especially cuz it wasn't FMU. That's the same attitude I had at 9 DPO and got BFN and really wasn't too disappointed cuz it was early. So if you have the attitude that it's early and BFN more likely than not, it's easier to see it and move on to the next day. I know that feeling gets harder the closer AF gets, but you aren't out till she gets here, right?! I thought I'd wait till 13 to test, but I couldn't

As for symptom spotting--I did a ton of it Cant' remember if I listed my symptoms in my past post...but the short of it (what was different from AF anyways) sore nipples, waves of light headed feelings, gassy and most recently pressure in uterus..not quite AF cramps but fullness/pressure from inside.

Good luck!

MinnieGirl--I'd say if you have to, and I'm hoping you won't! Then shoot for those 2x daily to fall day before O, day of O, and day after O. That's what I was originally going for....and we did try to space them out by at least 12 hours. GL to you! Hoping you wont' have to try this method!

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Hey Membas! Congrats that is really really awesome news!!! Im so happy for you, you musts be thrilled.
Oh how exciting, one of us finally have a BFP, fx theres more to come this month.

As for me, ive been testing every day since i got that stupid evap line, & so far nothing, at least i dont think so - not sure if im making myself see faint lines cos i want one so much. But Im feeling really positive this month which is a bit of a change, by now ive normally decided that the witch is coming. So AF is due tomorrow if its going to be a 25 day cycle again, I hope it does arrive tomorrow if Im not preggo, otherwise Im gonna go crazy waiting for it.

Its so so cool to see a bfp finally, yay for Membas!
For the rest of us!!

 

[MinneGirl]

Yay...we need more BFP's! Let's keep em' coming!! BabyDreamer, Fx'd for you! I hope the witch doesn't show up!

I'm 8 dpo (my ticker is off) today and not feeling very hopeful. I have absolutely NO symptoms...nothing. My boobs usually hurt, but nope, not this month. Maybe around 10dpo something will start to change?! It's pretty boring not even being able to symptom spot! LOL

I had a really bad day on Sunday. I found out one of my best friends is pregnant--and was only off the pill for one month. I'm happy for her, but feel so dissapointed at the same time, feeling like everyone is going to pass me up, and I'll be left with no baby. I just want it SO bad...I know you all can relate. So I had about a 30 mn pity party for myself and then picked myself up brushed myself off.

 

[MinneGirl]

Dragonfly, just noticed you are approaching testing as well! We are all starting to have similar cycles! Keeping everything crossed for you girls!

 

[dragonfly26]

Dragonfly, just noticed you are approaching testing as well! We are all starting to have similar cycles! Keeping everything crossed for you girls!

I am trying to hard not to test early I have not been symptom spotting like I was last cycle so that has been making it a bit easier, but maybe I have not been doing so because I don't really have any symptoms MinneGirl as far as not having any symptoms, that is not a bad thing. Many people don't have any symptoms and they get their BFP. With that being said, many people feel they have symptoms( ah um, me last month) and they aren't pregnant. so you really can't go by that. I have my FX and sending lots of babydust for me and my ttc buddies!!!

 

[BabyDreamer82]

well AF isnt here this morning yay, but i got another bfn so bugger.
Ive been trying not to symptom spot too much & i havent real had many anyway. Ive had really sore bbs, not so much to touch but much more than normal, but Ive been taking Maca this cycle & I think I read somewhere that it can make your bbs hurt? Other than that just some cramping, real runny nose (but it is winter here & really cold) & lack of bloating.

 

[MinneGirl]

Fx'd BabyDreamer!!!!

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Thanks MinneGirl, fx for you too!!

 

[dragonfly26]

I sure hope you get your BFP!!! Tons of babydust for you!!!

 

[membas#1]

to you BabyDreamer! Hope you get your BFP in the next few days! Well actually I hope you ALL get your BFPs in the next few days--there are several of you right in the same part of 2WW. GL! Fx'd!

 

[dragonfly26]

Hello ladies!! Well I went home this evening and I just couldn't wait until the weekend to test, so I did and I got it!!!I can't believe it, I am just beside myself w/excitement. My dh said I better go to the store and get more just in case that one was faulty, so I did, I had to wait an hour so I could pee and sure enough, I swear it was positive before I even finished peeing. I am just amazed how fast and dark they are, YAY!!!! Fx and baby dust for my ladies

 

[membas#1]

YAY Dragonfly! I'm so thrilled for you!!!!!! You must be so freaking excited! We'll be bump buddies! Happy day to you

 

[MinneGirl]

HOLY CRAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Two in two days.....OMG! Dragonfly....CONGRATS! What month was this for you?! Did you do anything different? Please share ALL details!

We need to keep this streak going--big time!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ahhhhh! I am SO thrilled for you!

 

[MinneGirl]

Just changed my signature dragonfly....ahhh....I hope I can join you soooooonnnn!!!!!

 

[membas#1]

You will MinnieGirl!

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Oh my God Dragonfly that is awesome, Im so happy for you!! oh i could almost cry

Please do share all the details, I really hope this is a streak.
I want a BFP too!!!