First, let me just give my strength and encouragement to everyone on the assisted conception page. I hope your dreams come true. The reason I'm postings is to get others insights into how to know whether it makes sense to continue with ivf. My bio- after 6 fresh ivf cycles (including one miscarriage) we got pregnant with our daughter. I was 38 at the time (tried for 2-3 years). Now I'm 40, and after another miscarriage, we have been trying to bank embryos for PGS testing. We have two blasts to test. Every cycle I get about 8 eggs and have embryos on day 3, but they usually fizzle out by day 5, so not getting great quality embryos. Would you continue trying to bank, go back to 3 day transfers, give up? Doctor wants 6-8 blasts to test but not sure if I will ever get there! It is so hard to know what to do because I'm still getting eggs, if I weren't it would be an easier decision to quit (because the decision would kinda be made for me). Anyway, lots of women with lots of experiences here - any words of wisdom appreciated. And best of luck to you all, I have been there!