lindadonovan
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I lost a baby in 2nd trimester, a while back.
I continued to attend my Sunday school class, however, a woman in the class would get up in the middle of class, go get her infant out of the nursery, bring the infant into class and breastfeed in front of me and everyone else (its a mixed group - men and women). She seemed really smug about it. I couldn't handle this right after losing my own baby. I also felt some of the men in the class felt uncomfortable with her exposing her breast. I told everyone I wouldn't come back to class for a while because I needed time to grieve.
Now someone has contacted me asking me why I am still not coming back to class. Should I tell her the class is not the best environment for me? And how would I say that? The behavior in the class is not constructive for anyone, in my opinion. I have nothing against breastfeeding because I breastfed my first child, but I don't attend Sunday school class to watch a woman breastfeed and watch the mens' faces turn red.
I could also just refuse to give a reason why I'm not returning. That might be rather harsh though. I just don't know. Yes, I am still bitter about my loss and I'm sorry if that comes through in this post.
I continued to attend my Sunday school class, however, a woman in the class would get up in the middle of class, go get her infant out of the nursery, bring the infant into class and breastfeed in front of me and everyone else (its a mixed group - men and women). She seemed really smug about it. I couldn't handle this right after losing my own baby. I also felt some of the men in the class felt uncomfortable with her exposing her breast. I told everyone I wouldn't come back to class for a while because I needed time to grieve.
Now someone has contacted me asking me why I am still not coming back to class. Should I tell her the class is not the best environment for me? And how would I say that? The behavior in the class is not constructive for anyone, in my opinion. I have nothing against breastfeeding because I breastfed my first child, but I don't attend Sunday school class to watch a woman breastfeed and watch the mens' faces turn red.
I could also just refuse to give a reason why I'm not returning. That might be rather harsh though. I just don't know. Yes, I am still bitter about my loss and I'm sorry if that comes through in this post.